I write fat fetish erotica. I have an account on another site with the same username. I've posted some of my stories from that site onto this one,

When I made that account on the other site, I identified as a gainer. "Muchies" was a reference to how I ate all the time. I was also influenced by an old story on Dimensions Magazine of the same name.

I now identify as a feeder. I kept the name so that my fans from the other site would know I am the same author, and that I've gone from having the munchies to being the source of the munchies.

Exercising and eating a healthy diet helps a lot. But understand that even healthy people can get diabetes or heart trouble. This is about reducing your risk, not preventing it entirely.

Makes sense.

Did you know there are digital instruments? You can use them in lieu of the real thing. Might wann look into that.

Couple things to keep in mind.

Your milage may vary. Some people are more prone to gain visceral fat over subcutaneous fat due to hormones and genes. As such, you may see limited or no changes to your fat composition.

That said, I've found success with my feedees getting squishy by pairing a high calorie diet of mostly healthy foods with exercise. When you burn fat, your body will burn your visceral fat before it burns your subcutaneous fat.

There's also evidence that unsaturated fat is more likely to form subcutaneous fat and saturated fat causes viceral fat. It is not currently clear as to why.

livescience.com/43752-saturated-fat-promotes-belly-fat.html

Not trying to shit on anything you're doing, but if you wanna make feedist music digitally, there are tons of tutorals and free and inexpensive programs out there for you to look into.

Just look at the Vocaloid community. Their users have made some banger songs with official and fanmade voicebanks. There are even some that can do breathy voices and vocal fry.

But yeah. Just poke around. You might find yourself capable of things you never imagioned. I know you say you're not a musician, but even if this stays a hobby, you might surpise yourself with what you can do.

Feeder here. I have a few tips in no particular order.

- Have a variety of flavors - especially sweet and salty ones. Flavor fatigue is real, and feeling overly stuffed makes it harder.

- Listen to you body. Take breaks as needed. Your stomach has a hard limit, and processing all that food is a lot of work.

- Make sure you stay hydrated and eat fiber so you don't get constipated.

- Do not lie down flat as this can cause heart burn.

- Use lotion or skin oil to help the skin on your belly stretch better.

- Walk around to help with digestion.

- Keep your belly as unrestricted as possible. Constricting your belly during stuffing is sexy, but if you really want to reach your full potential, free the belly.

- Massage your belly to free up room.

- Soda bloats you. While it can stretch your stomach out and help you burp, it can also make you feel stuffed sooner. Use with caution.

- If you feel like there's no more room but want to keep going, lean back at a 45 degree angle. Your other organ press into your stomach. Leaning back gives them more room to spread out.

- Some foods sit heavy in your stomach. This can make it harder to eat a lot of food. This is especially true with certain high calorie foods. Keep this in mind when planning your stuffing sessions.

- The more food you eat, the more salt, sugar, fat, etc, you consume. Sounds sexy, but if you have too much, you can end up feeling too sick to continue. Take a look at the nutriton label when planning your stuffings

- You eat more when you are distacted. Try doing things like reading a book, watching a movie, or listening to a podcast while you eat.

- Associate having a stuffed belly with sexual pleasure. Having a partner and/or toys can make it easier to climax when you are too stuffed to move.

I might post more suggestions if I think of anything else

I don't think there's such thing as being too big for me to find someone attractive. That said, when the other person's quality of life has been impacted, my brain switches from feeder mode to caregiver mode.

My limits are the health and wellbeing of the other person. This impact can happen at any size.

Ngl, the joke would have landed better if you had said "blindfold ourselves" instead of the burka thing. After all, the dispute was about the ethics of objectification and voyeurism and not modesty or religious practices.

But you do you, boo.

I want to preface this by saying I am very much aware that just because you fantasize about something doesn't mean you would do it IRL. There's also a difference between being attracted to someone (not something you can control) and having sexual fantasies about someone (something you can control). That said, in my opinion, it comes down to those who consented to be sexualized and those who did not.


I also want to make it clear that there is a difference between sexualizing people and objectifying them. Sexualizing isn't inherently one thing or another. It just is. Objectifying someone reduces them to whatever traits or features make you one without regard to their personhood.

I also think it doesn't matter if you know someone shares your kink. If you either know they aren't cool with it or can't confirm if they are cool with it, then maybe don't.

The reasons are two-fold: Doing this can warp your thinking and your relationships with others. I touched on both in previous posts. The things you think about and how you think about them influence everything you do and say. I am not saying that if you fantasize about force-feeding that cute girl in the next cubicle, you'll do it. I don't think most would. But you'll notice how your thoughts about this person alter how you interact with them. This can have unintended impacts as well.

Even if it's a person you'll never see again, it can alter how you think and interact with similar people. Objectifying people (because that's what this is) makes it easier to ignore a person's humanity and agency even if that's not what we mean to do.