Establishing limits / boundaries

Somefeederguy1176:
Hey,

Been lurking on site for a while now but I'm not sure where to post this question so I'll put it in the general forum here. How many feedee's actually want immobillity.

When I was previosly on this site, I got a lot of messages from feedees with profiles that established that immobility was an end goal. I don't think I want that from a partner... Would you say that this accounts for the majority of members on this site?

I ask because despite what my profiles say, I do hope to participate in this kink when money is no longer as tight. Any and all feedback is helpful

-Somefeedeeguy


If a situation occurred in which a feedee could no longer complete everyday tasks and they were in a feedist relationship it would be on the feeder 100% to help the feedee.
2 years

Flavor variety and getting super-stuffed

I know that feeling all to well! We used to have old country buffets and Golden Corral and others now it’s all chinese food which has loads of sodium and msg which makes you feel extra meh after eating lots of. I like Chinese food don’t get me wrong, it’s just better in like a normal sized portion ironically.
2 years

What "awakened" this fetish for you?

I had been gradually putting on weight for years and attempting to diet and being successful for a while, hovering around the mid 200s only to gain more back until like last year when I had clocked in at my heaviest; upon looking at resources online to try and lose I found body positivity and fat acceptance which gave way to feedist blogs and stuff now here I am today over 400 lbs pushing 450 - iam hooked!

I cannot say prior to last year I had very many fattening thoughts on myself or others, but now I’ve kinda been exploring it a bit. I’ve learned all bodies are beautiful especially the fat ones. I enjoy fantasy stories etc
2 years

Sleep apnea and other sleep related illnesses.

Yeah from what it sounds like people who need it really get good sleep after using it, and swear by them.. it’s just a weird thing that I present no symptoms of sleep apnea and they want me to take a sleep test just because I’m obese #Fatphobia I understand if like you have a problem and are sleepy but like I drive for work alot and I never get sleepy…
2 years

Sleep apnea and other sleep related illnesses.

How many of you or your significant other have sleep apnea or excessively snore?

Apparently fat people are more likely to be in vehicle crashes due to poor sleep/drowsiness behind the wheel - which imo is dumb af because no one would ever call me “sleepy” - nor would they ever say I’d fall asleep behind the wheel even if I was up for 24+ hours
2 years

Do girls want to see dick pics in bio

If it’s unsolicited, It’s not okay, it’s basically indecent exposure!

Also, women do not get off to a picture in the same way a man does.

So think twice before you do it. She’s not thinking about your pee pee the same way you think about her features, or not at all.
2 years

What's the average rate of gain for people?

Personally I don’t find anyone else’s gain a metric for anything really, everyone has there own genetics and their own metabolism - you just gotta do you and enjoy the journey.

I’ve done 20, 30 pound months and I wasn’t eating *that much only like slightly more than normal, like I wasn’t uncomfortably stuffed granted what’s considered stuffed has changed massively…

But yeah I don’t think 10000 calories a day is very sustainable for most people even biggins, you know if you meet vanilla fat people they kinda eat like mice which is baffling to me. You gotta train your body to eat like that everyday otherwise it’s just a waste, imo.
2 years

Ever want to get back in shape?

Not really, I am much happier now following my appetite and being a fatty.
2 years

How to gain 70 in record time.

Primal23:
I've gained almost 100 lbs in a relatively short amount of time. A bit over a year with some breaks in between. While I do eat more in general, my main way of gaining has been heavy cream. 1quart has 3500 calories. Which is basically 1lb of body fat if you digest it all and reach your, at least, 2000-2500 calorie daily need.

But, I've found gaining is much more a marathon rather than a sprint. Slow and steady wins the race. Just like losing weight you need to change your diet, habits, and lifestyle. Anyone can white knuckle it for a couple weeks. Stuff themselves silly and gain a few lbs. But for higher gains that stick around it takes time and patience. And money as Munchies said. All those calories cost adds up fast. A lot of factors go into it too. Way to many to list and most we have no control over. I've found keeping a food journal with calorie counts and a slowing ramping up of calories goes a long way in seeing that you are actually eating enough to gain and how much. Along with being able to stick with it for the long term. Or at least long enough where you can gain a noticeable amount. Small breaks from time to time also seem helpful. Best of luck!


I haven’t counted a calorie to increase my consumption ever I mean it’s kinda fun to add it all up for a stuffing but I feel like just eating to the full extent of my appetite is funner imo, everyone’s a little different though and not as inclined to big a piggy with their appetite. Really good point about slow and steady, and it being a marathon rather than a sprint couldn’t agree more
2 years

Any tips on growing moobs

Lockel:it could lead to depression symptoms and some other health effects like erectile distinction but it’s probably the fastest way to increase breast tissue imo.

Munchies:
Soy milk doesn't have enough isoflavone to cause any kind of hormone change. It will not raise estrogen or lower testosterone.

That being said, there are benefits to consuming soy, so feel free to indulge.

I do not recommend taking estrogen supplements outside of gender-affirming care or other medical needs. It will give you a lot more changed than moobs. Also, there is a difference between gynecomastia and having a fatty chest.

Unfortunately, unless you get plastic surgery, you can't control what your body will look like as you gain weight. Maybe you'll get moobs. Maybe you won't. Either way, just embrace your body for what it is.

All bodies are beautiful.


^

Hormones are nothing to mess around with unless your like consulting a doctor.
2 years