You profiles says you weigh 315. So, if you were 120 3 years ago, you gained 195 pounds in 3 years?

It's nice to see a fat avatar. It makes no sense for someone who weighs 300 pounds (more or less) to have a thin one.

I think part of it is the reaction to the thin obseesed culture we live in. I think people are getting sick enough of it to come out far in the oposite direction. This includes young people who are rebelling against their parents who want to keep their children thin.

The doctors blame everything on weight. It just makes it easy so that they don't have to figure anything out.

You don't have to spill your guts about the whole feeder/feedee thing. Just tell her you like the way she looks now. If that is hard, concentrate on her chest. (most people don't mind that getting bigger) If you can't say anything, just pay more attention to it when you are frisky with her. Then start to mention how you like her gain in a kidding way. Get more serious as you get along. Work your way from the chest to other parts that are big. In other words, do it all gradually and see what she says and does.