Pictures from London Pub meet, 22nd Feb 2013


billiebunter, softgirl

The Only Weigh is Essex, Hercules, mcfalgan


Miss L, Bodacious Babe, Cheeky Minx


softgirl, Miss L, Bodacious Babe, Cheeky Minx


softgirl, Bodacious Babe


Miss L, humptynumpty, Wannabe Princess

For the sake of many people's emotional, mental and even physical well-being it can be the most safe thing to do, yes. Not that I would consider keeping quiet about your sexual kinks/fetishes 'lying about who you are'.

Regardless, it's not anybody's business to 'out' another person. It violates their autonomy, insulting their ability to make choices regarding their own life.

They've seen my message and my photo has been removed, so I'd recommend anybody else who doesn't want their pics on there to do the same.

Just because 'it happens' it doesn't mean it's right or that you are right to support it. As Wannabe Princess has said we upload our pics onto this site (a fat-positive space) with knowledge that there is risk that they'll get passed around, possibly in the wrong hands. I personally don't mind my pictures going around the online FA community, but I have a problem with my pictures being on an open facebook group, because people who have no interest in fat bodies can stumble across them very easily and I don't want my pictures being that easily accessible to non-FAs. Do I have any right to prevent this? No, but I do have a right to be offended if somebody disregards my wishes, my photos, and my body in this way. You cannot dictate how I should feel after discovering that somebody has uploaded pictures of my body onto their website. My photos, my body, my feelings. Your opinions do not matter, nor do any of us have any obligation to explain our feelings to you.



It's NEVER a good thing for anybody to 'out' somebody else without their consent.

I saw one of mine up there that I never gave permission for so I've sent them a message asking them to remove it as facebook doesn't seem to be letting me report it at the moment...

Thanks for letting us know