Tell me something good

AgaMcBees:
What's something good that happened to you today?
Getting off work early is my highlight.


Today was a peaceful day.

This is especially good seeing that the world is on fire lately.
10 months

Explaining away rapid weight gain to friends and family

Tightercollars:
im rapidly gaining alot of weight tho ive always been very tiny. ive been thinking about gaslight them about it bc its not that serious haha


If you look anything like your PFP, that's hilarious. Ain't no way they'd fall for it, but the attempt would be too funny.
10 months

Training yourself to permanently overeat/binge eat

J8o8h8n:
I was wondering if anyone had any advice for training your body to overeat to the point where you no longer have to actively think about it and your body just 'autopilots' to eating thousands of calories more than you need in a day.

I was also wondering if there's a point where it no longer gets uncomfortable stuffing yourself with that amount of food. Obviously you will probably be uncomfortable if you're always pushing your body to its limits, but is there a point where you'll be eating thousands of excess calories on the regular and it won't feel uncomfortable because you've expanded your capacity to the point where eating enough to constantly grow is your new normal?

For anyone who's done this, how long does it take for this habit to become the new normal?

Munchies:
Don't do it. There are several other users who have tried this. I haven't seen a single one that didn't end up regretting it at some point.

J8o8h8n:
What specifically did they end up regretting?


Usually the damage it does to their internal organs, but an overall rapid decline in health paired with diminishing social lives usually does it. This is especially true for those married to non-feedists. When their spouses don't share their addiction (because you are looking to develop an addiction for kink's sake), the relationship ends up taking a back burner and the relationship falls apart.

Hell, it can happen when you do share the kink. I've both witnessed and personally experienced such a thing.
10 months

Training yourself to permanently overeat/binge eat

J8o8h8n:
I was wondering if anyone had any advice for training your body to overeat to the point where you no longer have to actively think about it and your body just 'autopilots' to eating thousands of calories more than you need in a day.

I was also wondering if there's a point where it no longer gets uncomfortable stuffing yourself with that amount of food. Obviously you will probably be uncomfortable if you're always pushing your body to its limits, but is there a point where you'll be eating thousands of excess calories on the regular and it won't feel uncomfortable because you've expanded your capacity to the point where eating enough to constantly grow is your new normal?

For anyone who's done this, how long does it take for this habit to become the new normal?


Don't do it. There are several other users who have tried this. I haven't seen a single one that didn't end up regretting it at some point.
10 months

Relationship advice

CalebFA:
Any coping advice?

Bigbellyfeeder:
There really isn't any besides accepting it.

If she wants to lose weight, encourage her too. She's your wife and you should have her back all the time.

If you can't deal with that, we'll there is therapy or just letting go.


Pretty much.

I like pegging. My partner does not want to be pegged. I don't try to change his opinion or warm him up to the idea. I let it go and indulge in the other things we enjoy together.
10 months

Free compliments - no strings attached

Kacchan:
I think we all go through periods of loneliness and isolation with this kink/preference, and so many of us have visited this site looking for some kind of meaningful connection.

I thought I'd throw this out there for y'all: if you are looking for some free positive feedback with no strings attached or conditions, let me know. I'm not in a position to pay for any content to give compliments, but if you want some good free and honest feedback about a post, some content, or a story - let me know and I'm happy to connect with you.

Hell, if you need a virtual hug or a cheerleader because you did something cool, I'm here. Maybe it was hiting a new goal weight, or sharing your preference with someone special, or just getting out of bed this morning - we all need some encouragement from time to time. We all appreciate that little dopamine hit of having someone specifically notice US from time to time, and I'll do my best to focus on YOU, even for a little bit in the day.

Happy to take DMs or simply to reply here - just letting you all know I'm here!

PS - honestly, not looking for anything in return! Free hugs!


Aw, this is so sweet!
10 months

Relationship advice

CalebFA:
Any coping advice?


Therapy
10 months

Muscle chub

SumoSized:
Hey y'all. I've been a lurker in the feeder community for a while now, and have only really been passively gaining weight, but in the last week or so I've decided to fully take it seriously. My only concern is that I'm a fairly muscular guy and my metabolism is a bitch. I am still looking to stay muscular I just want a belly too. Are there any tricks to slowing down my metabolism or is the answer just to eat enough to power through it? I also thought about going through periods of not working out and just stuffing and doing that for a while. Or would it be better to just consistently do lighter exercises than what I've been doing? According to TDEE calculator my maintenance calories are around 3,000 calories a day, and recently I've been trying to eat 3,700-4,000


You can keep doing what you are doing. Just focus on upping your calorie count. You don't have to stuff yourself. You can increase it over time.

Also, be less strict with your diet. Still eat healthy, but throw in foods you used to deny yourself.
10 months

Time for a change…

Angelgluttony:
Hi everyone, I’m Amira 23F, I was recently diagnosed with heart failure. I’ve been gaining weight for nearly 12+ years for my own pleasure and I could go on and on about the many things I’ve experienced during the time. There’s so much to express but I’d be here for hours.. what I’m trying to say is although I am facing something that may Postpone me from reaching my true potential I still want something to look forward to at the end of the day. Where do I begin? What do I do to remain joyful and hopeful? I’m not sure but, I know things will get better over time.

Discord: blubberbabe


You might benefit from a therapist if you are feeling this way.
10 months

Explaining why im putting weight on to my loved ones.

Munchies:
If you can come up with all these reasons why it's inappropriate to talk about your sexual fetishes with your parents and still ask why someone finds talking about sexual fetishes with their parents, I worry about you.

Enas:
Well, you had used the word unhealthy to describe what i described as inherent honesty.

I disagree, i think honesty is healthy for a community and its individuals, in general. And thats why i had asked why.

The reasons that i gave are still valid, but they dont at all have to do with honesty itself or the honest person, but, as i said for the first two, they exist in the very specific context of our sick society. In other words, the reason that telling your parents about this is not a good idea, even if you feel the need to, is because society is so bad it wont even allow you that!

I hope that made sense?


Yeah, I stand by my statement about being worried about you.
10 months