There's always "How to Get Fat" at askdrfeeder.dyndns.org

I've noticed a few people on here say on their profile that they're a foodee initially. And then at some point they change it to "feedee".

If this describes you, why did you change? Did you have some kind of revelation that changed you? Or were you just uncomfortable calling yourself a feedee at first?

You never learn to like rejection, but you do get used to it.

I was afraid of it for many years and eventually got over it, but I sure let a lot of opportunities go by!

Strike while the iron is hot!

I shouldn't speak for the community, but I'll go out on a limb and say:

You're welcome!

I know that many feedees are quite conflicted about gaining when they start but become less conflicted as they get bigger.

Has this happened to you or a partner? Why do you think that is?

Has anyone become MORE conflicted as they've gotten bigger? Or has it stayed the same? Why do you think that is?

Better gain some weight just to make sure.

I think I need to see a pic of you sucking it in! It's probably a starter but lets make sure.

Excellent illustration of progress from a "brusher" to a "sinker":

fantasyfeeder.com/cms/infusions/galleries/view.php

Unfortunately, we have our share of creeps and jerks, like any community.

I mean "not short enough"? What are you supposed to do, cut off your feet??

You're right, but it's usually at least an obstacle. Really, it's hard to have a relationship with a fanatic of any stripe unless you share his/her interests.