My first acceptance experience

Wonderful story!

I have to say, I get it now. I for a brief moment, actually felt sexy.

Great start. Hopefully you'll learn to feel sexy all the time!

Sure, I don't prefer to be fetishized

"Fetishized"? Why is it any worse for a guy to be attracted to a fat woman than a skinny blonde with big tits? I claim there's no significant difference.
13 years

Comebacks to fat-haters

human wrote:
Persons: i think is a shit being isolated and insulted for being fat but so it is for being skinny as i am. I think we all should try to mature and accept and appreciate each others as we are. I do.


I wouldn't normally insult someone for being thin--unless she asks for it, as was clearly the case in the example given.
13 years

Fat and sport

Heroin_Chic wrote:
Water Polo, really? Dude, I played that for 8 years and and I can tell you if you are not in top shape you will die about 3 minutes into a match, like literally.


Fat people can be in shape.
13 years

Fat and sport

feedme90 wrote:
I'm a gainer since genuary, but now I don't feel in good shape, breathing and muscles are losing.
Should I get to play sports?
But I love my belly would be a disappointment to see it go down.
I do not know what to do!


I would guess sports that involve a lot of running or jumping are out. You still have:

1. Water polo
2. Table Tennis (?)
3. Arm wrestling
4. Sumo Wrestling
5. Shot putting
6. Weight-lifting and other strength sports
7. ....anyone?
13 years

Getting over it,

fat apple wrote:
I thought about gaining for at least 3 months before acting on it. When I decided to go for it, I was ready. .


Interesting. There really are two schools of thought on this: those who do an experimental gain of maybe 10 pounds or more; and those like fat apple who deliberate about it until the make up their mind and just go ahead with it.
13 years

Gainers grocery list

Key is shopping when you're HUNGRY. You'll buy more than you would otherwise.
13 years

Tipps for gaining?

"How to Get Fat" on my site!
13 years

Betsy

rubyripples wrote:
Lets keep this thread respectful and not go down this road like every SS bereavment thread on Dimensions.


Amen! Betsy will be missed. Glad she had a chance to pop in and say hi before she left.
13 years

Prefered weight

khr wrote:
I haven't found my ideal yet. It seems to move up every time I reach some previously set point.


What was the first set point?
13 years