Afatadmirer21:
Heyy guys, i find really hard finding a feedee, i really want to create a long term relationship (it has not to be romantic, maybe if things go well i can think about it), but everytime i try to talk with a feedee they just start to ask money or ghost me, what can i do?
You know I feel this because I was someone like that a long time ago. I know that some (but not all) of us would like to have a chubby queen/king to spoil with food and love. BUT be aware that Feederism is a business as well as a fetish. And some of these people who you’ll meet will try to take advantage of your kindness to get money out of you. Especially if it’s for their “emergencies”. This is one of the main reasons why I retired being a feeder, because I am not falling victim to that trap anymore, because it ended up ruining me and my perspective. It’s just not worth the hassle in my opinion.
HOWEVER… if you really want this. Then my advice to you is to set yourself some boundaries and know what you want. And if you’re going to be rejected because of it, that’s totally fine. It’ll happen with dating as long as you got perseverance to handle it. Secondly, it’s a simple one… and that is to don’t give up trying! It may take you awhile, but it could only mean a greater outcome.
Anyways, I wish you luck and I hope you can find the feedee of your dreams one day. 👍