Nate Loves His BBW Wife:
My wife doesn't like her body, and wants to lose weight with one of those new drugs. She's ~315 now and hasn't been under 260 since we started seeing each 15 years ago. It breaks my heart to see her have such distain for her body and I want her to be happy, but I feel so conflicted because I absolutely love her size.

Is there a place here to talk this through with people that really understand what I'm feeling, maybe have gone through the same thing.

I really don't have anyone to talk to that understands my side of this, so thanks in advance to anyone who reaches out.

Munchies:
There is such a place. It's called therapy.

Milhause:
I don’t know how this was intended, but there are a variety of reasons why “just go to therapy” isn’t always a viable option, whether for financial or geographical reasons. I myself live in a mental health care desert where the nearest providers are hours away and cost prohibitive.

OP, I’m not a counselor but if you need someone to vent to, feel free to message me.

Nate Loves His BBW Wife:
My wife doesn't like her body, and wants to lose weight with one of those new drugs. She's ~315 now and hasn't been under 260 since we started seeing each 15 years ago. It breaks my heart to see her have such distain for her body and I want her to be happy, but I feel so conflicted because I absolutely love her size.

Is there a place here to talk this through with people that really understand what I'm feeling, maybe have gone through the same thing.

I really don't have anyone to talk to that understands my side of this, so thanks in advance to anyone who reaches out.

SomeFella:
Deadlifts sound like a great idea. Thanks! I'll give it a shot.

LoLbreadplease:
Deadlifts killed my back! I have resuscitated it with laying on my back on the floor with legs straight in the air and breathing deeply into my core, other core strengthening, pushups, walking and yoga/stretching. Not more deadlifts.

But that's just my experience. Other poster is right about staying active.

Yamilia:
Idk how I haven't seen this sooner but yeah like my main "goal" is to be 700+ pounds fatter, but like I just wanna get fatter so 1000 pounds does sound beautiful x3

KennyMenny:
That's fucking amazing!! Please go for the 1,000 plus goal with me. We will both be more likely to get to it if we encourage each other and don't let each other give up before we even get there. Are you interested in being with me and doing this together for real, baby?? Please follow me and message me if you want to try this. You can call me on whatsapp at 314-239-5334 if you want to and we can video chat and make plans for our future together. I hope you will at least consider doing this in real life with me. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🍔🍔🍔🍔🍔🍔🍔🍔💯%

Belly Got Me:
Or when taking a picture you’re going to post on here, does anybody else get aroused by their own body? Hopefully that’s an ok way to say it!

Thick2bbw:
Trust me, I want to gain and be big. But I want to do it slowly and enjoy the journey. So please any advice on my following plan:

Continue my normal meals just get an extra serving and drink a soda to every meal.

Every night before bed, ice cream chug.

Snack time that will be considered healthy in public: peanut butter (I usually will eat a few spoon fulls at work)

Make every fast food meal a large and go from having zero meals a week to at least 2 a week. (Will increase once I am bigger).

And lastly: stuffing on the weekends. I am loving stuffing myself to the point I cannot move. But it has to be on the weekend since it will be impossible to do it on the weekdays due to work.

Let me know what you guys think or if I should add anything else. Would love to gain at least 5 pounds a month. (Please don’t push for me to gain over 20 pounds a month).

FatSubFeedee:
I've been a long time lurker on here but decided to create a new account so I could join the community, and I thought what would be better as a way to introduce myself than answering any questions people may have?
A little about myself, I'm 21 and weigh 340lbs and I'm 6 foot and I really like Transformers lol
If you've got any questions comment them and I'll try to answer them, have a good day and thanks for reading

Munchies:
What is the answer to everything?

Enas:
I dont know! O.o

FeedMeCakex:
I've met several Feeders and FAs irl from FF, all from my hometown, including my current Feeder. This month marks 2 years we've been dating 🥰

FatSubFeedee:
Does it count as readin if I mute it and turn the subtitles on? lmao

FatSubFeedee:
Oh ok yeah I haven't seen that yet but it's on my movie watchlist lol