How did you decide you wanted to be morbidity obese?

WideJuan76:
Yeah, it would be something to behold and the embarrassment of it all would be the best part

NYCBellyBlimp:
Embarrassment, actual realization or both in some cases.[/quote]

In either case, we will have to accept our new normal.
4 years

Fat boy humiliation

This is a new addition to my current weight gain that I didn't have before. I used to be teased for being chubby as a kid so used to get easily triggered by it buy I had an ex reframe it and to see the playfully teasing as an accomplishment because it becomes an acknowledgement of our gain and gaining new rolls to find while getting teased about it is a good thing
4 years

How did you decide you wanted to be morbidity obese?

WideJuan76:
Yeah, we wouldn't have ever thought that we would have ended up as we have and that we would like being as fat as we have become but I shudder to think what fifty plus year old me would look like. Lol.

NYCBellyBlimp:
Probably what would have happened if Augustus Gloop stayed stuck in the straw..lol. Morbidly Obese Fat Albert from the MadTV skit..lol.[/quote]

Yeah, it would be something to behold and the embarrassment of it all would be the best part
4 years

How did you decide you wanted to be morbidity obese?

WideJuan76:
For quite a few feeders, this is how they waddle into this space not realizing that they like getting fat just as much as assisting someone with getting fatter. It is the natural progression of this lifestyle of ours. Mine happened when I had someone introduce the possibility of purposely getting fat and I jumped into it and even she said with how I saw fat that eventually I would turn it in on myself and I might like that even moreso. Our younger selves, might have ran away from the option of getting fat but when you get into your middle ages that is when you are like "to hell with it" and you say why not get fat ? I could have never imagined that I would have been this obese in my teens and twenties.

NYCBellyBlimp:
Spoken truth as I needed the energy and taking up less room when occasionally hitting those bbw clubs in my 20's.[/quote]

Yeah, we wouldn't have ever thought that we would have ended up as we have and that we would like being as fat as we have become but I shudder to think what fifty plus year old me would look like. Lol.
4 years

Is having a fat fetish genetic?

It's been in my anecdotal experience that it is a mixture of genetics, environment and your own particular subculture. My father later in life told us he had fat fetishes but I never saw them coming up and he remarried and then passed on while my younger siblings were toddlers and they both grew up between two non Western countries and they both developed the same food and fat addictions so one never knows....
4 years

Men - is fat burying you below the waist? what do you do and how do you feel about it?

GainingLear:
Honestly, I do very little about it. You just have to remember to uncover it before use. It isn't uncomfortable for me except in the cases where you get hard and are still buried. In those cases you either reach down and free yourself or let it build til it pops free, which feels amazing. This is just another part of getting super fat in my eyes so I'm not actively trying to change it.


And there is that part or it. What are we really going to do about it other than adjust to it ? When we have eaten ourselves to this point then we have reached a point of no return.
4 years

Men - is fat burying you below the waist? what do you do and how do you feel about it?

As someone who has actively grown to this point once before in my life, folks never speak on this aspect of food addiction based gaining. I was lucky that I had a female at the time who dated males who had the same issues and I learned from those situations how to cope but it takes some getting used to. Depending how your fat engulfs itself on your body, you will be able to get and be aroused just by how you sit and move back and forth. Fat now has become your chastity belt because you have to dig for it now and that was the biggest ego blower for me but eventually you get over it because eating now becomes your new way to get off and if you can find a woman that likes it then that takes it to an even greater level.
4 years

Sucking your stomach in

I can't suck in mine anymore but it was never about sucking in my gut; I used to wear compression shirts because I was self conscious about how my moobs looked and moved around independently as I walked around but now I can't find compression shirts past XXXXL
4 years

Expecting pants to fit - and they don’t

I used to have this issue until I realized that when I bought pants and they weren't the stretch type of fabric; I had to buy one to two sizes bigger just in case because I knew that I would grow into them. Size 58-60 and counting 🐽🐽🐽🐽🐽
4 years

How did you decide you wanted to be morbidity obese?

NYCBellyBlimp:
Literally became one of those types feeders who when unable to feed someone, turns it in on themselves over a period of time. Years back growing up, I never would have opted for this until the triggers were no longer dormant from inside.
When my own enjoyment of food et al was as enjoyable as my attraction to ssbbw/ussbbw I kind of knew it was a matter of time no matter how long.


For quite a few feeders, this is how they waddle into this space not realizing that they like getting fat just as much as assisting someone with getting fatter. It is the natural progression of this lifestyle of ours. Mine happened when I had someone introduce the possibility of purposely getting fat and I jumped into it and even she said with how I saw fat that eventually I would turn it in on myself and I might like that even moreso. Our younger selves, might have ran away from the option of getting fat but when you get into your middle ages that is when you are like "to hell with it" and you say why not get fat ? I could have never imagined that I would have been this obese in my teens and twenties.
4 years