Extreme dom encourager

Justforfat88:
Looking for some gainers/feedees to chat with and encourage in discord. Looking for long-term encouraging no flakes and rapid weight gain and totally gluttony is my thing! Feel free to message


Extreme domme feeder here. Just being nosy, but what does being an extreme dom encourager mean to you? What is your style of encouragement?
9 months

Any tips on gaining subcutaneous fat

Rotund:
Just wanted to know if anyone got some tips and advice on gaing more subcutaneous fat, while also loosing a bit of visceral fat. If im gonna be huge I want to do it best way possible.

Munchies:
Best way to do that is exercise. Your body burns visceral fat before it burns subcutaneous fat. Don't gotta get a gym membership. Walking is good enough.

Now, I have had success with making jiggly feedees by feeding them a mostly clean high calorie diet. But your genetics will determine how well that will work.

Rotund:
That makes sense walking is good and yeah wanna get rid of some viscal fat do you have list or link for some high calorie diet recommendations, that will help I kept looking online but came up confused and such.

Munchies:
I don't recommend diets in the sense of "You must eat these things and avoid those things" because it's restrictive and not fun at all. Honestly, it's better have flexibility.

That said, a high protein diet with whole grains, limited processed foods, and lots of color is a good way to do. High fat fish like salmon and cod, lean meat, nuts, avocados, lots of sauces, and cheese should be a good start.

Rotund:
Yeah I didn't want to do a restricted diet cuz they don't work to well and aren't fun. But all this information is really helpful I want to cut back on some of the junk that might hurt me when I get larger, and I wanted to add more of the softness and safer way of gaining since I do plan on wanting to be rather large. And rather start now to improve my feedee journey to SSBHM as best and healthy as possible. Thank you so much for sharing what you know smiley I really appreciate it.


No problem!

Remember that variety is the spice of life. If you cook, it's a lot easier and more fun to get that variety if you make it yourself. There are tons of big boys that love to cook online for inspiration.
9 months

Fit and fat interplay?

SumoSized:
I feel like this could lead to a dangerous eating disorder fairly quickly. Even though I am a feedee, I still prefer my feeder to be well fed as well. Could just be because I'm also into mutual gaining or maybe I've just seen too many of my friends suffer from eating disorders


Nah, I feel that. Sometimes when I hyperfocus on something, I legit forget to eat. This includes when I'm so horny that all I'm focused on is my partner. As such, he will stop what we are doing, tell me I need to eat, and will not let me continue until I at least have had a snack.
9 months

Any tips on gaining subcutaneous fat

Rotund:
Just wanted to know if anyone got some tips and advice on gaing more subcutaneous fat, while also loosing a bit of visceral fat. If im gonna be huge I want to do it best way possible.

Munchies:
Best way to do that is exercise. Your body burns visceral fat before it burns subcutaneous fat. Don't gotta get a gym membership. Walking is good enough.

Now, I have had success with making jiggly feedees by feeding them a mostly clean high calorie diet. But your genetics will determine how well that will work.

Rotund:
That makes sense walking is good and yeah wanna get rid of some viscal fat do you have list or link for some high calorie diet recommendations, that will help I kept looking online but came up confused and such.


I don't recommend diets in the sense of "You must eat these things and avoid those things" because it's restrictive and not fun at all. Honestly, it's better have flexibility.

That said, a high protein diet with whole grains, limited processed foods, and lots of color is a good way to do. High fat fish like salmon and cod, lean meat, nuts, avocados, lots of sauces, and cheese should be a good start.
9 months

Why do you want to get fat?

Karenjenk:
To prove to my BF that I love him and so he will trust me


Hun, if you gotta change your body to earn your boyfriend's trust, then he ain't the one for you.

By all means, get fat. Get as fat as you want. But this is only going to end in heartbreak.
9 months

Any tips on gaining subcutaneous fat

Rotund:
Just wanted to know if anyone got some tips and advice on gaing more subcutaneous fat, while also loosing a bit of visceral fat. If im gonna be huge I want to do it best way possible.


Best way to do that is exercise. Your body burns visceral fat before it burns subcutaneous fat. Don't gotta get a gym membership. Walking is good enough.

Now, I have had success with making jiggly feedees by feeding them a mostly clean high calorie diet. But your genetics will determine how well that will work.
9 months

Have you ever gotten off simply by playing with your belly?

Here's a fun fact. Your lower stomach - specifically the space between your navel and your mons - is an erogenous zone. Try teasing and massaging that area on a stuffed belly. It'll feel amazing.
9 months

Favorite easy fattening snacks?

Karenjenk:
cheapest brownie mix you can find.
extra oil
extra whole milk or cream
no eggs
mix well and freeze

if you get the right amounts of liquid it wont freeze solid and is more like ice cream.

also good for funnelling


Just wanna add on here that raw flour products can have traces of salmonella or e. coli. Cooking the flour usually circumvents it. But if you do decide to raw dog it, double check that whatever box mix you have has not been impacted buy any safety recalls. Can't vouch for other countries, but America has been having a lot of those lately.

Most stores tend to be good about getting rid of bad lots once the recall's been issued. As such, the real danger is using that old box of mix you got a while back and have just decided to use.
9 months

Design you dom or sub/ feeder or feedee

PlumpLilPet:
I'm not sure if as a result of my recent post here or maybe because of my profile that someone on this website thought it was appropriate to email me over and over, commanding me to submit to him. When I finally told him simply that "I'm not interested," he responded, "stop teasing everyone."
I wasn't aware that I had done any such thing. I believe I'm allowed to express my personal fantasies and desires.
I have been in a BDSM relationship in the past and I have been part of the BDSM community in NYC and Philly. I have been to SM clubs and partiers and met real life Dominants and submissives, both male and female. A Dominant doesn't just start ordering a submissive around. They introduce themselves and talk to them like a normal human being and then discuss any personal possibilities. If anyone thought I was teasing that was not my intention, but if you are a real dominant then you should know how to conduct yourself. Stalking is not the answer.
I think I'm right about this. I'd appreciate hearing anyone else's opinion on the matter.


It's nothing you did. Some people just suck.

I'm very open about my status of being a domme, and some assholes will still try to force me into being a sub because I am a woman. I know female subs and they have it even worse.

Still, I encourage you to message admin about it. You can send them an email with screenshots at team@fantasyfeeder.com
9 months

Who would be most surprised to see your weight gain?

Person12670:
I often fantasize about this. I would love to see reactions from two ex-girlfriends in particular. I was thin, fit and exercised a ton when I dated them. I was 75 lbs lighter than my recent max. One of them often said she didnt want her man to ever get so "huge" as 250 lbs... but thats exactly what I did. If I saw her, she would comment immediately but probably be sort of intrigued and playful about it. My other ex would be way more judgemental and probably gasp in disgust, especially since i put about 50 lbs on in the year after breaking up haha. I lived near her, so I used to walk around in outgrown clothes hoping to bump into her. She even hated that i put on 5-10 lbs while we were dating and wanted me to lose weight, so I suspect she will also think that she dodged a bullet getting away from this fatty.

Glitter Jelly:
I'm actually worried to accidentally bump into my ex since I've gained weight.

At the beginning of our relationship 6-7 years ago I was 30 lbs lighter than I am today, and since the breakup I gained close to 20 lbs, which are very noticeable on my 5'1" frame.

There are some clothes I can't let go (3 corduroy overalls especially) and I've been hoping to stretch them by wearing them.

I'm not sure it's working, because even though they are mostly made of cotton they contain like 3-5% of spandex. They seem to go back to their unstretched shape as soon as I take them off. T_T

In the meantime, tight as they are (my thighs look like sausages in casings and the fabric is visibly pulling everywhere but especially around my midsection), I'm painfully aware they are not the most flattering look for me right now so I don't wear them in public.


Here's the cool thing about ex's:

Their opinions don't matter. They can think whatever they want, but their opinion of you does not matter unless you let it matter. Don't let a possible interaction that never happened steal your joy from you.
9 months