Nate Loves His BBW Wife:
My wife doesn't like her body, and wants to lose weight with one of those new drugs. She's ~315 now and hasn't been under 260 since we started seeing each 15 years ago. It breaks my heart to see her have such distain for her body and I want her to be happy, but I feel so conflicted because I absolutely love her size.
Is there a place here to talk this through with people that really understand what I'm feeling, maybe have gone through the same thing.
I really don't have anyone to talk to that understands my side of this, so thanks in advance to anyone who reaches out.
Munchies:
There is such a place. It's called therapy.
Milhause:
I don’t know how this was intended, but there are a variety of reasons why “just go to therapy” isn’t always a viable option, whether for financial or geographical reasons. I myself live in a mental health care desert where the nearest providers are hours away and cost prohibitive.
OP, I’m not a counselor but if you need someone to vent to, feel free to message me.
I take your point.
But OP needs some heavy duty therapy that is above all of our pay grades. There are layers and layers of things that need to be untangled and addressed.