erog·e·nous adj \i-ˈrä-jə-nəs\

Definition of EROGENOUS

1: producing sexual excitement or libidinal gratification when stimulated

Is your belly erogenous? If so, since when?

banjo & fiddle

If you're a fat girl, it's safe to say that an FA would be a better boyfriend than someone who wasn't an FA, everything else being the same.

I think everyone, fat-fetishist or not, has problems reconciling their sexual, physical, social, intellectual needs. It is almost impossible to find one person who will fulfill all those desires.

That's why love is so great. If you love someone you don't care about any imperfections.

If you're not in love, you make do. I've never been good at that, but a lot of people do manage.

When you're young and don't really know yourself that well, it's easy to screw it up and dump a truly wonderful person for someone who is superficially attractive.

All you can do is cut yourself some slack and try to do better in the future.

There's always "How to Get Fat" at askdrfeeder.dyndns.org

I've noticed a few people on here say on their profile that they're a foodee initially. And then at some point they change it to "feedee".

If this describes you, why did you change? Did you have some kind of revelation that changed you? Or were you just uncomfortable calling yourself a feedee at first?

You never learn to like rejection, but you do get used to it.

I was afraid of it for many years and eventually got over it, but I sure let a lot of opportunities go by!

Strike while the iron is hot!

I shouldn't speak for the community, but I'll go out on a limb and say:

You're welcome!

I know that many feedees are quite conflicted about gaining when they start but become less conflicted as they get bigger.

Has this happened to you or a partner? Why do you think that is?

Has anyone become MORE conflicted as they've gotten bigger? Or has it stayed the same? Why do you think that is?