Developing a dependence on food - how?
Morbidly A Beast:
I’ll never understand what it’s like to want to be fat also finding it hard to gain but hate or dislike eating on top of that. Like I’m sorry this might not work the way you think it will, doesn’t make you any less valid as a feedist just gotta work towards a better relationship with food
also don’t @ me thins, eating an entire package of cookies is still a healthy relationship with food
I’ll never understand what it’s like to want to be fat also finding it hard to gain but hate or dislike eating on top of that. Like I’m sorry this might not work the way you think it will, doesn’t make you any less valid as a feedist just gotta work towards a better relationship with food
also don’t @ me thins, eating an entire package of cookies is still a healthy relationship with food
Why eat a package of cookies, when you could eat two?
9 months
Developing a dependence on food - how?
RoyalRose:
So partially for kink reasons and partially because I genuinely struggle with not being motivated to eat, I want to try developing a genuine food addiction. (I can be starving after not eating for 12 hours and pretty easily ignore it. Plus I hate snacking because it's inconvenient).
I can be pretty picky, thankfully I like fast food atleast, but i've always disliked the act of eating itself. I've improved a lot over the last few years and put on some weight, but it can be so so difficult to eat when i'm not motivated by hunger pangs and snacking/eating feels like an inconvenience. When actively trying to gain I have to solely rely on motivation through kink, and then I burn out 1-2 months in.
I understand how very serious a real addiction can be, i've actually thought about this topic for over a year and really considered it. If something serious were to happen I do have the support system necessary. But I honestly want to develop a psychological dependance on food/eating.
On FF, a few threads/forums/posts/whatever you call them inspired me:
-"Learning to stress eat"
-"Subtle mental conditioning of a feedee"
-"Psychological conditioning"
Unfortunately that isn't a whole lot to go on though. Does anyone have advice, experiences, suggestions, or anything else?
So partially for kink reasons and partially because I genuinely struggle with not being motivated to eat, I want to try developing a genuine food addiction. (I can be starving after not eating for 12 hours and pretty easily ignore it. Plus I hate snacking because it's inconvenient).
I can be pretty picky, thankfully I like fast food atleast, but i've always disliked the act of eating itself. I've improved a lot over the last few years and put on some weight, but it can be so so difficult to eat when i'm not motivated by hunger pangs and snacking/eating feels like an inconvenience. When actively trying to gain I have to solely rely on motivation through kink, and then I burn out 1-2 months in.
I understand how very serious a real addiction can be, i've actually thought about this topic for over a year and really considered it. If something serious were to happen I do have the support system necessary. But I honestly want to develop a psychological dependance on food/eating.
On FF, a few threads/forums/posts/whatever you call them inspired me:
-"Learning to stress eat"
-"Subtle mental conditioning of a feedee"
-"Psychological conditioning"
Unfortunately that isn't a whole lot to go on though. Does anyone have advice, experiences, suggestions, or anything else?
You do not want this. This is might seem fun in the short-term, but developing a dependency/addiction to food only brings suffering long-term.
I've seen it up close and personal. It destroys relationships and lives.
What you want is to associate eating with pleasure. If you have such an painful relationship with food and eating, it's best to tackle the root of the issue first. What about eating and snacking is such a pain for you?
9 months
Does anyone know any bhm photographery models?
Angiefoodcake:
I'm an aspired 3D modeler who wants to make my own BHM character sculpts. However, it's not easy finding decent references of fat guys. I thought maybe I could commission a model to do photoshoots. I haven't found anyone yet.
Munchies:
When we say models, are we talking about actual plus-sized male models or fetish models? Are you looking for a particular size/shape?
Angiefoodcake:
I guess both. My OC in question is shirtless but not fully nude. I imagine him stocky. Around the 200 pounds range.
Munchies:
Most male fetish models tend to be bigger - usually the 300 lbs range. And they are too flabby to be stocky. If you want stocky, then you want an athlete like a hocky player or football player.
From left to right, these are Hunter Westfall, Zach Miko, and Matt Wirken.
These men are in the 200 - 300 lbs range - closer to the 300 lbs range.
You might be able to find someone with this body weight range if you check out the photo section of FF. You can also look into gay bears and cubs. These men are generally not feedists, but they are bigger guys who are will post pictures of themselves shirtless.
Angiefoodcake:
Ah my bad. I'm so bad at guessing weights. I meant like Farley's body type. But I didn't want to pull up a photo because I was at work. I think he's like mid 200-300 pounds?
I'm an aspired 3D modeler who wants to make my own BHM character sculpts. However, it's not easy finding decent references of fat guys. I thought maybe I could commission a model to do photoshoots. I haven't found anyone yet.
Munchies:
When we say models, are we talking about actual plus-sized male models or fetish models? Are you looking for a particular size/shape?
Angiefoodcake:
I guess both. My OC in question is shirtless but not fully nude. I imagine him stocky. Around the 200 pounds range.
Munchies:
Most male fetish models tend to be bigger - usually the 300 lbs range. And they are too flabby to be stocky. If you want stocky, then you want an athlete like a hocky player or football player.
From left to right, these are Hunter Westfall, Zach Miko, and Matt Wirken.
These men are in the 200 - 300 lbs range - closer to the 300 lbs range.
You might be able to find someone with this body weight range if you check out the photo section of FF. You can also look into gay bears and cubs. These men are generally not feedists, but they are bigger guys who are will post pictures of themselves shirtless.
Angiefoodcake:
Ah my bad. I'm so bad at guessing weights. I meant like Farley's body type. But I didn't want to pull up a photo because I was at work. I think he's like mid 200-300 pounds?
Most models are tall. Think 6+ feet. Chris Farley was a shorter, but respectable 5'9". As such, you can look fatter at shorter heights - controlling for body comp. And what size of Chris Farley are you looking for?
This Chris Farley is about 400 lbs.
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This one is probably closer to 200.
I looked up some references I found something on Google Images. This might help you decide what kind of torsos you're looking for:
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9 months
Does anyone know any bhm photographery models?
Angiefoodcake:
I'm an aspired 3D modeler who wants to make my own BHM character sculpts. However, it's not easy finding decent references of fat guys. I thought maybe I could commission a model to do photoshoots. I haven't found anyone yet.
Munchies:
When we say models, are we talking about actual plus-sized male models or fetish models? Are you looking for a particular size/shape?
Angiefoodcake:
I guess both. My OC in question is shirtless but not fully nude. I imagine him stocky. Around the 200 pounds range.
I'm an aspired 3D modeler who wants to make my own BHM character sculpts. However, it's not easy finding decent references of fat guys. I thought maybe I could commission a model to do photoshoots. I haven't found anyone yet.
Munchies:
When we say models, are we talking about actual plus-sized male models or fetish models? Are you looking for a particular size/shape?
Angiefoodcake:
I guess both. My OC in question is shirtless but not fully nude. I imagine him stocky. Around the 200 pounds range.
Most male fetish models tend to be bigger - usually the 300 lbs range. And they are too flabby to be stocky. If you want stocky, then you want an athlete like a hocky player or football player.
From left to right, these are Hunter Westfall, Zach Miko, and Matt Wirken.
These men are in the 200 - 300 lbs range - closer to the 300 lbs range.
You might be able to find someone with this body weight range if you check out the photo section of FF. You can also look into gay bears and cubs. These men are generally not feedists, but they are bigger guys who are will post pictures of themselves shirtless.
9 months
