Noi:
They prob don't think of ya, most ppl just tune out while at the gym, so have no fear of judgement š
Very true. If anything theyād be inspired that youāre trying.
2 years
Yeah Iām starting to come to this realization. Iāve been losing weight and I canāt keep it on no matter how much Iām eating but Iām really diggin my body right now. Also when you lose serious amounts of weight you look doughier lol
2 years
Munchies:
Meanwhile, kink negotiations center the person and not the kink. It makes for a more mutually satisfying outcome.
Morbidly A Beast:
Thereās a lot of people still out there who have no concept of kink and fetishes. Like me for an example prior to getting into this I really had no idea, and to be frank I still donāt. Are we as ākinkstersā forever at a advantage over others in that regard?
Munchies:
Those who know more about a kink - even if it's just that the kink exists - have an advantage over outsiders. As such, we have the ability to greatly influence how a non-feedist partner practices feedism. And that goes for any kink.
Of course, that influence will be there no matter what. But a good partner will do whatever it takes to give their partner agency as they figure out their boundaries and interests.
I've noticed in the forums that whenever a feedist (usually a feeder) brings their non-feedist partner into the kink, the ones that ensure their partner's agency tend to work out better long term than those that don't.
Interesting and noted. Do you think I need to express to a potential non-feedist partner that this isnāt my āfinal formā so to speak?
2 years
Iāve been thinking about this and I cannot think of anything in particular.
Other than silly stuff like you make my dreams come true by Hall and Oates which frankly has been done to death in a lot of montages..
Iām stumped!
2 years
But the 3rd is about the rise of Napoleon š¤
2 years
Blackjackandberries:
I'm a Landscaper currently.
Hey same! š
2 years
Munchies:
Meanwhile, kink negotiations center the person and not the kink. It makes for a more mutually satisfying outcome.
Thereās a lot of people still out there who have no concept of kink and fetishes. Like me for an example prior to getting into this I really had no idea, and to be frank I still donāt. Are we as ākinkstersā forever at a advantage over others in that regard?
2 years
You could have āsleep apneaā when your congested but when youāre not youāre just fine, or you could sleep funny one night and the next night be fine. Maybe you linked your neck funny etc.. itās just so silly they say because youāre fat itās the cause of it.
Like itās serious thing not getting enough oxygen unoxygenated blood is super toxic to the body. Itās more than āI donāt get a good nights restā or āIām a bit sleepy when I wake upā (what adult does?)
2 years
Iāve done a fair amount of research into the subject because I was being yanked around by doctors when I went to renew my health card.
Snoring isnāt the problem itās Gasping for air at night because you canāt get enough oxygen so you āwake upā alot during the night. The test is just seeing how many times you āwake upā at night and that could be caused by so many things.
2 years
Yāall feeders might have a easier time with people who are already fat I mean for me it was just a failed diet a lil bit of body positivity and fat acceptance and I was hooked ā itās important however to express those intentions not all fatties like being fat
2 years
