Moonchild wrote:
I didn't even know we had leaders!
I guess our leaders are censoring the fact that they exist as well!
13 years
There is actually a series of three related videos.
I think they're okay, though this one:
youtube.com/watch claims that "The leaders of feederism groups are hostile to safety information and censor it."
I've never heard of anyone censoring safety information. Has anyone else?
13 years
So I ask this: How have you become comfortable as a feeder/feedee/foodee? Can you offer any advice to me?
It's like anything else...it just takes practice!
13 years
LadyAdelaide wrote:
He seems perfectly fine with it, the issue is the fact that he gets no pleasure out of it, only does it because he knows that I get great amounts. That makes me feel uneasy.
Well, maybe there's something nice you can do for him. Ask!
13 years
katiebabe wrote:hey guys i too am also looking to become a gainer.. i already weigh 265 (how YOU doin? ) lol but anyway , any tips?
See my site, especially "How to Get Fat".
13 years
1. How many of you have gained 10 or 15 or so pounds as an experiment to see if you liked it?
2. Did you like it? If so, did you gain more? How much more? If not, did you lose the weight? Or at least decide not to gain more?
3. Do you regret making the experiment?
13 years
Are you feeling guilty about the 12 pounds? (not a big deal) Or do you feel guilty about the consequences if he keeps on gaining?
13 years
Hmmm...let's do the math.
The bigger you get, the more weight you have to gain for it to show. E.g., if you weigh 100 pounds and gain 10 pounds, that's a 10% gain. If you weight 350 pounds, you have to gain 35 pounds to get a 10% gain!
Another issue is that photos are 2-dimensional. So when you size someone in a photo, the weight is minimized. Even thought the (3-dimensional) volume of your body goes up roughly in proportion to your weight, the cross-sectional area of your body (which is what people notice the most in photos) goes up roughly in proportion to the square root of your gain. (which of course is less than your actual gain)
Long story short: The bigger you get the less the new pounds will show. That's just math, it's not you or how you carry the weight or anything else.
13 years
Someone asked me about this recently. Was it a good idea for her to have a non-sexual relationship with a feeder behind her husband's back? Or even with her husband's approval? She thought it would help her gain.
I told her I thought it was playing with fire. Feeding is so sexual that it would be really hard to keep it platonic.
But I can't speak from experience on this.
Has anyone tried this and made it work? Or failed to make it work? Do you recommend it?
13 years
Hmm. Brain transplant?
13 years
