You know I’m not exactly crazy about the kink as I used to. However I also do find that reading into these forums/threads do sometimes make me feel that bit of comfort. Or at best give me some kind of insight into a better understanding about the world of either the kink itself or just being someone who’s into larger people.

From when I found out about my interests within larger people I did knew about the stigmatization and the guilt that comes with it, but I’ve always wanted to find a place where I don’t have to be ashamed of myself anymore or at least a lot less guilt?? Either way it is kinda nice to be in a place without the outside noise from society telling someone how incorrect their body is and that you have to fix it to be more acceptable. kinda a breath of fresh air if you ask me?

Also I also kinda find it interesting for how in a community like this there’s some kind of an understanding when it comes to weight change. It’s almost there’s a nuance towards it, compared to the outside where it’s so noisy and how weight loss is celebrated like hardcore. 😅 Maybe I’m sounding a little extra, but that’s what I have noticed anyways.

Now yes as you probably already notice, I am not a bigger person myself. But I believe that there is a place for someone like me (someone who’s into bigger people) to belong to a place like here. And trust me, the negative noise out there can affect people like me too. Maybe not that often, but it does happen.

I don’t know if this really answers your question and whatnot. But I do find it a little encouraging to see people who are 40+ in this community. So I can feel better that it’s not just only a young person’s kink before the switch happens to be all about self-improvement. 😅

For my case I used to be attracted to someone of the same body type as me, but not anymore once I started liking bigger women. So to answer this question yes, the opposite for me.

I tried to still like women who are built similar to me, but it’s not the same. Sometimes about a woman with a bit of chubby on their tummy that’s just so much better to love! At least in my opinion.

Me personally I think it’s because obviously that’s the minimum/default weight you could set onto one’s profile. Now to answer your question, I believe that either that particular user doesn’t remember or don’t wish to put in their actual weight. I don’t blame them because I get that it’s their own personal privacy.

Welcome! I hope that you can get yourself settled in to a place like this. Sometimes it’s nice to find a community without any outside noise when it comes to the certain body standards in the outside world.

Well from my experience, body weight fluctuates from time to time and that’s completely NORMAL. So try not to be too hard on yourself, you’re going to be okay buddy. 👍

Alright I know this comment has nothing to do with the topic but I do have something to say about this.

From what I know Mochii had a bit of a hiatus from having health complications especially getting a bad case of Covid. After she felt better she did made a little bit of a comeback only after a few months later, she decided to retire from doing feedee content because her health issues came back.

I don’t blame her because of her gaining quite a bit of weight in such a short time (theoretically speaking) does have its consequences. The more you think about it, it is quite understandable for her decision. But I’ll admit it was quite a bit something for watching her journey unfold. But as what they say, nothing lasts forever… it’s almost like an inevitable truth.

However I do remember seeing (from the retirement announcement on Curvage) that she and her partner might do other kink related content outside of feedism someday in the future. So maybe one day we might see Mochii again, but I wouldn’t hold your breath on the matter.

Anyways it is sad to see Mochii go, but I hope that she’ll be alright no matter what happens next.

I don’t think you could make a plus size character in GTA Online as far I remember. 😅

It kinda looks like the OP is gone now. But I’m gonna post a comment anyways…

But yeah I have dated and have been the boyfriend to women who were larger than me. And I guess one could say that I do like the contrast! 😅 Especially when it comes to the feeling of the soft curves up against my somewhat slim build, makes great for both cuddling and lovey-dovey naughty time!

And if I’m being honest here. I think I very much prefer a woman who has a bit of chubby on the tummy than one who is trying too hard to meet society’s beauty standards. But that’s just me though.

Yeah I sometimes get them too. So you’re not alone! 😅