Porkie_pies:
There was a time in my life in early adulthood where I was both fat and not getting laid at all. I was about 250 lbs or so. Then I started chatting with FFA and female feeders online. I wasnt fat enough for them either. But overtime I put on more and more weight and I noticed that a lot of FFA started getting interested.
I remember one woman said it was her fantasy to ride a 400 lb man. I was in the high 300's then. We met up and had a belief sexual relationship. I think she moved on because she wanted to go bigger.
Once I reached 400 lbs I started having a decent amount of casual sex. I'm short so I always looked like a blob once I reached 400+. Some women fucked me once and moved on. I think they wanted to just see what it was like to ride a blob.
i had an online feeder who said she would reward me with a blowjob once I reached 400 lbs. She followed through when we met up six months later. She then said she would fuck me once I reached 450. We lost touch by then , though.
I'm not very good at sex at my size. I just lay there and jiggle like a waterbed while being rode.
Welcome to the club sir. I had always had a decent level of success with women but the fatter I got the less work I had to do in approaching women. Secretly, there are women who love supersized dudes and this site doesn't do it justice because the interest will come out of nowhere. For instance, I left work early last week and went into Harris Teeter really late and I just went in there to buy some snacks to mindlessly gorge on and as I was leaving out the female security guard ran up behind me and made sure she got my attention so she could give me her number and she was like bigger males are her type but she couldn't let a guy with a sexy gut like mine pass her by without at least getting my number so I get this all the time ever since I waddled in the mid four hundreds.
3 years
IndulgeTheGlutton:
God, the idea of your waddling being enough to get you going is so hot. It's like the lard inside you is in charge of when you get to get off.
It will come with the territory because you will then be able to "take care of yourself" without anyone actually knowing what is going on.
3 years
MarshmallowMinotaur:
This kink or fetish is almost an addiction. I have liked fat guys for a long time. I saw pictures of guys, and guys in real life that at the time I thought were really obese. I still found them attractive, I didn’t judge. It was just a matter of perspective and frame of reference. As time went on and I was gaining those guys seemed to be not so obese anymore. As I gained and hit milestones, weights I had never reached before, I thought “that’s all I am?” and pushed to gain more. I didn’t hit my goal, and actually lost unintentionally. I’m gaining again but it’s not enough weight fast enough. In short, we raise the bar. I think something hormonal or in our brain chemistry happens that we don’t think we’re fat enough.
NYCBellyBlimp:
Being hetero, I would look at some gainers as a measuring stick to get an idea of what to experience when at their weight. It's a different world when experiences are similar and more so when you've passed them while continuing to balloon. Sometimes, you don't think you're "massive" until that day comes and you realize that you are the fattest person some in your circle have ever come across including some strangers. For some 250 is huge, for some its chubby though 375-400 doesn't seem that huge but for some its like your a biscuit away from that tv show.
Best I can say is to prepare as you don't want others having final say in what you do/don't do.
Both of you guys are spot on. I have always been self conscious about being chubby most of my life but when I got introduced to this life over time it became an addiction because most of us who are courageous enough to gain become sugar and carbohydrate addicts and then we become fat addicts because we like how it feels to not only be fat but now we are in a cycle of gorging and eating and gaining that makes you feel super high. I am straight and I saw other folks with a certain type of fat and both my lady back then and I wanted to see that fat too so we both grew subcutaneous fat and have not stopped since
3 years
quiverdream:
As someone who’s not exactly into the athletic-to-fat kink, I’m curious: what’s y’all’s take on those trainers who get fat and then back to fit with their clients?
I find it kind of gimmicky but it is a new take on the trading places concept.
3 years
Ditzy:
It was comforting to see my ex's wife is no longer shapely and is well on her way to being a fat cow.
I mean that in the nicest way too LOLOLOL
I am so glad you said this because it is like fat revenge. I had exes who was fascinated by my girth but grew tired of it only to see them years later and they look miserable with their beer bellied guy when that had my hanging gut so readily available to them but they messed that up. Lol.
4 years
It really started when a close family member died and left me some money and I was already away from where I was raised but my ex was like why not ? Money was no longer an issue so I moved down and it was like I activated my inner fat addict and I kept going...
4 years
I used to get these when I was younger and even before there was a 600 pound Life; I had those types of dreams.
4 years
fanedfox:
I don't necessarily feel jealous, but I'll see a guy, or a woman/girl who's very obese and wonder how I would look that heavy/fat/obese.
I used to be just like that when I was younger but I just kept those thoughts to myself but as I aged and actively started to live like this was when I started to see fat people with hanging fat; I became fascinated and I eventually started to do research on gaining that fat in particular which was subcutaneous fat and that fascination germinated into fat addiction.
4 years
IndulgeTheGlutton:
Being too big to touch myself is definitely a fantasy of mine. Just the idea of my member getting buried in a fupa while the very belly I fed into enormity prevents me from even getting anywhere near it. So I am filled to the brim with lard, which keeps me turning me on, but it's my feeder who decides if I even get any relief this week. Or even this month.
WideJuan76:
But the twist is that the feeder doesn't know that you really don't need them to do that but it makes the feeder feel accomplished when actuality just rocking back and forth while sitting does the trick for you with no hands.
IndulgeTheGlutton:
I've heard not everyone can actually get off using their own fat pad, so it depends on that.
BigFox:
I really think it comes down to what “takes you there?” If your not sexually excited about your own size then it would be hard to stay turned on so to speak. But at that point it’s just about trying to find something that “gets you excited.”
Both of you have a point. For my anecdotal experience, I went from never ever thinking about being like that to actually being like that and realizing "my" new normal and with being self reliant; I can't wait for my lady to always be my only source of release so I had to adjust to my gaining and seeing it be my source of fulfillment.
4 years
IndulgeTheGlutton:
Being too big to touch myself is definitely a fantasy of mine. Just the idea of my member getting buried in a fupa while the very belly I fed into enormity prevents me from even getting anywhere near it. So I am filled to the brim with lard, which keeps me turning me on, but it's my feeder who decides if I even get any relief this week. Or even this month.
But the twist is that the feeder doesn't know that you really don't need them to do that but it makes the feeder feel accomplished when actuality just rocking back and forth while sitting does the trick for you with no hands.
4 years
