Getting your partner more open about their weight and size?

Milhause:
I was taught the two things you NEVER ask a woman (should be ppl in general tho): their age and their weight.

I guess you need to be more communicative if it’s really that important but for context I’ve been with my partner for almost a decade, and I’ve never known their weight except for one time when a quirk of our schedules and car needs saw me accompanying her to a drs appointment.

Now granted, my spouse knows I’m a FA and that I find her beautiful and she still doesn’t share her weight or flaunt it. Ultimately, it’s up to your partner how comfortable they are. Personally, I don’t need to know some arbitrary number because I value her for who she is, full stop.

Have a chat with your person if it’s something you feel is important. It may not be a big deal but they also may not want to share that info. Gotta respect it either way.

Enas:
I uuuh, i agree and disagree at the same time with this way of thinking.

I understand the social context, especially for women (you *must* be bellow "x" pounds to be accepted by society, otherwise youre gross, etc) but seriously, how come and in what sense is not talking about something a form of respect? This is generaly a conclusion that is reached when the topic is making someone uncomfortable. But that on its own is a good enough reason to talk

Milhause:
I mean, we can debate about the patriarchy or respect or whatever, but the main reason I don’t ask people their age or weight is because it’s none of my business.

Enas:
Actually, would you agree with me that a better way to put it would be, it would be of no use to ask those things? Because i think leaving some space in some cases is valid. For example if you want to satisfy your curiosity. If thats the case, then the fact that its not about you is not a valid objection. (Uncomfort *would* be a valid one, for example)

Munchies:
Enas, you must have been an Olympic runner in another life. Wisdom has been chasing you, but you are much faster.

Enas:
Why do you say that? 😅


Curiosity is one of the greater motivations for seeking knowledge! Why throw it away?


I'll concede that you ask a lot of questions. Not sure about you seeking knowledge considering how often I see you disregard it.

But I shan't go any further down that road. There's feedback and then there's dogpiling.

But yes. You are very ... swift footed.
9 months

Fattening hormones

geometry dash meltdown said:
I've been on estrogen for about six months now. I've gained roughly ten pounds since I last checked. Anyone else experience this?

Coned1979:
I also have weight gain and water retention. What should I do?


If you have medical concerns and it is safe for you to do so, see a doctor.
9 months

Stuffing feedee friends or strangers?

WarriorFeederNYC:
so it has been a while since I used FF I deleted my account and came back on because I got catfished by someone on this platform named gettingbig76 I made a Youtube video on them because they were impersonating another feedee model and I brought it to there attention but that fucked me up so much I so I was seeking another way to find feedees and I met one on Feabie. She is only doing online stuffing sessions which is annoying if I'm going to be honest. So I have already been looking elsewhere and found another one who wants to be fed in person. Overall to me half of the so-called feedees on fantasy feeder aren't feedees but scammers. They know all you can run into are feeders who will do anything to get to feed you so they prey on you as another feedee or gainer. It's hopeless I have taken some time to think about all of this for a while now and I still wanna hope that there is a feedee or gainer women in my area but chances are looking pretty slim.


Oookay? And what was the point of this post?

Assuming you are right about the number of "real" feedees (you aren't, but for the sake of argument, we will pretend you are), the other half of the feedees won't flock to you. You come off as jaded and angry. That's woman-repellant.

Last time we spoke, I told you to slow your roll and take the time to get to know people. It looks like you haven't done that. You are still rushing to find a feedee to fatten up. All that will do is scare off the good feedees and attract scammers.
9 months

Getting your partner more open about their weight and size?

Milhause:
I mean, we can debate about the patriarchy or respect or whatever, but the main reason I don’t ask people their age or weight is because it’s none of my business.


Honestly, I think this the best way to live. Easier said than done (my ass is nosy), but life is better when you stay in your lane.
9 months

Getting your partner more open about their weight and size?

Milhause:
I was taught the two things you NEVER ask a woman (should be ppl in general tho): their age and their weight.

I guess you need to be more communicative if it’s really that important but for context I’ve been with my partner for almost a decade, and I’ve never known their weight except for one time when a quirk of our schedules and car needs saw me accompanying her to a drs appointment.

Now granted, my spouse knows I’m a FA and that I find her beautiful and she still doesn’t share her weight or flaunt it. Ultimately, it’s up to your partner how comfortable they are. Personally, I don’t need to know some arbitrary number because I value her for who she is, full stop.

Have a chat with your person if it’s something you feel is important. It may not be a big deal but they also may not want to share that info. Gotta respect it either way.

Enas:
I uuuh, i agree and disagree at the same time with this way of thinking.

I understand the social context, especially for women (you *must* be bellow "x" pounds to be accepted by society, otherwise youre gross, etc) but seriously, how come and in what sense is not talking about something a form of respect? This is generaly a conclusion that is reached when the topic is making someone uncomfortable. But that on its own is a good enough reason to talk

Milhause:
I mean, we can debate about the patriarchy or respect or whatever, but the main reason I don’t ask people their age or weight is because it’s none of my business.

Enas:
Actually, would you agree with me that a better way to put it would be, it would be of no use to ask those things? Because i think leaving some space in some cases is valid. For example if you want to satisfy your curiosity. If thats the case, then the fact that its not about you is not a valid objection. (Uncomfort *would* be a valid one, for example)


Enas, you must have been an Olympic runner in another life. Wisdom has been chasing you, but you are much faster.
9 months

Fattening hormones

Audrey Beauregarde:
I've been on estrogen for about six months now. I've gained roughly ten pounds since I last checked. Anyone else experience this?


I have several friends on estrogen. I can confirm that weight gain is normal.
9 months

Fattening hormones

Audrey Beauregarde:
I've been on estrogen for about six months now. I've gained roughly ten pounds since I last checked. Anyone else experience this?

Boundandfeed:
Is your fat being deposited, in all the right places to give you that hourglass shape?

Are you still able to get erect?.


Beloved, there are more shapes than hourglass and they are all valid.

Also, it's really rude to ask a trans femme if they can still have an erection.
9 months

Ordering nurtagain and testing

Boundandfeed:
Where does one get this nutra
grain? Locally preferred.


I know you can order it online, but Idk about the stores.
9 months