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My partner would go to the ends of the earth for me. He is a good man, and I am madly in love with him. I will not let people disrespect him. I don't care what he looks like or if other people approve of his lifestyle. They are not allowed to degrade and demean him.

I know my mom has fatphobic tendencies, but she knows better than to say anything about his size to him. And while my friends aren't fatphobic, I'd defend him fiercely from any comments they'd make.

I don't tolerate fatphobia towards strangers. I really won't tolerate it towards loved ones.

I will say that since dating me, my partner's confidence has never been higher. There've been times when I'm frothing at the mouth over something someone else said about him, and he'll tell me that I don't need to worry about it. So long as he knows how much I love him and am attracted to him, other's comments mean nothing to him.

Also, masochist that he is, he enjoys the comments about his size to a degree.

I'd do it anyway. Your anxiety is important. Let her know you have concerns and want her help dealing with them. If she loves you, she'll take you seriously.

There's a thousand ways to be fat and happy. You just have to find the way that works for you.

I hated them. A lot of the comments were fatphobic. I wanted to throw hands a couple of times. My partner wouldn't let me.

I understand that these comments were coming from a place of love and concern, but when someone says to yout partner "You are too fat to find love" you wanna start making out with him in front of them out of spite.

My partner is mine to love, cherish, and protect. Woe onto those who cross the line for I will not be kind.

I put 100 lbs on my partner which bumped him from 407 lbs go about 500 lbs. His friends and family were worried about him, but he shut down most of their critism.

Iirc, they staged an intervention for him once. He was not amused. I did encourage him to move around more and eat better. This helped to a degree.

All that said, he was committed to gaining weight. He loved it before, but having someone else be into it spurred him to new heights. We only stopped when the weight got too much for him to handle.

He's still a very large man - about 390 lbs. However, no one bothers him about his size anymore since he's on a weight loss journey.

Munchies:
As I've said, the "delayed" weight gain effect isn't really delayed weight gain. Consuming heavy cream or its alternatives primes your body for more weight gain later. Diets high in fat spike your triglyceride levels. Your liver will break them down into glycerol and fatty acids in a process called lipolysis.

When these levels are high, this can lead to elevated insulin levels. What you eat during this time greatly determines if you will gain, maintain, or lose weight after consuming heavy cream. This is why some people report great success after a heavy cream binge, and others can't seem to make anything stick.

Sneederid:
For maximally efficient fat gain, when the triglycerides spike high enough for this to kick in, should we stay on heavy cream or switch completely?

As I hear some say it’s only when they went off the cream that they blew up.[/quote]

Your body needs breaks from heavy cream, so you shouldn't be on it every day anyway. Plus, some people end up losing weight when they are on heavy cream. This is because heavy cream sits heavy in the stomach. For some people, they end up eating less when they consume a lot of heavy cream.

How long you stay on heavy cream is up to you. Most will consume it for a few days or weeks at a time. Some will consume it for a few months. Do what works for you. I will say that some people handle heavy cream better when they cook with it.

Have you talked to your partner about your feelings?

Here's to living your best life no matter what the haters do or say 🥳

There are three types of depictions of fat people in media: negative, neutral, and positive.

Negative depictions are where fatness is seen as a bad thing. For example, the fat character has fatphobic stereotypes that go unchallenged or fat charcter isn't allowed to be happy or accepted. Nobit and Shallow Hal are good examples.

Neutral depictions are when the character's size isn't commented on. They're fat, but no one cares one way or another. Mrs. Doubtfire and Moana have fat characters, but their size is incidental.

Positive depictions engage with the character's size and humanize them. They're fat, but they are worthy of love as anyone else. Shrill and Hairspray are pretty good about this.

As far as I can tell, FF is chugging along with no plans to stop. I've had no issues accessing it on mobile or my laptop.

It's more about your diet and if you've stretched out your stomach a lot. My partner has been well over 300 lbs since I've known him. The only time he's been gassy is when I'm stuffing the living daylights out of him. Outside of that, he isn't any gassier than the average person.