Wife and I were once so stuffed from a fried fish-and-fixins joint that we could barely keep our pants buttoned and still feel comfy enough to drive home. Both our bellies were so stuffed and felt so huge. So we just simply took our pants off and drove home pantsless :-) It was at night, so no one saw us :-) I don’t think, anyway!

My wife can easily take up half the bed, at 340-ish pounds. But she’s quite accommodating to move over a bit when I climb into my side.

The struggle can be quite real for those in warm climes, like me. Much of the time, I put bread and burger buns in the fridge to avoid molding. No room in the kitchen for one of those bread boxes.

Simply happy I didn’t ever mess with Feabie. I’ve read nothing but negative things about it.

The best of us here on the site always treat folks with the utmost respect. A few bad actors over time here and there, but it’s quite supportive. No one should be treated as though they’re “less than.”

Welcome to the site :-) Hope you enjoy it here. Granted, there’s a few who are here solely to build their PayPal account. Simply ignore those people and have a good time!

Many of us want to ditto it for every region represented on the site 😁

My wife’s cousin — who was once about 400 pounds — had the surgery maybe a decade ago and it indeed led to many complications and side effects. The plus for her was that she regained some mobility, but the minus was that she couldn’t really eat normally anymore. It became a mystery as to what would irritate her intestines. She was re-hospitalized more than once.

It’s your body, and I’m all about a woman controlling her own body — but I will say you might end up coming to the same conclusion a few other posters have. It might be easier and more relaxing to just be “a little bit fat” instead of a “whole lot screwed.”

Torrid continues to be my wife’s best friend when it comes to plus-sized clothes. Her bra size (46 DDD) isn’t easy to find anywhere else :-) Tops sized at least a 4 to 5X and stretchy pants are a must, and they have enough sales to conserve other funds to cook up tasty meals with :-)

With my wife, it was a matter of finding someone who would allow her to enjoy being fat and love what her body naturally wants to be. And for me it was finding someone who accepted my genuine love for the larger female figure.

I myself got up to 210 but I’ve had to change my diet due to some hereditary heart issues. Even as we adjust our diets, we’re still staying pretty much the same basic shape anyway 😊