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Of course it's possible. Some people can't get up even when they haven't eaten!

Believe it or not I'm a feminist, but I've mostly (not completely!) given up on the terminological turnpikes. E.g., I remember when you couldn't call an 18-year-old woman a "girl" let alone a "chick".

And of course being "Dr. Feeder" puts me on a lot of incorrect lists! So I just try to express what I think as best I can.

Sorry if I offended anyone!

I wish they still had circus fat ladies!

Would anyone on here take that gig?

1. Keep a large variety and large quantity of goodies on hand. You should NEVER run out of snacks!

2. Check out "How to Get Fat" on my site: askdrfeeder.dyndns.org.

3. Let her know how excited you are every time she hits a gaining milestone.

And Shrek--are most ogres from Scotland?

Most foodees don't want to be encouraged to gain. On the other hand, since a lot of them gain anyway, they might like a partner who appreciates gaining. So a feeder might be a good choice.

Most feeders would prefer a partner they can encourage to gain, but a lot of them would probably be content to have a larger partner who may or may not gain but has at least given up dieting. So a foodee might be a good choice.

Are you now or have you ever been in such a relationship? How is/was it?

Well, maybe if someone came up with a good answer it wouldn't be posted so much.

You weren't.

But everyone wants things their way--even you want a world with fewer posts like this one!

Since you don't want to sue or snark a customer, I'd just say: "Oh, don't worry. I take GREAT care of myself!"