Adiprose:
I'm hovering around 134 lbs after being between 116 and 122 lbs for a couple of years, and never above 128 lbs.

I thought I'd share my experience so far. I gained the weight over five weeks, starting at 116 lbs, quickly reaching 124 lbs, then going between 124 and 128 for a couple of weeks.

When my belly is bloated (which is all of the time now) my abs no longer show, and my belly looks properly round now, instead of a distended belly of a skinny person.

When I try to suck it in, my belly does resemble the "six-pack" shape, but there is now what looks like compressed fat, shaped to look like abs. If you saw me, you would maybe guess that I had abs at one point, but not a month ago.

I still just kinda look like a thin person with a bloated belly, but the added body fat is definitely there, and I absolutely love it! I struggled with desires to gain for almost a decade, so this is a huge shift in my life.

Gothxbrat:
As you get fatter you eat more. You need more. This is something everyone both feeder and potential feedee should be aware of. You wake up hungry you get so hungry you get sick. You will eat 100$ in an hour it's nothing unless all you eat is budget garbage. Being fat on meat and cream is hard but it's what's best everything with butter. Take advantage of every opportunity to eat it's not hard to for me at least 🐖

Ed11:
don't understand why you blocked me. When I need nothing wrong?

Gainingdream:
Do you have a tasty recipe to make a shake of 5/6 thousand calories?

HectorBalloon:
Can't do heavy cream myself. Gives me funny reaction. Instead I used a sort of half-fake cream called Elmlea that is made in the UK. My max a day is 275mm. That is 800 calories. It is the only thing that doesn't cause medical problems and is calorie dense.

Real cream = trouble
Plant cream = migraines

CelticBlimp:
It is an issue that can only be resolved with patience, as much as I want to live the feedee experience. They always show their true colours once things begin to get real, and in my case they always run. I'd rather give up this kink for a healthy relationship than settle for something mediocre that only pleases the other person and places all the work on me.

PlumpTank:
Would love to be gaslit and coerced into becoming such a gay obese piggy.

LoLbreadplease:
I am curious about a correlation between fat phobic influences and feedism. My mom loved to eat, was overweight, but warned her children not to be fat, while also associating eating with comfort. She neither wanted us to be thin or too fat, and sought some kind of control to achieve our desired weight. There was a stigma around being fat, obviously, but it was confusing. I think my dad may have been at least an enabler, if not an encourager, of her eating and weight. But she thought being fat was wrong from an aesthetic perspective, as her weight was "commented" on from a young age, and she was chubby growing up. From a young age, I was turned on at the thought of being fat, but I developed an eating disorder (likely to regain control, I see now), and I stayed fit my whole life until last year I realized my fetish for gaining weight. My daydreams came to life. I wonder how my upbringing influenced my fetish, although I suppose it's possible I was just wired to want to be fatter.

CelticBlimp:
I just had this experience, and I'm feeling both amused and annoyed. The closest I've been to meeting a feeder was this man who was from the city I'm living in but resides in another city. We spent around a month talking about meeting, what we would do once we met and plans for the close future. But then he started showing disinterest and withdrawing, clearly bored from our interactions. He had stopped replying and so did I matching his energy, and I deleted his contact and chat from my phone. This last week he returned, crying about how I stopped writing him and that he still wanted to meet me. I ignored it and deleted the messages. He wrote two more times, each one more desperate than the last. But today he sent a long paragraph about how he bought another house and he wanted me to go live with him hours away, that he would treat me well and make me happy. Just pathetic, but this one guy had said something that rubbed me the wrong way back at the beginning, that he would finance my gains through a "disability pension" on my future morbid obesity. Yet he now tells me he bought a house, and if I were to believe him, this would be his third property. But the gains would be on my state pension. I'm sure this is just a desperate guy who doesn't know what he wants and is lying out his ass or being unhinged. Of course, I deleted that message and I won't block him for now, let's see what he brings next.

Gothxbrat:
It's canola oil!! It's not butter!! I have been having to explain this to so many people lately and just wanted all you to know.