How has your family reacted to your weight gain?

So it happened, my Dad called me a glutton when after dinner a few nights ago. We went out, went back to my house than sat down to a movie and I polished a bad of chips during it, at which point he called me a glutton and how I’m gonna be as big as a house if I don’t get my act right, and I just straight up said get out of my house and that I’m a 30 year old man. I feel like I laid the law down on him trying to shame me maybe I should make that clear when I talk to him? Amazed it just happened now, thought it would have happened sooner.
2 years

I’m really struggling with my calorie goal…

Just eat until you couldn’t possibly eat anymore, eventually eating big will come so naturally you won’t feel satifsifyed by what would be seen by most as a large meal.

getting big is a lot like body building if you wanna be big you gotta eat big!
2 years

Hating myself for this fetish and being fatphobic to others out of self hatred

You wouldn’t be racist, homophobic, or transphobic to someone why would you engage in behaviors that are fatphobic? I understand you’re conflicted but you’re hurting other people and no amount of hurt you inflict will make you feel any better. You need to come to terms with your attraction because it’s not gonna change.
2 years

Has anyone seen the movie, “the whale”?

I haven’t seen it so I won’t comment on the themes of it but what from what I’ve seen from interviews and stuff is that Brennan Frasier looks pretty dang good fat.
2 years

What was your first “im getting so fat” moment?

KingClanka:
My first was when my jeans wouldn’t go up past my thighs. My favorite was when I had to leave a plus size store empty handed and shop online


Sucks when you can’t go to the store to try stuff on. It’s not even the waist for me that’s hard it’s the freakin inseam with my waist hahaha
2 years

Do you have an upper weight limit?

I want to say my limit is 600 pounds but that’s a lot from where I am so maybe 500. Playing it by ear for now smiley
2 years

How soon to expect gains after getting desk job?

I don’t want to nay say but my job is not sedentary like at all I’m on my feet most of the day doing moderate activity sometimes in the heat, and I still managed to gain weight.

People severally underestimate calorie deficit vs intake. 1 meal will pretty much eliminate any loss acquired by a hardcore work out.
2 years

What was your first “im getting so fat” moment?

I went to chipotle and got a burrito and the lady behind the counter said “that’s it?” I was like “huh?” Then she looked down at my belly, and I said you’re right and I got a second.. without thought haha, I’m getting so comfortable with being how gluttonous I want to be
2 years

Home cooked meals

Is there a good way to gauge calories from home cooked meals? When you get packaged stuff or food from a restaurant it says and you can be sure that’s the number your consuming but for home cooked stuff how can you tell?
2 years

Favourite roast dinner

Munchies:
A good roast is full of flavor. I don't think your mom knew what she was doing. But that's okay.


Want to try a good roast lol
2 years