In Lisa's situation, she has little choice. She just keeps getting fatter no matter what. Trying to lose the weight would be torture for her. But it's also not threatening her health so there's little ultimatum for her, and it's also solved all her biggest health problems.

So rather than treat it as a nightmare she can't escape from, she might as well enjoy it and just eat up. And I think she found the right person to help her out with that lifestyle, hehe...

I know it sounds ABSOLUTELY too wild to be true, but FFFFFF it's actually real!

So my big fat bride went to the hospital for a checkup, and the doctor told her...

That she's not eating enough and needs to keep better fed!

She's clinically hyper morbid obese, and her doctor just told her to cultivate a heftier appetite and put more food in that already bouncing, hanging belly of hers! Is she trying to fatten up my wife?

I know she'll take the advice to heart, because she barely needs any encouragement to eat everything she sees. If she keeps up and eats any more than she already does though, she may need help just waddling into the doctor's office by the time of her next checkup!

Not that I mind, or she for that matter...

The wild thing is, if I suddenly got 200 pounds heavier I would STILL be thinner than my wife! To match her BMI I'd need to aim for 550!

On the other hand, if she got 200 pounds heavier it would be the BMI equivalent of me pushing 850 pounds! Probably unable to do much other than roll around in bed and constantly ask me to buy her food and super-sized diapers. I wouldn't mind, and I don't think she would either!

The huger Lisa gets, the more she enjoys not wearing clothes.

When she was "just chubby" her biggest health problem was really low body temperature, and she had to cover up all the time and wear girdles to keep her tummy warm lest she get sick.

Not anymore. 100+ pounds later she's literally put on so much blubber it keeps her warm. Now the first thing she does when she gets to the privacy of home is desperately pull off all her clothes and let all her fat flop out. It's so hot and sweaty in between her folds of fat it even shocks me!

Yeah, despite there being so few truly obese women in Japan, there's more acceptance. They want to encourage someone like my wife to diet and lose weight, because that's what the average Japanese woman is "supposed" to do and they think they're helping out. But if a lady just can't stop swelling up with fat, people just shrug their shoulders and accept that she's just a huge obese treatgirl.

And instead of "Wow you're so fat, I hate you, you're so ugly!" the attitude is "Wow you're so fat, you must be so hungry all the time, let me get you a snack!" People want to be nice, and they assume the easiest way to be nice to a seriously fat lady is to keep her well fed.

I'm not the only one to notice it, I've read other Japanese posts about this attitude towards fat women. It would be a nightmare if big Lisa was trying to lose weight, but she's not. Everyone at her work is constantly buying her food, taking her out to meals, and bringing her sweets.

My huge overfed Lisa is now so heavy I've started taking more note of the weight limits on elevators. It's gotten to the point where if the elevator is crowded, as soon as she waddles her bulk in, the alarm rings because she's overloaded it!

She's not upset or embarrassed because she knows that's just what happens to a lady who can't stop eating. We can wait for a less crowded elevator. While I tease and squeeze her for being such a fatty!

Japan has this strange sort of fat acceptance and body openness among women, especially traditionally. There have been multiple times when my huge Lisa and I have been out on a date, and an old lady came up to her and said

"Wow, your breasts are so huge!"

"It's nothing, I'm just too fat..."

"No, I wish I had your figure when I was your age!"

In Lisa's case, she learned she can't have kids, so we're transferring all the care we'd need for childrearing into taking care of her hyper obesity.