Wow, i gotta agree 100% mate, although, i am rather inexperienced all together...
I'm so worried, that looking for a girl for a relationship, she'll see me as someone to kiss and have sex with, i don't want that to be the basis of a relationship (deffinetly not my first anyway)
I want a girl i can enjoy all that silly stuff with which seems childish, holding hands, going to the movies, meeting each others family's just a real close friend, all that intimacy crap shouldn't even be on the cards until we are both comfortable enough with each other and ready for it.
bah, I'm a prude too, no wonder i can't find no one...