Hi,

In profiles of woman about 700 lbs, their is one person who is seated on a bed, that has a majestic belly far out towards her feet. Now I say profiles as a number have pictures that seem to be the same person. I am interested to learn more about her if possible.

It is not, but short of reminds me of Carol Yager in size a bit.


At the top seems to be a part word immobile.
BWL.

Hi,

I am in south east Melbourne.

I would really like to share my journey to try and be a ssbhm or ussbhm. For a lady that would like to indulge their love of fattening a friend occasionally.

I know such ladies are in practice are like hen’s teeth, but occasionally I just ask.

BWL.

I guess this indicates my eagerness to grow.

But I found in recent big meals, I can down more as a shake, than food you have to masticate. So I am thinking to blend some foods into a thick paste, so you can swallow a big mouthful in one go, no crewing required.

I can see this could increase my intake before fullness kicks in , and will improve digestion rates, to ensue even more intake.

Do other do this?

BWL.

Hi,

I love my belly, and here where I know other will, I let it all hang out. But in public alas early life experience and deep seated anxiety kicks in and I cover up.

At the hot pool I go to weekly just to wear a wet shirt has taken some getting use to. I note other very fat men with stomachs out, but not as big as me.

I will challenge myself at the pool one day.

BWL.

Just moisturiser, oil, skin vitamin e.

They do lighten with time.

But slow gains starting out.

One thing to think that your weight is your volume, and skin is surface area, when your starting out your skin has to stretch for a certain gain, the bigger you are the less the skin has the expand for the same gain next time, so the issue mathematically speaking may reduce as you gain.

Hi

I have noted that are area of skin under big belly aprons that is always in contact this other skin and does nit get much light if air, can be discoloured. I use moisturiser and anti bacterial soap, but was wondering what other maintenance is able good to have the skin look as normal as possible.

You will not stop people trying to influence your choices, in particular family, schools, doctors ect….. you may find in comes to balance in the relationship, or how important they are. But at the end it comes down to what you want, and what you are prepared to compromise on. To be honest when I was young, I just tolerated people trying to change me, and then did what I wanted. However this cause some anxiety to say the least. I would try and hide my weight gains, or eating.

When I gained independence I was less worried, the issue was more clothing and practical stuff.

At 56 you learned to be yourself and have less concern about criticism. I just wore them down, till they accepted me.

Hope this helps, as it is a very complicated subject.

In Australia that is the NDIS scheme, Earlier AAT rulings have determined that obesity alone is not a disability because it does not 'entail a loss of, or damage to, a physical, sensory or mental function' (see Schwass and the NDIA). However, conditions that arise from obesity may still be viewed as a disabilities according to the criteria.
Again, for obesity alone the short answer is no – the NDIA does not consider obesity to be a permanent impairment. Whilst acknowledging the significant challenges associated with weight loss, AAT rulings frequently emphasise that treatment options (including bariatric surgery where applicable and other less invasive options) will remedy the impairment and should be tried before applying for access.
Whilst conditions resulting from obesity may fit the criteria for disability (as described above), in order to meet the requirement of likely permanence, the NDIA will need to see evidence that those impairments would remain even if the person lost weight. This is challenging and will vary on an individual basis. In the example above relating to limb impairments, GP evidence that ‘weight loss would stop the condition progressing, but would not remedy completely’ the lower limb neuropathy did satisfy the AAT that the condition was likely to be permanent. However, in this same example, a number of other resulting conditions (e.g., lymphedema) were not considered to be permanent because medical evidence indicated that weight loss would remedy these impairments.

So based on the above I doubt in Australia anyone would qualify for any significant support, account of obesity alone, or even with related issues. Not from the National Disability insurance scheme anyway.

More over services in Australia are to aid welfare and weight management if you are unable to function account of your weight. It is not been designed to support a person who wants to gain, and then finds they have mobility or related issue, unless weigh loss is attempted including surgery options.

Having said that it is a shame that you can’t choose to be a gainer and still obtain medical assistance to mediate risks without high levels of stigma from the medical profession, unless like me you a doctor that’s as fat as I am.

Your story is much like mine, I was a fat at 7 and knew I wanted to be bigger. But could not be open in a family and society that did not tolerate being fat. It made my youngest year confusing and frustrated. And it has taken another 25 year to be comfortable being me. It’s is a shame but now I will be as fat as I or my body wants to be.

Next big meal plan

Plan:

1.2 kg of spaghetti bolognaise
1.2 kg of creamy chicken and rice.
2 litre weight gain shake.
Plus snacks 1 pack of pods chocolate

Should I add more ?

Just, Cooked up about 3 kg of pasta sauce , and 2 kg of chicken in mild chilli paste build up for tonight’s mega meal, 220 kg here I come.

I ate 2 bowl of spaghetti and sause, 1,5 bowl of creamy chicken, 1 pack of small cakes, 1 pack of chocolate pods, 250 grams of chocolate, 1 lire of cordial to wash it down, and then a 1.8 litres of shake, that had two bananas, ice cream, cream, custard and balance of milk. Starting at 209 kg, ended at 213.8 kg. Almost 5 kg of consumption, if I had a in-house feeder it could have been even more.