Bigandbloated:
Despite me getting really turned on at the prospect of getting huge, this fetish for me has always been a "see how it goes" kinda thing. Since I'm trying to put on muscle which requires eating a calorie excess anyway, I've always tried to frame this as "purposely going overboard with it and making a happy little accident". The problem is I can't even hit enough calories to bulk up, let alone get fat.

In addition to having my mind occupied with a whole other bunch of life stuff and this being not my only kink, the simple fact is I just hate eating. I always feel like it's such a time waster (probably because I've always been such a slow eater as well esp. due to choking incidents in the past) and the only time I get any pleasure out of it is 1) having something I haven't had in a while or 2) having something after starving. Add in addition to that is I'm on Vyvanse and it just makes it way worse.

I also am a very light sleeper which also stops me from eating too much at night. I'm still in the process of fixing my sleep as well, not helping is that I hate it just as much as eating. Also lack of sleep is supposed to lead to weight gain, but just diminishes my appetite further so I can't even get that benefit.

Any tips so that I can learn to enjoy eating? Even if I gave up this kink I still need to put on muscle so I can't ignore it. Plus it would be good to actually have some pleasure with it that's not just motivated by sexual stimulation.

Note: If you want to know my current diet is mostly high calorie + high protein Hello Fresh meals, avoiding any desserts and other sugary things. The only "junk" I really have is the occasional high calorie shake with a lot of heavy cream.

Enas:
I'm aware that many (maybe even most) guys want a shorter than them girl. Im kind of not in that group, i would not mind someone taller than me even!

Also i like women that have a lot of muscle, not just the usual toned body but byceps bulging out (the other muscles in the leg, i forget the name) also, etc!

Psychologically someone who can, and often does, take the initiative (but also in a smart way, not someone just being a girlboss) will certainly attract me.

And also, someone who actually has opinions, super importand.

There are other things too but i cant really word them rn.

Munchies:


Stockylove:
This Resident Evil character was a fetish of many people on the net. I think it's because of her personality and the fact that she's a giant (macro)

And a lady vampire maybe.

It must inspire a desire to be dominated in some people.

Karenjenk:
Not a man,
but
I love MOOBS
Guys, if you want to grow them specifically
get some Birth control pills and overload

Enas:
I'm aware that many (maybe even most) guys want a shorter than them girl. Im kind of not in that group, i would not mind someone taller than me even!

Also i like women that have a lot of muscle, not just the usual toned body but byceps bulging out (the other muscles in the leg, i forget the name) also, etc!

Psychologically someone who can, and often does, take the initiative (but also in a smart way, not someone just being a girlboss) will certainly attract me.

And also, someone who actually has opinions, super importand.

There are other things too but i cant really word them rn.

Munchies:


Enas:
🤣

Edit:

Im sorry, but this looks more and more like she just has back pain instead! xD

Enas:
I'm aware that many (maybe even most) guys want a shorter than them girl. Im kind of not in that group, i would not mind someone taller than me even!

Also i like women that have a lot of muscle, not just the usual toned body but byceps bulging out (the other muscles in the leg, i forget the name) also, etc!

Psychologically someone who can, and often does, take the initiative (but also in a smart way, not someone just being a girlboss) will certainly attract me.

And also, someone who actually has opinions, super importand.

There are other things too but i cant really word them rn.

Stockylove:
I just wanted to know what are the physical or psychological traits in a person that you like, but that are considered unconventionally attractive by society or even repulsive, or just atypical, weird. Obviously we are on a gainer site so many people will answer that it is overweight people. But I am talking about all possible physical and psychological traits in their entirety, and for overweight is it only a part of the body or a way of being overweight.
So, you understood. 😉

Stockylove:
I don't see the connection between your weight and your couples therapy

Is your weight responsible for conflict in your relationship, which could potentially have led you and your partner to undergo this therapy?

But that doesn't excuse your therapist's reaction.

If I had been in your place I would have “thanked” him and just changed therapists.

Ditzy:
I got stuck in a bathroom stall a couple of days ago.
I got in sideways but couldn't get turned around. to sit down.
I finally squeezed out and waited on the handicapped stall. I was soo embarrassed.
The lady that helped me out of the tiny stall was so kind. I must have thanked her a million times.
Bathroom stalls vary a lot so I never know if I am going to fit in them.

MRFATS53:
Expect you'll laugh about your experience before long but why do we have seats like this, and worse still on airlines, that are too small for the population which we all know is getting bigger? Large people being forced to pay for two airline seats seems common practice and must be very uncomfortable. Fortunately I can still fit on a single airline seat but mostly I need a seat belt extender - but sometimes not. I'm amused at having to ask but others I know are embarrassed - why not simply fit longer belts?

Texasjack:
I discovered velcro shoes, so I don't have to tie shoe laces anymore.
It might become fashionable for larger men to wear monks habits, which would do away with having to put a belt thru the loops, just wrap a rope around the waist.

Fofoboy:
Hi, yesterday I went to my third couples therapy session with my boyfriend and the truth is that I didn't see what happened coming... that's why I'd love to hear your opinions.
I'm a gainer but my boyfriend isn't part of the community, we're going to therapy to see how we can combine it.
I think this therapist didn't quite understand my sexuality, she made some comments that made me feel small and unsupported. Considering that she's one of the first people I've opened up to about this topic, a topic that for me is still complicated and taboo.
The thing is that we were coming to the end of the session and she told me something that paralyzed me. She told me that if I wanted to continue with the sessions I would have to give her regular health checks and medical reviews. She left me speechless. At first I didn't know what to say, then she asked me how I felt and I told her I was angry and then I started to cry and I couldn't stop, in fact I practically couldn't even speak. In the end we decided to end with the session.
I still don't know if his proposal was objectively correct, what I do know is that I felt ridiculed, tiny and like a monster.
I thank my partner for being on my side and holding my hand at all times.

I need to hear your opinion, to give me your versions. How would you have felt? Do you think it's fair? Is physical health above mental health?

Thank you very much for reading me.