I’m the only one that can’t find a feedee?

Senpai Hentai The Hentai Lord:
I have to agree on that it feels like this is more at times a fetish community less than a dating app despite it technically being both evenly but it pushes more towards other


It's really a fetish community first and foremost. That's why people in monogamous relationships with profiles clearly stating they don't want anyone are on here.

Including me. If this was a dating site, y'all wouldn't see me at all.
9 months

I’m the only one that can’t find a feedee?

AskDrFeeder:
You are not the only one. It's hard to find the right person, but hang in there. And while you wait, get your financial house in order. There are few better feeders than ones who can easily afford food, clothes, plane tickets and such.


I mean, becoming financially stable is important, but that's not nearly enough. Many (usually male) feeders mistake being financially stable and monetarily generous for being someone worthy of spending time with.

Besides, despite guys griping about the contrary, there are many (usually female) feedees who refuse money from unfamiliar feeders because they will take that as them owing them for things they don't want. For example, because a feeder paid a feedee for food, they owe them nudes.

In my experience, the best way to get into a feedist relationship is to be someone they can be vulnerable with and not have your fetish as the main/sole part of your relationship. This should be a person you can at least see yourself being friends with.
9 months

Coping with the heat

Ligr77:
I will also say that they sell handheld ACs at some Walgreens locations. That said it might be easier to google "handheld AC". One of my coworkers found one, and they say it works pretty well!

Also, I legit didn't know that AC was that uncommon in the UK.


Looks like hand-held AC are electric fans. Never heard it called that before.

You'll find many European buildings don't have AC. Modern buildings often do, but not most older buildings. It makes perfect sense if you think about it. For centuries, the UK climate tended to be very cold year-round, so it made perfect sense to make buildings that retain heat.

But then ... global warming. Now, a lot of those buildings are essentially saunas. You build things based on what you need. If your needs change, you gotta make new buildings, retrofit, or you're screwed.
9 months

Are there any dominant feedees/gainers?

Enas:
Well, you pose a question that if taken litteraly, is not very helpfull. Odds are, with so many people, given that there is a variety of, there are definetely people who can be described, or at least are similar to the description you gave.

(Thats not a very helpfull question to ask, because its something that anyone can figure out on their own, no need to ask this specific question to other people, etc)

Im suspecting, however that youre trying to get to a different point however, like... How common are they, or how to uproach them maybe. Am i correct on this?

Femme Calories:
That would be correct.

Enas:
I recomend you to search for feedee authors of stories that contain a dom feedee and maybe even a sub feeder!


That doesn't mean anything. I'm strictly a domme feeder and I have made stories with domme feedees, domme feeders, and switch mutual gainers.
9 months

Coping with the heat

Morbidly A Beast:
I’m sorry if you are uncomfortable with any ammount of heat or lack there of it sucks, especially as bigger people.

But yall summers are so mild it’s kinda funny when you guys complain about the heat just today it was 98 but it feels like it’s 110 I just checked the temp in Britain it’s like a high of 80 😂


You gotta remember that it is humid, there's no AC, and the buildings are made to retain heat.
9 months

Feeder girls?

Tomi20:
I have been looking for a while for a woman who wants a swallowing pig and who will witness a great physical change.

Munchies:
Unfortunately, we lost all the female feeders in the incident. It was very sad.

Tomi20:
In what incident?


The incident where all the female feeders just vanished. There haven't been any since. It's so sad.
9 months

Feeder girls?

Tomi20:
I have been looking for a while for a woman who wants a swallowing pig and who will witness a great physical change.


Unfortunately, we lost all the female feeders in the incident. It was very sad.
9 months

Ideas for fantasy feeder feedee content - need your feedback

ILuvChubbyChix:
Realistically, for most folks?

10,000 calories seems like it's way too much, and not reasonable for most. For some? Sure.

It's not clear if this is a one time, occasional, or even once a week for a stuffing, or if this is intended be every day. So which is it?

Is this anything like those "cheat day" videos I see on YouTube sometimes? Though most authors/creators who do this, tend to be extremely fit and seem to almost live at the gym. But I've sometimes seen them do 10K or even 15K calories before, but certainly not every day.

If every day back to back, I'm convinced is impossible and would probably make you sick and unwell.

There are those competitive eaters you hear about, but they trained up to it. They also don't eat like that every day and will generally prepare for a couple or few days before the moment of truth.

Personally, I have had 4,000 calorie days several days in a row before, think 5 days. Doing that 2 days in a row is probably not that hard unless you're still quite small and very early on in your gaining journey.

I don't think I could do 10,000 calories in a single day, I don't think. There was one time I did 6,000 calories, but that involved drinking an entire quart of heavy cream, and I didn't feel that great the following day. Granted, that was about 40-45 lbs ago, but still.

True every day life is unlikely to be feasible, since folks have things like jobs to go to.

Maybe it'd be easier to do a 10K calorie day no more than once or twice a month, or at most, once a week.

The OP also mentions something about tracking progress, which suggests this isn't a one off thing.

So to recap, a one-time thing or every day?


When my partner and I first got together, he wanted me to feed him 10k in a day. Mind you, he was 407 at the time and ate 3 - 5k calories a day without stuffing himself.

It took me 3 months of near constant stuffing to get him to that point. And it definitely hurt. Don't get me wrong. He's into that shit. But most aren't.
9 months

Coping with the heat

Brokk:
It’s summer time in the UK, which on some levels I really enjoy … but there are those days when it gets just *too* hot for me and I find it quite a challenge and very tiring.

I like to do a lot of walking too, even in the summer, but that can be more of a challenge sometimes these days.

Any general advice?

(Other than ice cream which I eat copious quantities of lol)

Morbidly A Beast:
Drink a lot of water, it shouldn’t be drunk just when you’re thirsty you need to drink more depending how big you are. But beyond that there’s not much that can be done just be sure to take breaks and sit in a cool shaded area

Brokk:
Yup drinking water is definitely good advice and helps a lot.


I've heard y'all don't have AC. Get a portable one or at least a fan. If you can get out of the house and go to places with AC for most of the day or go swimming, that's also good.
9 months