Did anyone tried to get rid of this fetish?

Munchies:
It's all about finding your balance. Don't get me wrong, we still enjoy stuffing him, but there are also other things we enjoy as well.

For example, instead of stuffing him when he isn't in the mood to be stuffed, I might hand feed him something instead. One time while we were cuddling, I fed him a fancy chocolate bar. Another time, when we were in a cafe, I fed him something from my plate he had never tried before.

Kacchan:
Feeder Foreplay for the win!!!


When you are in a romantic relationship with your feedee, sometimes intimacy feels better than going feral. And sometimes you're cheeky and hand feed your feedee in a public restaurant. I live in the South. All people will think is that I am a really sweet girlfriend who loves her man very much.
9 months

Anyone want to make their doctor mad?

Gbutts85:
I have a very specific desire. I want to make my primary care doctor mad/concerned with the amount of weight I've gained. To date, she has never seriously addressed my weight. At 395 lbs this is odd, of course. Perhaps she is a closeted FA?

How much do you suppose I'll need to gain in the next 3-4 weeks before my next follow up for my blood pressure/other random health issues? Thinking if I weigh in around 420/425 that should do the trick. Would be my highest ever recorded weight!


Been working in the medical field since 2017 and grew up with medical professionals all my life. Imma pop your bubble a lil bit.

Yes, fatphobic doctors are a thing. However, in recent years, the medical industry is working on dismantling medical fatphobia as studies show it decreases patient level of care. And so unless your fatness is causing you major health issues, many of them will not comment on it much if at all.

It's also highly unlikely that your doctor has any kinds of feelings for you outside of finding your pleasant or not. (Fun fact! Your doctor will notate on your medical records if your a nice patient to deal with.) You are more than likely one of several fat men she cares for. She also will probably not risk her medical license do to anything with you for kink purposes.

I do find it curious that you want to mess up your health enough to cause your doctor concern. Because that never ends well for the patient. Unless you are aroused by blood tests, pills, and medical expenses on top of the general pain that comes from high blood pressure.

But you do you, boo ~
9 months

Twerk and fat.

Sasha To Be Sexy:
And in "Belly Dance" can you be thin?)


Of course! You do not need to be a specific size or shape to belly dance.
9 months

Did anyone tried to get rid of this fetish?

MariRadha:
For paraphilias this might work:
- retraining in a fetish you both like. Replacing one with a new one
- sexual transmutation techniques from yoga were you sublimate your desires and only have sex with your gf
-if all else fails SSRI and other meds lower libido and lower paraphilia urges

Munchies:
When my partner and I were actively fattening him up, I'd say feedism completely enmeshed in our sex lives. So when he wanted to pump the breaks, we had to change up how we did sexy times. Tried new positions and techniques. Really leaned into body exploration as well as getting lost in each other rather than his belly.

He also discovered he really loves making me lost in my pleasure - even at the expense of his own. I'm not complaining.

MariRadha:
Sounds like a much healthier sexuality


It's all about finding your balance. Don't get me wrong, we still enjoy stuffing him, but there are also other things we enjoy as well.

For example, instead of stuffing him when he isn't in the mood to be stuffed, I might hand feed him something instead. One time while we were cuddling, I fed him a fancy chocolate bar. Another time, when we were in a cafe, I fed him something from my plate he had never tried before.
9 months

Do not date, save your self

Reddoughpiggy:
This place is unfortunately littered with scam artist asking for money on cash app or sending gift cards. DO not do this ever! It's not to hard to track debit card data once they have the gift card number. This place is buetifull but it's only lies.

Munchies:
My brother in Christ, why are you giving internet strangers money?

Reddoughpiggy:
Lol never did reported and blocked account immediately after, this is more to warn and remind others


You can date on here. I've done it. I met my current partner here. That said, you have to manage your expectations.

FF is not a dating site. You can find love here, but it's the same way you can find love anywhere. And just as you shouldn't pay for someone's groceries at the store because they are double-cheeked up on a Thursday morning, you shouldn't give money to internet strangers.

It all boils down to common sense.
9 months

Premium help please

S123:
I don't want a premium membership anymore. I want to cancel the automatic withdrawal from my bank account, how can I cancel it? Can you please cancel it?


Send an email to team@fantasyfeeder.com
9 months

Do not date, save your self

Reddoughpiggy:
This place is unfortunately littered with scam artist asking for money on cash app or sending gift cards. DO not do this ever! It's not to hard to track debit card data once they have the gift card number. This place is buetifull but it's only lies.


My brother in Christ, why are you giving internet strangers money?
9 months

Why does every guy i show interest in want to lose weight all of a sudden?? (rant)

Barney Rodd:
For me, I'm only losing weight because it was my ex-girlfriend's wish and she never found me attractive with more weight, even though I felt good about myself. But she got me to the point where my desire to eat disappeared because she portrayed me as sick. Unfortunately, your negative attitude suppressed my own feelings. But with a partner who confirms that even though you let your appetite run wild, you remain attractive and doesn't make you think you're wrong, it would be a pleasure. Because for me the way to love is through my stomach. Of course, only to the extent that you can enjoy all the fun activities together


Behold! The legendary Austrian male feedee!!!!

9 months

Twerk and fat.

Sasha To Be Sexy:
In Russia, Twerk, oddly enough, is very popular). But what people understand by this direction is more like hip-hop or sports dancing. They dance in such a way that it only helps you lose weight. And initially, historically, as far as I understand, Twerking requires large forms. For example, African Twerk. Although, in Russia there are also overweight women, but for some reason they do not engage in this area. What dance studios there are, thin girls study there, and the dance style is appropriate. Twerking should still be more associated with fatness.


(Editors Note: This is a machine translation of what OP said in Russian. To OP, in peace and love, but the site requires everyone to use English for moderation purposes.)

With peace and love, but that's not what twerking is for. It's not about fatness or fitness. It is about having fun and celebrating the body. It is sexually provocative no matter the body because all bodies are beautiful. You can be thin, muscular, curvy, fat, male, female, or anything else. All that matters is your technique is correct.

The last thing you want is to throw it back and end up throwing out your back.
9 months

Any accidental gainers on?

Munchies:
Prolactin? Oh boy. I hope you aren't having any nipple discharge.

But hormones can be fixed. I have PCOS, and my OB/GYN put me on birth control. I am in a lot better place mentally, emotionally, and physically. You'll be okay in the end.

Glitter Jelly:
I don't, at least not yet (it's been rising since at least February or March), but I feel a lot of the weight gain went to my chest.

Maybe it's in my head.

The other day, a friend of mine and I were joking that I should take advantage of this and try to milk myself to sell the milk. 🤦‍♀️

I suspect I might have PCOS (symptoms since my puberty hit: severe acne, hairloss, I gain weight easily, but I can't lose any unless I almost eat nothing, high prolactin is a symptom...) but:

- my last testosterone level was normal (according to my OB/GYN)
- my ovaries don't have any cysts (I know it doesn't rule out PCOS but with the other findings I guess it does)
- my anti mullerian hormone level was normal

I also have most (if not all) the symptoms of hypothyroidism but TSH, T3, T4 are all normal. TRH hasn't been tested yet.


It was pretty straightforward for me to get diagnosed. PCOS runs in my family, so I was familiar with the signs. I didn't do anything about it until it started causing quality-of-life issues. So I marched my happy tail to my OB/GYN and told him I wanted an official diagnosis.

My symptoms were pretty textbook, and one ultrasound later, he confirmed my suspicions and prescribed me the mini pill. Honestly, I've never felt better.

You may have PCOS, but it's also possible that it's something else. Like I said, hormone imbalances tend to be straightforward to fix.
9 months