I also prefer to stuff with healthy food. I feel like I hit the filled up point without suffering the gross/sick part during, plus I often get a boost of energy and feel better later instead of sluggish.

Also, I think it helps to have variety.. When I eat with the intention of getting as stuffed as possible, it helps to switch gears between two things that are at opposites in some way.

I didn't know what I wanted to eat for lunch/dinner earlier, so I was on here looking for inspiration. After reading some posts and looking at some gainers and pictures, I still didn't know what I wanted, so I went to the grocery store. It was pandemonium! The lines were insane. So I got a family sized pizza and decided to try to eat the whole thing, since I had never done that, and I had mentioned that I hadn't in an earlier post.

Right now, I am 3/4 through and have hit a wall. I don't even thing I am that stuffed. I got spinach, garlic, and mushroom. Rookie mistake. The garlic is the overwhelming factor. That and crust.

I am going to tool around here for motivation and then go in on that last 1/4. Wish me luck.

I ordered a very large sandwich for lunch, and the lady making it marveled at how big it was, even though she probably makes dozens of them every day.

Laziness does nothing for me, either in fantasy or reality.

I don't think there is any limit to what could turn me on about myself; I just am objectively sexy. But anything my wife likes about me, I instantly think is sexy about me too.

In reality, I like the idea of her loving herself and actively participating in and loving how she is changing. Not denying that she wants another piece of cake and enjoying it. Checking out her belly while getting dressed and not pouting, but smiling is great. Buying new clothes and modeling them for me. Working out hard and telling me how it was difficult, but more fulfilling since she could still do it. These things turn me on.

In fantasy, if either one of us was actively gaining, that the other wouldn't feed as much as encourage. I don't see this as a very satisfying fetish if there is no one to witness all the work I put in. I need someone to be watching my eating feats and watching me anticipating results. I would want someone to point out excess calories to me like people that don't understand vegetarians point out salads to me at restaurants - "They have a nice milkshake".

For sure, although it is hard to tell how deep it runs on both sides of my family, and how much is just fat people that love themselves and love to eat.

There is a lot of focus here about setting gaining goals, reaching them, and then setting a new goal, but what happens when you are just done gaining and want to maintain? What do you look forward to?

This makes me feel old. When I was a freshman in college (mid 90's) I was in the computer lab of my dorm and stumbled across Dimensions, and specifically the Melanie Bell stories. It took me years to work out exactly what about Feederism I like in terms of how I see my own body and what I like in others, but I know that is the day that I first separated out fatness as a sexy thing.

I was inspired to ask because of the Thanksgiving fantasy post. I don't have a thanksgiving fantasy as much as a thanksgiving strategy.

Being a vegetarian, there are some things I won't eat, but everything I do eat is up for grabs by everyone in my family. Some people that are never usually interested in my food want to have some thinking that my healthy veggie food somehow offsets their meaty gluttony. Meaning that my leftovers disappear faster, and when everyone else is still feasting on turkey sandwiches, I have to cook.

To counter this, I have begun adding more and more entrees and desserts to veggie dishes to the menu, some of which are insanely decedent. The funny part about this is that I try all the veggie dishes my family brings, most of which are meh, but if it is good I go for seconds and thirds. The dishes I make get swarmed on, and I make sure that anyone that wants some gets some sent home. To balance that, there was a pecan pie and a mushroom/spinach quiche I "forgot" to put out last year.

I think I am not the only one that takes the entire month of November as a thanksgiving practice in order to make sure I make the most of the day.

I am working out harder than usual to stoke my appetite, drinking water after every meal to stretch out, and going on long slow walks whenever I am full to help digest.

What are the rest of you doing to get ready?

I have never had a strong desire to eat an entire pizza by myself in one sitting. It's a low priority stuff-it list item for me.
I think it would be cool to do, but I tend to overthink things, and deciding on how big, from where, and what toppings would make it more work than fun.