"letting go"

Abundance wrote:
It was more like giving in than letting go.


Did it feel good to give in?
12 years

How do you deal when someone..

It happens on this site, it happens on other sites, it even happens in "real life".

This:

feeder_f wrote:
The best thing you can do is stop dwelling on these questions.
12 years

What's harder...

jdswungan wrote:
But I think it's to do with how many people are actually into weight gain. Not that much in reality is it?


I don't know--given all the photo-documented gains I've seen on ff and youtube, there are a lot more than I used to think!
12 years

What's harder...

..for a feeder to find a real-life feedee, or for a feedee to find a real-life feeder?

Just tell me your impression. (I don't expect everyone to go out and do a scientific study!)
12 years

My first acceptance experience

greengear wrote:
AskDrFeeder wrote:
"Fetishized"? Why is it any worse for a guy to be attracted to a fat woman than a skinny blonde with big tits? I claim there's no significant difference.


lol DrFeeder, you are much better at putting things concisely than I am. Well said!


I cannot tell a lie--RubyRipples helped me on that!
12 years

My first acceptance experience

Wonderful story!

I have to say, I get it now. I for a brief moment, actually felt sexy.

Great start. Hopefully you'll learn to feel sexy all the time!

Sure, I don't prefer to be fetishized

"Fetishized"? Why is it any worse for a guy to be attracted to a fat woman than a skinny blonde with big tits? I claim there's no significant difference.
12 years

Comebacks to fat-haters

human wrote:
Persons: i think is a shit being isolated and insulted for being fat but so it is for being skinny as i am. I think we all should try to mature and accept and appreciate each others as we are. I do.


I wouldn't normally insult someone for being thin--unless she asks for it, as was clearly the case in the example given.
12 years

Fat and sport

Heroin_Chic wrote:
Water Polo, really? Dude, I played that for 8 years and and I can tell you if you are not in top shape you will die about 3 minutes into a match, like literally.


Fat people can be in shape.
12 years

Fat and sport

feedme90 wrote:
I'm a gainer since genuary, but now I don't feel in good shape, breathing and muscles are losing.
Should I get to play sports?
But I love my belly would be a disappointment to see it go down.
I do not know what to do!


I would guess sports that involve a lot of running or jumping are out. You still have:

1. Water polo
2. Table Tennis (?)
3. Arm wrestling
4. Sumo Wrestling
5. Shot putting
6. Weight-lifting and other strength sports
7. ....anyone?
13 years