Fantasy Feeder

Dobyou like chubby disabled people?

People are not their disabilities, but we shouldn't ignore their needs either. It's simply another thing to love about them that makes them who they are.

HueOrdner:
That's a wonderful thing to say!

On that note, the same needs to be said about fat people. I'm not saying that being fat is inherently a disability, but a lot of people treat it like it is. This is extra true when it comes to the super-sized crowd because they are both objectified and demonized for their size. I supposed this is both sides of the fatphobia coin.

Except for extreme examples, a fat person's life isn't much different from a slimmer person's life. And yet there are a lot of feedists (especially FAs and feeders) who treat fat people as if they are disabled. In their minds, all a fat person is good for is getting fatter. If someone - especially a thinner person - shows interest in them, it's an act of charity.

And they should be grateful for however people choose to treat them.

Some feedees and gainers play into this because they've internalized this thinking. It's also why you see a lot of plus-sized people who are clearly not into the community try to infiltrate it looking for attention. Too many people see their size as who they are instead of an aspect of who they are.

So, for people who have the intersection of fatness and disability, it's dehumanizing to relegate them to exotic people you may or may not want to sleep with. They are not pets or charity cases. They are people who happen to be different but are still people all the same.

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Wanting to be fat but the opposite sex?

SufferingBeast:
5 years since the last post submitted but here goes.

I have very similar fantasies as to where i constantly day dream/fantasize about being turning into an extremely overweight curvy female at will or against my will both just as fun.

To be in a lesbian relationship with me being the sub feedee and the partner being the feeder dom to really use and abuse my new jiggle sexy body until i can take no more.

I often get super gelous of how much of a good time my wife has because im a 6ft 18 beast who really take pride in being able to go for hours or until she says her safe word honestly giving her orgasm after orgasm leaving her in most cases unable to walk with jelly leg muscles with no more to give.

Ive made it a game to see how many i can give her she likes being held down and tied up gagged choked but by someone stronger than her (me) unable to escape tortured with pleasure.

I deam of what my wife has and is feeling from what i give her. I do have enjoyment im my actions but being a very manly alpha man a big bold beast its draining being me and male.

Im sick of being that person everyone see's and expects something from strength protection dominance (dont worry everyone call me because i can sort it). I must just be a gelous defenceless fat female on the inside with the body of a monster and a life of hell trying to conform.

As a domme, I see a lot of so-called "alpha men" are often very eager to jump into femininity. And it's usually due to one of two reasons.

The first is egg. If you know, you know.

The second is that, in hegemonic patriarchy, femininity is everything that masculinity isn't. And within that context, masculinity is narrow, ridged, and devoid of humanity. Meanwhile, in their eyes, women are able to enjoy emotional vulnerability, softness, and protection.

Some men will realize that ridged gender roles are a scam and express their masculinity in their way. Others, still clinging to the social capital hegemonic masculinity provides (or claims to provide), will fantasize about femininity as an outlet for their repressed humanity.

I'm not against gender play. I think it can be fun and anyone should be able to do it. But it's good to engage with why it attracts you to it.

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Dobyou like chubby disabled people?

Lismorficzny:
Helo. How are you looking at disabled people who are fat. Like they are on wheelchairs or they dont have noticable health issues from outside.

This is a weird question. Disabled people are people. They are just as worthy of love as anyone else. And anyone can become disabled at any time for any reason.

I'm not fat, but I have invisible disabilities. My partner doesn't think any less of me for having them. For example, last week I got severely overstimulated at work and ended up rocking and sobbing on the floor. It was bad. He got me off the floor (He said, "The floor is for feet, not my princess."

and stayed with me for the rest of the day to make sure I was okay.

I was so embarrassed. I hadn't had a meltdown in years, and I had some internalized ableism about it. My partner just shrugged and said, "It's just another thing to love about you."

It was a healing moment for me, and I think this is how we should treat any disability. People are not their disabilities, but we shouldn't ignore their needs either. It's simply another thing to love about them that makes them who they are.

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Tree trunk legs

NoMoYoYo:
Something I've noticed in my current gain compared to previous ones is most of the gain has gone to my gut.

Last time I weighed this much I was bigger all over my body. This is especially noticeable in my legs and calves specifically.

I don't know if it is because of the speed in which I've gained (almost 60lbs in 7 months). Whereas before I had a quick 30lbs and then slowly gained the rest...or at least slower.

Will lugging around this extra weight eventually build up my legs? I know weight gain is mostly calories in and calories out, but could I gain more weight from that extra muscle? Or would my body just redistribute the weight I have? All assuming, of course, I eat more or less the way I have for the past 7 months or so.

I mean, you can get bigger legs by exercising. However, where you gain depends on genetics and hormones first and foremost. Some people will recommend heavy cream. Your mileage will vary. And even then, your gains will probably not significantly change how you gain.

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Heavy cream questions

PurpleJade:
I’ve had a few lingering questions/questions that I’ve seen answered and couldn’t find again. I just want to make sure I have the info right.

Why do people commonly do hc in sprints? (ie: some weeks on some weeks off.)

What is the absorption rate of hc? (ie: max hc at one time, such that your not wasting hc that doesn’t get absorbed.)

How the hell does delayed gain happen? From what I’ve read it seems like it’s definitely real, but I don’t understand why it happens.

Creamdemon:
Just personally speaking, I prefer to do HC "in sprints" because I enjoy rapid weight gain and it works very well. So whenever I push to gain for a few weeks I will need some time after that to adjust to the new weight.
It's also quite expensive to consume 6k calories/day for weeks in any kind of form and potential new clothes you need to buy whenever you hit another limit.
As for getting tired of it.. not really for me. I'm actually getting more and more addicted the deeper I am already. But at some point you just have to listen to your body, be reasonable and take a break for your health.

Which gets me to the next point:
The first few days are the worst and I would get a lot of trouble the next morning whenever I overdo it. But as soon as you find the right rhythm and dose, it seems the absorption rate and tolerance goes up by a lot. It also helps to not drink all of it in one sitting, but space it out over the day or integrate it into your meals and drinks (works very well with coffee+caramel for example). I personally prefer to chug it all at once before bed and enjoy the massive bloat as a good night.
In general it seems it actually provides you with the ~300 kcal/100ml as it promises. I gave up on counting exact calories.. But looking at my recent gains it definitely does its part.

About the delayed gains I have no idea. Kinda makes sense that it needs some time to "start working" but why you would gain more days after stopping doesn't seem logical to me and I never experienced it myself so far (though I would love to!).

Casual Gainer:
The delay could just be the remaining fat which was still be 'processed' and distributed through out the body, at least going by some hypothesis I've read.

Alternatively, I wonder if it's caused by the sudden drop in intake causing the body to think it's being 'starved' which can cause weight increase or people continuing to have a higher than previous food intake.

I doubt it. Your body goes into starvation mode due to long-term calorie deficits. People experience this weight increase even after a week of heavy cream gains. These gains often do not stick if the calorie consumption levels aren't sustained.

In order to go into starvation mode, you need to consume fewer daily calories than you need to function. Going from a calorie excess to eating enough to function isn't enough to trigger your body's starvation mode - especially if you are on a high-protein diet.

As I've said, the "delayed" weight gain effect isn't really delayed weight gain. Consuming heavy cream or its alternatives primes your body for more weight gain later. Diets high in fat spike your triglyceride levels. Your liver will break them down into glycerol and fatty acids in a process called lipolysis.

When these levels are high, this can lead to elevated insulin levels. What you eat during this time greatly determines if you will gain, maintain, or lose weight after consuming heavy cream. This is why some people report great success after a heavy cream binge, and others can't seem to make anything stick.

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How important are a good plot and character development for you?

HueOrdner:
The title says it.
For me personally, only the general setting has to fit. The important part are the sex scenes. That is also the reason why I haven't even given names to the characters in my stories so far. I just wanna get off after all 😅
But I was wondering if others actually cared about a "proper story" with a well thought out plot and some character development.

Letters And Numbers:
It’s extremely important to me. I mostly write character-driven stories, but I work pretty hard to make my characters realistic and have real emotions and intentions. And when I’m reading someone else’s fic, flat characters start to bore me pretty quick. So yup, very important.

I will say, also, that I love “amateur” art and writing, and I go into it expecting that it won’t be perfect. It makes reading those great amateur authors so much more fun. You expect a published author to be good, but when you find a hobbyist who’s great it’s exciting for me. And there are some great authors who post here. A lot of them, actually.

HueOrdner:
That's interesting to hear! Thanks for your opinion on the topic 😄

Letters And Numbers:
It also depends on the story, too. If I’m in the mood for pure smut and there’s a quick story that doesn’t bother with character development or plot, but does the smut really well—ok, that can be great too. But if it’s going to be longer than a few chapters I need something else to hold my attention

I think that, even then, you still have some kind of character development. It's not in depth like a fleshed out story would be, but, you should have a good sense of the characters and their dynamics.

A bratty virgin, an experienced domme, a drunken one night stand between strangers, or love making among a happily married throuple will have different experiences during smut. So even though we might not know a lot about them, even their names, the reader should still be able to understand them.

And to answer OP, it depends on my mood how much story I want in my smut. But it is entirely possible to have a proper story that keeps you horny from the jump. I have read a number of smut stories like that, and I have written one of my own. It's called The Queen Mother.

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Heavy cream questions

PurpleJade:
I’ve had a few lingering questions/questions that I’ve seen answered and couldn’t find again. I just want to make sure I have the info right.

Why do people commonly do hc in sprints? (ie: some weeks on some weeks off.)

What is the absorption rate of hc? (ie: max hc at one time, such that your not wasting hc that doesn’t get absorbed.)

How the hell does delayed gain happen? From what I’ve read it seems like it’s definitely real, but I don’t understand why it happens.

Plump Belly To Curvy:
I'm not sure you need to do heavy cream time off. I try to do it nightly, and at first I took a week off every now and then. But after a while, I just kept going. And it kept working. I would occasionally give my body a rest day if it couldn't process all the fat.

It was suggested to me by a healthcare provider to use ox bile to extend fat digesting capacity. Digestive enzymes help too. If your stool is dark, you have enough bile. If it gets light and stool more spongy, you may be running short and overtaxing your bile system.

I started with 8 oz a day and increased by an ounce until I found my limit. After getting used to that for a while, I add another ounce or two at a different time of day. I use HC im my coffee, but I drink most of it a half hour before bed. Works great!

While I agree that taking bile and digestive enzymes helps with digesting all that fat, there are lots of medical related reasons to take a break. For example, heavy cream has a lot of lactose in it. Some people find it hard to process it all and need to take a break.

Also, if you are consuming a high fat diet without breaks for a long time you run the risk of breakouts, fatigue, increase risk of heart complications, decrease in vision, and a litney of other issues.

nhlbi.nih.gov/health/high-blood-triglycerides

Plus, it's good to let your body adjust to your increased weight - especially if you are on the small side. It's kinder to your joints
Also, since heavy cream sits heavy in your belly, it can decrease your appetite. So, ironically, you can end up losing weight.

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Did any of your school's girls became heavy office workers?

Plump Belly To Curvy:
As one of those high school athletes who moved on to office work, I'd just like to explain that I'm loving now having moved into obesity and heading for really obese. Yeah, I get the revenge / karma angle, but who's to say those fatter women are unhappy about it?

I did 8 sports in high school and college, some of them varsity. After college, I continued with sports including masters sports. I'm 6' tall and generally weighed 135-140 lbs as a young adult. I was underweight and solid lean muscle. If I hit my thigh, nothing moved. Back then I loved that.

As I grew older, in stages, I grew to 155 ("normal" weight) as a healthier weight to get pregnant, then, older, to 170 where I plateaued at only 15 lbs over normal weight. With 6' height, it wasn't too noticably different. I worked in an office, but was always on the move, in a high stress, high travel job. So I didn't really gain weight.

Then, a hormone med mixup led to my going to 200 lbs. After that, I discovered my appreciation of massive obesity. I've always liked big men, but now I also appreciate heavy women's beauty and femininity. I noticed too that my face was prettier heavy.

So now I'm trying to put on huge weight because I want to see what I'll look like and how I'll feel at each stage. And how my experience of femininity and sexuality will change as well. I've gotten to 240 lbs with a lot of struggle to put on and keep the weight. It's hard won. So I'm now 100 lbs more than that high school and college athlete.

I can't wait to hit 300, 350, probably 400, and maybe beyond. It's a whole new experience of life. And yeah, I'm seeing some of the downsides, but I still love being fatter. I'm happy when I jiggle, sway, and have to waddle a bit. I like feeling my shirt pushed out by my belly and maybe it's not quite covered on the bottom. I used to pull it down, as being tall, that's always been a problem. Now, I leave it and secretly enjoy it, and wonder if any FAs are also enjoying seeing that. I don't feel fat enough yet. I want to be wide and pudgy, soft, and rolling, curvy and rounded. To me, I feel so much more feminine.

It was a mindset adjustment for sure. But now, I see heavy, curvy, or very obese women and I appreciate their beauty. I love the big men I see too. But if I see a svelte lean athletic woman, now she seems too skinny and boney to me. I feel sorry she's not heavier and curvier. I understand her choice and work to maintain her physique, but I've now made a different choice. And I'm working to gain so much more!

And I'm loving it, every step of the way! I love the feeling of my soft and silky fat. I love being curvy and rounded, even when that's not the coveted by society hourglass shape. Now when I grab my thighs, they are too thick, I can't get my hand around them any more. I used to have smallish breasts, grown some from breastfeeding. My hands were bigger than my breasts. Now, my hands look small compared to my breasts after gaining. It's all good.

So some of those office women who got heavy may be enjoying it, secretly or not. And BTW, I work at home now for my own business. I probably couldn't get so fat if I were still in the office. No time to eat, so much running around, and you can't lay around with food coma in the office. LOL

I'm glad you're happy. Also, congrats on owning your own business! I hope you remain prosperous.

I can't believe you had a medication mix up. That's a severe malpractice issue. I hope you filed a complaint at least. You could have gotten really sick.

I wouldn't feel bad for women who don't look like you. Just as you are happy with the body you achieved, she might be happy with the body she achieved. All bodies are beautiful and valid.

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