Health issues associated with gaining

Fatpeter:
My own weight has been pretty stable over the last 2-3 years, but the last few months my wife has gained quite a bit of weight. Maybe 20-25 pounds in the last 6 months. While I find this incredibly hot, she isn’t intentionally gaining that I know of. I’m just wondering what health risks their maybe with gaining so fast? She is probably around 220-223 atm

Munchies:
Okay, so bit of advise. Do not ask the internet these sorts of things. You will only scare yourself, and at least half of the issues won't even pertain to your wife.

If you are worried, take her to a doctor, or help her get healthier.


Better yet, take her to a doctor and then act based on their feedback, rather than trying to diagnose and treat her health yourself.

This all should probably be prefaced with a conversation with her, first and foremost, but that should be obvious.
3 years

A dissertation on feederism

I like this takeaway they base on previous research (Murray, 2004) regarding the fat acceptance movement:
The problem Murray has outlined is that merely sexualizing fat women does not eradicate the underlying problems that are associated with the way we think of women’s bodies in the first place. Beautifying the fat body and sexualizing it for a male audience through empowerment therefore is not challenging the dominant knowledge structures that presuppose this as a normal way of presenting the body.


Another fun quote from GIovani and Peluso (2006):
We acknowledge that feederism may encompass fetishistic behaviors, but we also believe that the individuals who participate in feederism may do so to challenge dominant norms surrounding sex and desirability – and members of subcultures are often afforded more political clout than are individuals invested in particular fetishes” Giovanelli and Peluso (2006, p.331)

The latter quote posits the advantages of labeling feederism as a subculture rather than a fetish or kink. It's interesting that it can't be both in this framework, but it does make some sense. For example, as a relative outsider to BDSM kink communities, it would seem to me that the styles and aesthetics and subcultures around BDSM (fashion, discussions of consent, etc.), up until the point of actual play, have more moral capital in the eyes of the public than someone who is seen as merely wanting to get their rocks off.
3 years

A dissertation on feederism

I'm always amused by the way researchers throw shade at their peers.

Prohaska (2013) notes in a content analysis the ways in which feederism can be considered a transgressive sexual behaviour. She concludes through her analysis that despite occasionally displaying these elements, it typically mimics “patriarchal sex” in the process.
[...]
Feederism is placed within a pigeon hole before the analysis can begin.
[...]
Prohaska (2014) **attempted** to reframe feederism within a sexual deviance framework [...] There is a problem here from the offset

(emphasis added)

On the topic of Fantasy Feeder:
The conclusion that is drawn from these insights is that feederism is a communal activity because members of the community benefit emotionally and practically from like-minded individuals (ibid.). Part of the problem with this assertion is that the sample presupposes such a conclusion.
3 years

A dissertation on feederism

Writing my reactions as I read it this time rather than posting them all at once.

16 pages in and this is a well-rounded take, much like the dissertation was. I prefer the way the dissertation is organized, frankly, as there is a clear narrative throughline that helps organize the piece; in other words, it feels more focused. But the 2014 research is shaping up to have a greater breadth and depth to the background information presented. Part of this comes down to the fact that more pieces of literature (another dissertation, linked at the end of this post) have been generated on the topic of feederism since the dissertation was written, but additionally there is discussion of feederism through the lens of psychology, sociology, and more.

Their exploration of feederism through a psychological lens--in which they examine it as potentially sadomasochistic, pathological, or addictive--made me wonder how most of us in the community view feederism. Personally, I'm quick to dismiss pathologizing it (as are the authors, who report the absence of "emotional dysfunction and harm commonly associated with addiction" ). Otherwise, is it a kink? A sexuality? A lifestyle? Something else?

EDIT: The authors also posit that it bears similarities to "body projects" which subvert norms of attractiveness, i.e. tattoos and piercings. Do many people practice feederism specifically as a middle-finger to societal norms? Or is it just icing on the cake?

Here's the link to the dissertation the authors reference in this paper (mostly for my convenience later when I read that next):
core.ac.uk/download/pdf/185288887.pdf

As well as a Merrie Melodies bit that I had never seen before but the authors say was called out as being well-known by their interviewees:
core.ac.uk/download/pdf/185288887.pdf
3 years

A dissertation on feederism

MutuallyExclusvie:
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Download as PDF here, the link is safe, I was a broke college student and textbooks are too expensive, so I’ll leave it at that, hope you enjoy


Awesome, thank you tons!
3 years

Any friendly nerds around illinois/iowa?

Howdy! There aren't many of us in general, and it's always nice to make friends with people with shared interests. Are there any folks in or near Illinois looking for friendships or who are open to more? I live in Champaign, but I travel up to Chicagoland and to Cedar Rapids regularly, so don't be shy if you're not from central Illinois!
3 years

Acronym for fat enbies

Continuing the theme of food-related acronyms: BLT (big lovable they/them)--though this one isn't great because it implies all enbies/GNC people use they/them pronouns (or pronouns at all).

Can you tell I like alliteration based on the fact that I'm suggesting only things that start with the letter B? But please, any suggestion fron enbies is more than welcome. I like the euphemistic nature of BBW and BHM, but FAT is a fun one!

I'm running into the issue of there not being a good, gender-neutral noun describing people that doesn't have an... academic? clinical? formal? connotation like "human" or "person" have.

EDIT: Another suggestion came to mind that's sadly not food-related nor starting with the letter B, but I like how it rolls off the tongue: TNB (thicc non-binary)
3 years

A dissertation on feederism

Does anyone have a university account they can access this book with?

link.springer.com/book/10.1057/9781137470461

I'm curious about how the research has tracked since the 2008 dissertation.
3 years

Acronym for fat enbies

PolyPinoyPuppy:
We have BBW for fat women and BHM for fat men. Is there an acronym for fat enbies?

Dynamo:
We can make one! Do you like BHNB? 😁


I like the pattern of sticking to 3-letter acronyms--BDP works for that!

My half-serious suggestion is BBQ: Big Beautiful Queer.
3 years

Acronym for fat enbies

We have BBW for fat women and BHM for fat men. Is there an acronym for fat enbies?
3 years