Fantasy Feeder

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Hectoplasm:
It doesn't help that even though I'm somewhat heavier than I used to be, I still look really skinny to others from being tall.

My profile pic gives a false impression, as I was bloated there and it doesn't show my legs which are veeeeery long.

Anyway my neighbour, who weighs about 300lbs, thinks I'm about a third of his weight even though we're the same height lololol.

Probably boils down to body comp and weight distribution. You can get 3 different people who have the same height and weight. But depending on their body comp and/or weight distribution, they may look heavier or lighter.

For example, muscle is denser than fat. So someone with a lot of muscle will look thinner than a fatter person. Also, all over gains makes someone appear smaller than someone with concentrated gains. Lotta things that go into it.

Personally, I wouldn't put too much stock into the numbers on the scale. But if you want to be heavier, I'd throw in some weight training. Not only will it make getting fatter more comfortable, it will make you extremely hungry. You'll want to eat everything in sight.

You don't gotta become a meathead or go the strong fat look if you don't want. But it helps a lot with your gaining journey.

9 months

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Hectoplasm:
So I have somehow lost 4 pounds in 3 hours. I was 201lbs earlier, now 199lbs, but in that time I have NOT used the toilet and I have eaten 2lbs of food. WTH? Why did this happen? My scale is now consistent that I have lost this weight. I am trying to gain weight to 250lbs but this is terrible, means I've only gained about 10lbs in two weeks. Pathetic!

Munchies:
Lol, what? There's nothing bad about gaining 10 lbs in 2 weeks. That's nearly a pound a day. That's good.

Be kinder to yourself and relax. All that stress from putting unrealistic expectation on yourself can, ironically, make it harder for you to gain. Not only can stress lead to weight loss, but you'll frustrate yourself and give up before you see any real progress.

The trick is to have fun with it. Have you been having fun with gaining weight? Because it doesn't sound like it.

Hectoplasm:
Most of that was water weight, but the actual weight gain has stalled off. Think I've exercised too much and not eaten enough.

I sometimes get a bit bored of the process but I do generally enjoy it... for a few months. I want to go slightly further than last year, but am a bit more conflicted about it this time.

Doctors recommend those who are gaining weight to shoot for 1 - 2 lbs a week. That puts you at 52 - 104 lbs in a year.

Stop beating yourself up. You are being very mean to yourself. Calm down. Stop stressing. Have fun with your gains.

9 months

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How long can one gain in a healthy way

Masuli:
I would say he should gain slowly or faster but take little breaks so that his body can get accustomed to carrying the weight on the longer run.

Weight training would be good if trying to keep mobile while gaining weight.

Also suggesting adding vitamin D & Calcium or checking levels on blood for bone strength, this is important when carrying extra weight.

Munchies:
Collagen is good too. Keeps the skin supple as you grow and promotes joint health.

Masuli:
Really good suggestion!

You too!

9 months

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How good are you with role-plays?

Fatluvinguy:
I would think a negative outcome would be the norm. Basically it's two or more people performing a play, but with no script. Making it up on the spot is not easy for many people. While I've wanted to try some role play, I imagine the participants have to be on the same wavelength or it will get awkward in a hurry. I've tried role play using AI characters and while I think it's helped me with carrying a storyline, it's not a substitute for the real thing, at least not yet, but the potential is there. Obviously with AI, there's no pressure either. I appreciate that in role play you want to get lost in the story and getting pulled out because the other person can't carry their end would be very frustrating.

MickRidem:
Honestly? If I know the other person is trying their best, I have zero problems. I can try to guide and help if they like, or wait and be patient while they get into it. I like slow role play, I'm not always available, and I'm not online for a long time to play out super elaborate scenarios. I love popping online, adding to the conversation as much as I can, and coming back again another time when I can for more. Usually, starting with what you are into, and your boundaries/dislikes will help a lot. 😁

I think another issue is that most people are operating blind. For most people, the act of feeding or being fed is strictly fantasy. They've never experienced it, so they don't know what they are doing.

On top of that, a lot of them do not know what makes for good role play.

I remember one time I accepted an RP with a newbie. It lasted for 2 minutes start to finish because all he did was type "CHOMP, CHEW, BULGE, BURP, CHOMP CHOMP"

It wasn't good.

Another thing is that so many people are impatient. A good RP requires some level of world building. Doesn't gotta be J.R.R Tolkien levels (please don't ever do that), but it's important to flesh out the characters a little bit so you can play them better.

Most people wanna get to the spicy things from the jump. And so it stops being an RP and basically becomes sexting.

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Lost weight

Hectoplasm:
So I have somehow lost 4 pounds in 3 hours. I was 201lbs earlier, now 199lbs, but in that time I have NOT used the toilet and I have eaten 2lbs of food. WTH? Why did this happen? My scale is now consistent that I have lost this weight. I am trying to gain weight to 250lbs but this is terrible, means I've only gained about 10lbs in two weeks. Pathetic!

Lol, what? There's nothing bad about gaining 10 lbs in 2 weeks. That's nearly a pound a day. That's good.

Be kinder to yourself and relax. All that stress from putting unrealistic expectation on yourself can, ironically, make it harder for you to gain. Not only can stress lead to weight loss, but you'll frustrate yourself and give up before you see any real progress.

The trick is to have fun with it. Have you been having fun with gaining weight? Because it doesn't sound like it.

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Fattening boyfriend

Bigboyyy5:
First of all you all should show love to the parts you love most at your partners, and I love belly's and bellybutton! So if I'm dating I always tell the girls that they have a beautiful belly and giving love to them helps a lot. Furthermore if you want him to gain without noticing *** *** ***

Sir, that is a crime. You are a monster. I hope you go to jail.

Unlike you, OP loves her BF and respects his no. God, you make me sick.

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24 f feedee looking for someone to share videos with over email

Letters And Numbers:
Guys, he was banned a month ago

Oh it's worse than that. The true OP deleted her account. It's no longer there. But people don't pay attention and are still shooting their shot.

It's but at the same time hilarious.

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Am i overthinking this?

Karenjenk:
you would think that they would think ahead and have chairs for customers who spend more than others

How would that work?

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How long can one gain in a healthy way

Masuli:
I would say he should gain slowly or faster but take little breaks so that his body can get accustomed to carrying the weight on the longer run.

Weight training would be good if trying to keep mobile while gaining weight.

Also suggesting adding vitamin D & Calcium or checking levels on blood for bone strength, this is important when carrying extra weight.

Collagen is good too. Keeps the skin supple as you grow and promotes joint health.

9 months

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How long can one gain in a healthy way

Anjou:
Hey...
Long story short I married the man of my dreams, who when I simply said I like hefty guys (he was a slightly plump 190lbs to my 215) and told him about feedism he went hog(lol)wild.
At the same time I started losing weight due to my a1c (although I have always wanted to be thin).
Ngl, that contrast of him gaining and me losing made me horny 24/7. I just loved the feel of his rolls of fat getting bigger and bigger as I got smaller and smaller. I was on cloud nine.
He is up to 362 now to my 105. Ngl, I just look at him now and get a little wet. The fact that he workouts out daily (power lifter) and that I feed him pretty clean, with heavy cream mixed with protein powder being the mainstay when he is on his yearly gaining cycle, I think has allowed him to really only have high blood pressure that we keep in check with meds as a side effect of his 160 lbs gain in 3 or so years.
He has already started drinking a quart of cream because he wants to get to 400 by Halloween.
I guess my question to y’all is how long can one gain like this until health issues arise? Or stay as active as he does?
I told him that he is plenty big for me, but he has 💯 become a feedee and does not want to stop. I just worry that might be to big and have told him so. He did reassure me that he will stop if he has health issues, but tbh I kinda doubt he will at time. He is sooo into this now.
Any advice?

My partner and I are into extreme feedism. So, out of abundance of caution, he gives me full access to his medical records and updates me about every doctor's appointment. He also tells me any time he doesn't feel well for any reason.

Our communication is open and we have no secrets. This way, I know when it's safe to indulge as well as how intense we can be.

I get how you feel. Feeders can have a lot of guilt if our feedees get hurt or sick - even if we aren't at fault or completely to blame. But I cannot stress just how much have mutual trust and communication helps with that.

9 months

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