Trina:
I go crazy with this.
When I was 120 pounds, I didn't think I was sexy, yet I was almost afraid of gaining weight because I was society's ideal. I am way turned on being a fat girl, but get down on myself if I'm with someone who isn't into it, even if they don't complain I'll sometimes wish I was like, anorexic just to make them happy. If it was up to me I'd just be with a feeder and get fatter and love every second of it, never wanting to be thin. . But without the feeder, I get a little too self conscious sometimes.
Other girls, omg.. love all of them, but especially chubby to obese.
Men usually I prefer thin, even scrawny, or muscular. Some rare exceptions of course
It sounds like you have a strong need to please your partner and/or gain their approval. We all do to some extent, some more than others, so it's not a bad thing at all. You also want to be true to yourself and enjoy what you like, so if that is the opposite of what your partner wants, stress and anxiety are the result. You need a partner who wants for you, the same as what you want for yourself, so you can please yourself and him at the same time. That would be a win-win. 🙂
7 years
That must be nice to see! I worked in a call center for 10 years. Loved watching the girls that gained weight.
7 years
Heavyhannah:
Recently realized that I much prefer a daddy to a master. It's like light and dark. Having someone be firm and punish me when I'm not behaving feels amazing juxtaposed with a warmer (but no less effective) Dom that treats me with more adoration and care like a daddy.
I love being submissive for the right man and getting to say, "yes, daddy" and be a good little girl for daddy just makes it all the better.
So crazy to have this realization when I've always felt I was more into traditional (lol) D/s
Life is about growing - in more ways than one LOL - and sometimes we realize something new, even about ourselves. It's kind of fun to have those "ah-ha" moments when a lightbulb you didn't even know was off, suddenly turns on. I think I'd like being a Daddy, but I really don't know much about that stuff, but I hope to learn.
7 years
They send me deals on my phone (I'm in Mesa) and I had a 50% off that ended 6/25 but I didn't get the new one. Thank you!
7 years
chubbymuffingirl:
When my fat belly shows through my tight shirt and my soft muffin top shows it pleasures me so much. I like when people stare at my soft belly. I wear tight jeans and shirts to attract attention to my growing softness. My boyfriend often rubs and grabs my belly, but he never mentions my weight gain. He is always pinching and jiggling my growing belly. It turns me on when he watches me try to button tight jeans, or when he sees my body spilling from my old size XS clothes. Today I mentioned that I had gone from a size 0 to a size 6. My hips and butt are getting stretch marks, but I can't control my eating! I love to eat cheeseburgers for breakfast and snack on cookies all day. My boobs and butt are getting so large. But most of my weight is going to my jiggly belly and thick thighs.
When chubby girls ware tight cloths, that really hug their body, always makes me wonder if it's intentional because they like it, or accidental and they don't realize how tight it's gotten. I like both scenarios. 👍
7 years
On the iPad, I like "Walking War Robots" - anyone that like BattleTech, Robotech, or futuristic robots duking it out on a variety of landscapes will probably enjoy this. FPS style.
8 years
It does make you wonder! I saw some art on a website once, forget where or what it was now, but it was older art, or modern art meant to look like paintings from 400 years ago and had different images of women, some of them very plump. It was both surprising and neat. Made me wonder about the story behind inspiration for those images.
8 years
aqswdefr:
I currently in southwest va, in Troutville
I like your profile picture!
8 years
LOL I guess it was nice of them to accommodate her. I suppose it's also a good thing she is so indispensable too.
8 years
Thank you for sharing! That is awesome! I know there was a study that showed older people experience some benefits too. They actually suffer less broken bones when they fall, get sick less often, and recover faster when they do get sick.
Since stress is among the most harmful situations our bodies face, so removing a constant background stress like, ALWAYS worrying about you weight and how you look, and trying yet another diet, seems like an obvious health benefit. :-)
8 years
