Who has the time and money to go out anymore? also we’re coming off Covid and fat people are disproportionally effected by it. Also, being big around big crowds of people? Um cluster phobia?
2 years
Munchies: If the guy isn't secure in himself, he'll stop putting himself out there.
This can be said for a lot of things.
2 years
I think most fat guys who aren’t feedists are a bit self conscious about their bodies, I know as I ballooned to 300 I definitely was, it took a lot of self acceptance and body positivity to get where I am now.. and honestly I’m just at a point where I’m more content with pursing my hobbies and stuff or having a big greasy pizza or few double cheeseburgers than I am pursing women
I can only speak for myself but I would feel like this is a shared sentiment.
2 years
Rosiemoanz:
yeah..it makes me a little scared to be honest… he told me he’d of course hold my hand all the way through, and we can stop any time, and said we will focus on small increases! that all sounds easy enough but it still scares me that I might get so turned on that I won’t be able to ask him to stop..which there lies the reason I feel like I sound “silly”. I’m already this big at 22 and I can’t stop eating. I feel like it’s inevitable.
it sounds like hes willing to listen to you and your desires, its on you to set boundaries and let him know you are in control at least, of what you want.. your body might decide otherwise and it will take willpower to resist cravings and your appeitie but thats part of it!
2 years
I had another yesterday when I tried to put on a 3XL tshirt and my belly poked out the bottom, I am firmly in the 4XL verging on 5XL camp haha
2 years
I wouldn’t have gotten as fat as I have without having disposable income after years of starving myself. I remember sitting down at a McDonald’s and eating like 3 burgers just because I could and I didn’t have to watch my weight anymore, it was liberating!
2 years
100 pounds is a lot of weight, be prepared for the changes! It won’t happen overnight. I would recommend a smaller amount just to start off with then go from there.
2 years
CakeCakeCake:
Hi, does anyone else have this problem where you try to stop fattening up on purpose but then get urges to fatten again and again?
Absolutely! A few weeks ago I thought for a while I was done but over the past week it came back stronger than ever. I think this is just something we gotta accept as part of our sexuality. Peaks and Valleys, just like any other sexual desire.
2 years
Oct0:
One of the main things that is stopping me is thinking about how the people around me would react. If anyone could give an opinion or advice or just chat, it would be great. Thanks
If you let your happiness be dictated by those around you you’re gonna live a miserable life, that being said you shouldn’t worry about it initially people might be a bit shocked, and you might receive a few comments but after a while people will accept you as you are, unless you’re around toxic people who want to put you down so they feel better about themselves
2 years
Absolutely! It would be awesome to see more fat people in media, and get away from the fat people being the butt of the joke.
2 years
