Bigdj1977:
I agree with this “kink” not being exclusively sexual. Heck, I don’t even consider it a kink really. To me it is much more a lifestyle than anything else. Sure there is a sexual part to it, but that’s just one small section of it. The way I see it, you can’t be living your live as a 300, 400 or 500 pound person just because of a sexual kink. If you’re really into this fat lifestyle it has to check off a lot more boxes.
I like that. It is a lifestyle. We’re really body builders when you think about it!
2 years
Morbidly A Beast:
I’m I just a fat man who likes to eat or am I feedist? I have no real desire to be fattened by anyone nor fatten anyone I think I’ve done good on my own in terms of fattening but I don’t really find it all that sexual it’s just something that is inevitable by how much I eat. I enjoy some of the stories on here and even find some people attractive on here. It’s been fun interacting with you all.
Munchies:
Kink doesn't have to be sexual. I do kink stuff on the time with others on the site. It's very rare that I'm aroused when I do that/
There are more aspects to feedism than getting fat or fattening others. For example, you can be a foodie (someone who loves to eat food, but isn't concerned about weight gain) or a fat appreciator (someone who likes fat people and may not care about weight gain).
There are also some people on this site who aren't feedists but enjoy the scene all the same.
You are welcome to be here no matter what you decide.
Oh this is very insightful thank you, I thought kink was inherently sexual!
Currently I think gainer describes me but foodie sounds about right too. Also your point on not everyone here is a feedist gives me some relief too.
2 years
I’m I just a fat man who likes to eat or am I feedist? I have no real desire to be fattened by anyone nor fatten anyone I think I’ve done good on my own in terms of fattening but I don’t really find it all that sexual it’s just something that is inevitable by how much I eat. I enjoy some of the stories on here and even find some people attractive on here. It’s been fun interacting with you all.
2 years
Been thinking about how helpless I am around food and how much I spend on fast food and groceries, and it definitely has grown on me as I’ve gotten more into feedism
2 years
I haven’t worn anything without an elastic band in about 2 years tried putting on my 44’s and they were not even close to buttoning I have no idea where to start on trying to find pants that fit
2 years
at one point I was at the lowest bf% you can be to be able to wrestle at 7% body fat I am now class III obese
2 years
I was struggling a bit last year with the weight I’ve gained with Covid like 60 pounds lol putting me over 300 I actually started the year wanting to lose weight, and my New Years res was to lose weight and here I am in August 40 pounds heavier. I tried, I really went all in it’s just not as easy as I was when I was younger, I cut from 160 to 125 for wrestling yearly back in the day… so I looked more into fat acceptance and body positivity, and I found there was people who WANTED to gain weight as in be fat! And basically I was hooked right in.
2 years
Getting healthy options is a good idea. Personally, I would encourage my roommate/friend to buy their own food. Say it’s about money or whatever.
2 years
I have just been wearing gym shorts be weary though if doing anything demanding like jetsking they might fall off, but for Just going water this is our strongest option tbh
2 years
I’ve been having to adjust my belly after sitting down, if I don’t my belly pushes down on other parts of my body causing discomfort
2 years
