A big influence for me was Renaissance art. Titian's "Concert Champetre" was an eye opener at a young age.
2 years
My gal reached the point where I literally CANNOT FIND her lady bits when she's standing up. They're in there somewhere, completely vanished into layers of fat.
2 years
For her it's ice cream. She can eat so much she gets short of breath just from gorging herself, but there's always room for dessert.
2 years
My wife's parents and in-laws are shocked by how huge she is. She is LITERALLY the most massive person in our entire extended family!
But they're also very nice, and accept her for who she is, even if they don't understand why a woman would be comfortable blowing up to the size of several women...
2 years
I feel like there's no quick and easy rule, unfortunately.
You really have to listen to someone and live with them to understand their limits.
I for one never thought immobility would be anything but a tragedy. Then I started dating my wife-to-be, and she just kept getting heavier and more helpless. "Has this gone too far?" I thought. But she's lovely, happy, healthy (we trust each other so she shows me her medical records). She knows she's super obese, shrugs off the mobility problems as everyday inconveniences. And I discovered that taking care of her isn't a burden, but really fun!
On a lot of other people though, that might be living Hell
2 years
She hated how heavy her chest was, and was considering reduction surgery when we first started dating. But as she gained weight, it lowered her center of gravity and made things way more comfortable for her. She told me herself, her breasts aren't a problem anymore because they just rest on her belly now!
Also sleep apnea. I was a little worried for a while, but as she gets bigger her fat has stopped resting on top of her, and spreads around her like a mattress. I'm jealous of how well she sleeps.
2 years
Hedonistic_Purity:
As a death feeder I definitely get off on ruination, but the idea of it can mean different goals and fetishes to different people, so I think this can be a fun topic.
How do you want to be ruined?
Purely aesthetically--stretch marks, changed face, certain hygienic issues, skin so stretched by fat that you'll never look the same without many expensive surgeries, even with weight loss?
Health--ruined joints, permenantly stretched stomach lining, severe hygienic problems, chronic illness, conditions that hinder or prevent weight loss without surgery, permenant cardiovascular damage, lymphoedema, irreversible diabetes, etc?
Psychological--food addiction, binge eating disorder, emotional eating, dependency, broken will, a feeling of uselessness, wasted potential that can never be regained, feeling too far gone, knowing you're so fat that only attractive to someone who wants to assist in your slow suicide?
Why do you want to be ruined?
Does the thing being ruined directly turn you on? Which is to say, it just does and you don't know why. It didn't develope from another fetish, but the moment you saw it in someone else, or it happened by accident to you, you were turned on.
Did it develope from a similar fetish? An overall desire to be controlled, hurt, to please?
Did it develope from a coping mechanism? A way to turn suffering or self hatred into pleasure?
Is it an excuse? Are you scared of your inherent fetish (mobility issues, health issues, or even just becoming obese), and the more ruined you become, the further gone you are, the easier it is to just let it happen? Does having someone destroy your body ALLOW you to get off on it because now the damage is done/irreversible?
Explore your darkness with this one 💝
SHE is my living work of art.
She went from a "big boned" lass to someone who can barely get out of bed on her own. I have to brace myself just to get her up! She doesn't care, because it's a collaborative piece of work!
2 years
It's possible -if rare.
I happened to fall in love with someone who's actually gotten healthier as she gains weight. Even her weight problems got better just by her getting bigger.
2 years
Not autism, but likely Tourettes.
2 years
My wonderful fat lass got too massive for plus-sized stores a long time ago, now she has to order special clothes online. Some of them say "8XL." Some of them don't even bother with regular sizes anymore. Formless gigantic fabric literally the size of a small tent or boat sail.
Her big problem now is that she has to keep buying new ones because she keeps staining them with grease and sauce from the way she eats!
2 years
