Ninjaturtle94:
Over the past two years I’ve put on around 50 lbs unintentional. I have always had a huge interest in purposely putting on fat and from time to time I’d drink a quart of heavy cream a few days in a row and then stop. I absolutely loved the feeling of my belly getting softer.
Last night I told my wife I’d like to gain some weight on purpose and see how it is. I had bought a quart of heavy cream on my way home. I told her this and she called me weird and absolutely condemned it. I said I just wanted to try it for a month and see what happens.
She said she was going to dump the cream out but I had already chugged it at that point. I ordered some maltodextrin to accelerate the progress and now I wanna do it even more in secret. I’m planning on 1 quart a day mixed with maltodextrin. What’s the worst that could happen in a few weeks, right?
Munchies:
Hospital
This isn't going to end well. Not only are you going to make yourself sick, but you are also doing to ruin your relationship.
How about you actually grow a pair, act like you actually love your wife, and be an adult. Talk to her. Figure out where her concerns are coming from. See where you can compromise. Work with her and she is more likely to work with you.
What are you going to do when the heavy cream and maltodextrin makes you sick (because it will make you very sick) and she has to worry about you not dying, paying for your hospital bills, and how that financial stress from your selfishness will impact other financial aspects in your lives.
Ninjaturtle94:
We did talk for a while about it. She just says it’s not healthy and doesn’t support it. After further reading I’m not going to take the maltodextrin.
Highway:
I can understand the difficulty when your wife condemns your wanting to gain. It seems as though your already fairly big so I'm curious if your wife fought you on your weight gain to this point. If she hasn't, then perhaps she likes the bigger you but social norms triggered her condemnation when you discussed with her. It is the perfect time of year to indulge anyway. You could probably gain 10 pounds between now and New Years without having to chug cream or maltodextrin. Test her reaction to just gaining some "holiday weight" I'm sure it would be more fun to gain with your wife's support, possibly chugging cream was a little bit much for her right now, but who knows, she might enjoy a few extra pounds you just put on by enjoying calorie rich food. This time of year gives you a great excuse, almost everyone gains weight this time of year.
Ninjaturtle94:
One thing that scared her is that she thinks I’d like the feeling of gaining weight too much and not want to stop. She said she read about it and thinks I could get addicted to feeling myself get bigger.
Do you feel like this is a valid concern of hers? Because from the limited interaction when you, I am getting those vibes too.
9 months
HectorBalloon:
Heard about some guy doing this in South Korea - got obese to avoid conscription. He was somehow found out and got arrested and punished.
Belly Pot Pie:
How could they prove that was the reason? And why wouldn’t he just make something up like I’m eating because I want to because I’m sad or some shit? Lol.
They probably got suspicious after he gained a lot of weight really quickly and investigated him.
9 months
Ninjaturtle94:
Over the past two years I’ve put on around 50 lbs unintentional. I have always had a huge interest in purposely putting on fat and from time to time I’d drink a quart of heavy cream a few days in a row and then stop. I absolutely loved the feeling of my belly getting softer.
Last night I told my wife I’d like to gain some weight on purpose and see how it is. I had bought a quart of heavy cream on my way home. I told her this and she called me weird and absolutely condemned it. I said I just wanted to try it for a month and see what happens.
She said she was going to dump the cream out but I had already chugged it at that point. I ordered some maltodextrin to accelerate the progress and now I wanna do it even more in secret. I’m planning on 1 quart a day mixed with maltodextrin. What’s the worst that could happen in a few weeks, right?
Munchies:
Hospital
This isn't going to end well. Not only are you going to make yourself sick, but you are also doing to ruin your relationship.
How about you actually grow a pair, act like you actually love your wife, and be an adult. Talk to her. Figure out where her concerns are coming from. See where you can compromise. Work with her and she is more likely to work with you.
What are you going to do when the heavy cream and maltodextrin makes you sick (because it will make you very sick) and she has to worry about you not dying, paying for your hospital bills, and how that financial stress from your selfishness will impact other financial aspects in your lives.
Ninjaturtle94:
We did talk for a while about it. She just says it’s not healthy and doesn’t support it. After further reading I’m not going to take the maltodextrin.
Highway:
I can understand the difficulty when your wife condemns your wanting to gain. It seems as though your already fairly big so I'm curious if your wife fought you on your weight gain to this point. If she hasn't, then perhaps she likes the bigger you but social norms triggered her condemnation when you discussed with her. It is the perfect time of year to indulge anyway. You could probably gain 10 pounds between now and New Years without having to chug cream or maltodextrin. Test her reaction to just gaining some "holiday weight" I'm sure it would be more fun to gain with your wife's support, possibly chugging cream was a little bit much for her right now, but who knows, she might enjoy a few extra pounds you just put on by enjoying calorie rich food. This time of year gives you a great excuse, almost everyone gains weight this time of year.
Nah, don't do that. All that will happen is she will interpret this as him being disrespectful to her fears and concerns as well as rejecting their marriage for his fetish.
This is not a position OP needs to be in.
9 months
Ninjaturtle94:
Over the past two years I’ve put on around 50 lbs unintentional. I have always had a huge interest in purposely putting on fat and from time to time I’d drink a quart of heavy cream a few days in a row and then stop. I absolutely loved the feeling of my belly getting softer.
Last night I told my wife I’d like to gain some weight on purpose and see how it is. I had bought a quart of heavy cream on my way home. I told her this and she called me weird and absolutely condemned it. I said I just wanted to try it for a month and see what happens.
She said she was going to dump the cream out but I had already chugged it at that point. I ordered some maltodextrin to accelerate the progress and now I wanna do it even more in secret. I’m planning on 1 quart a day mixed with maltodextrin. What’s the worst that could happen in a few weeks, right?
Munchies:
Hospital
This isn't going to end well. Not only are you going to make yourself sick, but you are also doing to ruin your relationship.
How about you actually grow a pair, act like you actually love your wife, and be an adult. Talk to her. Figure out where her concerns are coming from. See where you can compromise. Work with her and she is more likely to work with you.
What are you going to do when the heavy cream and maltodextrin makes you sick (because it will make you very sick) and she has to worry about you not dying, paying for your hospital bills, and how that financial stress from your selfishness will impact other financial aspects in your lives.
Ninjaturtle94:
We did talk for a while about it. She just says it’s not healthy and doesn’t support it. After further reading I’m not going to take the maltodextrin.
Mhm
And what all are you doing to safeguard your health?
9 months
Ninjaturtle94:
Over the past two years I’ve put on around 50 lbs unintentional. I have always had a huge interest in purposely putting on fat and from time to time I’d drink a quart of heavy cream a few days in a row and then stop. I absolutely loved the feeling of my belly getting softer.
Last night I told my wife I’d like to gain some weight on purpose and see how it is. I had bought a quart of heavy cream on my way home. I told her this and she called me weird and absolutely condemned it. I said I just wanted to try it for a month and see what happens.
She said she was going to dump the cream out but I had already chugged it at that point. I ordered some maltodextrin to accelerate the progress and now I wanna do it even more in secret. I’m planning on 1 quart a day mixed with maltodextrin. What’s the worst that could happen in a few weeks, right?
Hospital
This isn't going to end well. Not only are you going to make yourself sick, but you are also doing to ruin your relationship.
How about you actually grow a pair, act like you actually love your wife, and be an adult. Talk to her. Figure out where her concerns are coming from. See where you can compromise. Work with her and she is more likely to work with you.
What are you going to do when the heavy cream and maltodextrin makes you sick (because it will make you very sick) and she has to worry about you not dying, paying for your hospital bills, and how that financial stress from your selfishness will impact other financial aspects in your lives.
9 months
SumoSized:
Just as the title says, I'm curious at what point peoples weight began to change how they move. It could be subtle things like changing how you lean down to pick something up or how you sit up, to more drastic things like needing to take more breaks while walking or being unable to walk at all without assistance.
For me I'm still fairly young (20) and small (between 220-225 depending on how my weight fluctuates) so my changes have been very minor. I've noticed I struggle a bit more than in used to leaning down to grab things or tie my shoes, and the soles of my feet hurt a lot more after walking for a few hours than they used to. But what have y'all's experiences been and at what weight did you start to experience them?
Canuck:
i was 150-165 lbs and going to the gym for most of my adult life. when i stopped that and started gaining, by 190 lbs i was already noticing the effect! even just while bending over to put on my shoes, lol!
one of the reasons i kept gaining after hitting 300 lbs was that, it didn't seem like such a big deal. after getting used to being over 200, 300 seemed bigger but not a lot different. but i noticed by the time i was 350 lbs i *really* started to notice. it really impacted the distance i could walk, for some reason i passed a point where my endurance really suffered a lot.
now standing is chore, but at my current size the way i notice my size the most is in how my reach has grown more limited. not being able to reach parts of your own body is a strange realization. my belly forces me to sit away from most desks and tables. and i can't reach the higher shelves in the kitchen because i can't get close enough, with the counter pressing into me.
SumoSized:
Interesting, Ive heard from several other male gainers in the past that 350 lbs seems to be a turning point where you start to feel really fat.
This is also about the size your fupa
really grows.
9 months
BiggerestBelly:
Okay,
Surely after all the time FantasyFeeder has been around and all the time we've had to share and collaborate on gaining...
Surely, someone among us has found the most effective and palatable daily weight gain shake.
Boost? Heavy cream? A particular brand of mass gainer?
What daily supplement or shake recipe has ACTUALLY made a difference for you in your own gains?
Extreme feeder here. I've tried out a number of shakes with the feedees I've had. I don't use them anymore because I find food works so much better. Not only is food more cost effective, but it's easier to fatten up a feedee with delicious food long term. The shakes are better for short-term rapid gains.
9 months
Emberfeeds:
Is anyone else in the closet? I only tell people I really trust. And if it comes out I get embarrassed about it.
Rufatyet2:
Think we all are
Speak for yourself. Everyone in my life knows I only go for chubby or very fat men. My friends (we are all very open with each other) know I am a feeder specifically.
Obvi, I don't tell my family about my fetish, but when I introduced them to my (at the time) 500 lbs partner, no one thought it was unusual for me that I was with such a large person.
9 months
SumoSized:
Just as the title says, I'm curious at what point peoples weight began to change how they move. It could be subtle things like changing how you lean down to pick something up or how you sit up, to more drastic things like needing to take more breaks while walking or being unable to walk at all without assistance.
For me I'm still fairly young (20) and small (between 220-225 depending on how my weight fluctuates) so my changes have been very minor. I've noticed I struggle a bit more than in used to leaning down to grab things or tie my shoes, and the soles of my feet hurt a lot more after walking for a few hours than they used to. But what have y'all's experiences been and at what weight did you start to experience them?
My story isn't that dramatic because I'm not a large person. But it happened to me around 160 lbs. I used to be 115 lbs with C cups. I hit about 160 rocking DD cups. Now, I can't do vigorous movement without the right bra.
This tits are
heavy.
9 months
Slob isn't a super common part of feedism.
Don't get me wrong. There are a lot of slob enthusiasts in this community. But most feedists on FF tend to lean in the other direction. Either due to a lack of interest or trying to disprove the stereotype that fat people are gross and smelly.
If you want to seek out other slob enthusiasts, check out the stories section. Filter for slob and make note of who shows an interest.
There's also a bigger slob community on DeviantArt, so check out there as well.
9 months
