Fantasy Feeder

Sighting: see evidence of wg that is a turn-on

Kacchan:
This is one of the most academic and deconsteuctive threads - and I'm here for it.

I do think we've gone way off of OP's initial topic, but I'm interested and appreciative of the many different points and perspectives happening in here.

- How do we define consent with regard to individual's sexual thoughts about others?

- What is a fetish versus a kink versus a preference?

- What are our obligations for the protection of modesty/sentiments non-FF human beings?

Fascinating stuff, and not what I expected when I started reading this thread.

I want to preface this by saying I am very much aware that just because you fantasize about something doesn't mean you would do it IRL. There's also a difference between being attracted to someone (not something you can control) and having sexual fantasies about someone (something you can control). That said, in my opinion, it comes down to those who consented to be sexualized and those who did not.

I also want to make it clear that there is a difference between sexualizing people and objectifying them. Sexualizing isn't inherently one thing or another. It just is. Objectifying someone reduces them to whatever traits or features make you one without regard to their personhood.

I also think it doesn't matter if you know someone shares your kink. If you either know they aren't cool with it or can't confirm if they are cool with it, then maybe don't.

The reasons are two-fold: Doing this can warp your thinking and your relationships with others. I touched on both in previous posts. The things you think about and how you think about them influence everything you do and say. I am not saying that if you fantasize about force-feeding that cute girl in the next cubicle, you'll do it. I don't think most would. But you'll notice how your thoughts about this person alter how you interact with them. This can have unintended impacts as well.

Even if it's a person you'll never see again, it can alter how you think and interact with similar people. Objectifying people (because that's what this is) makes it easier to ignore a person's humanity and agency even if that's not what we mean to do.

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I'm so tired of the food here i've eaten it all!

Thepiggygirls:
I often see the British food slander and how they don't ever use spices, but it's so funny because I feel as though Australians are even worse offenders of this!

When im telling you "Australian" food is some of the blandest food you will have in your life I mean it. As an Australian I now yearn for leaving this place to discover other cuisines because I've realised, if something isn't from here that's where the flavour comes from! I guess maybe the Australian laid back attitude goes as far as to influence the food as most of it is pretty basic flavours with minimal effort or seasoning. I'm not saying people don't veer away from this but most people here only use salt, pepper and curry for pretty much everything. The most authentic experience of Australian food is probably when friends invite other friends over for a bbq. If it's lunch most dishes will usually be served cold such a pasta salads, potato salads, basic salad of lettuce, tomato & cucumber and meats from the bbq (generally unseasoned or just salt). The typical sauce options will be bbq or tomato and pretty much everywhere sauce options don't vary much from those, with the addition of gravy, which I like to be dark brown and thick. This trend of sticking to a limited flavour profile extends to the supermarkets too, pretty much everything stays within about 3-5 flavour profiles.There's not much of a range of really anything, for example, sodas pretty much stick to just being raspberry, orange, cola or lemon or some version of that. It's impossible to find things like a grape soda or anything even slightly adventurous. The same goes for candies anything more exciting like watermelon, grape & blue raspberry candies are sparse and the milks and ice creams pretty much everything sticks to being chocolate, vanilla or caramel.
The only exciting flavours come when things are limited edition or are internationally sourced. So I think I've quite literally out eaten this country, I've eaten it all so many times, I've eaten everything good in the supermarkets, and I just need a new world of food to try. There's so many countries I fantasise going to just for entire eating trips, I worry how I'd fit on the plane back but it sounds so exciting. Nothing makes me more excited than new flavours and textures of food, it will truly be a marvelous experience and would hopefully take a huge toll. I'd definitely document everything too so you could see how much I ate and gained. Idk about you but that sounds incredible and we've e got to make it happen this year!!

With love, but this is the whitest thing I have seen in a while. And I am in bed with my very white significant other.

Just ... use seasoning. And try foods from other cultures. Problem solved.

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Losing weight to rebel against my fat kink (any tips on not letting my fetish ruin my weight los

Jelly Rolls:
I want to lose weight because I want to be seen as superior to other people in the eyes of society. Honestly I want to get so thin that other people skinny shame me (since it means they are jealous). I want the pity and attention people give skinny people. I also want to get super skinny so that I appear less feminine because looking feminine gives me gender dysphoria and getting skinny is how I can pretend to be a cis girl while curing a lot of my dysphoria. If I get skinny than my thighs will be smaller in comparison to my body since my waist and shoulders can’t get any smaller due to my bones.

I hate that I get off on the idea of being fat. I see changing my body to be the opposite of my kink to be empowering and showing resistance to what I believe is a disturbing kink. I respect how others choose to live and how they view their kinks. I don’t want to come on here and push my beliefs because acting out a fat fetish is an individual choice.

It’s just hard to eat 1200-1500 calories a day when the horny part of your brain is telling you to eat until you are obese. Every slip up I make is made worse because once I slip up I get horny and catch myself at McDonald’s. If it wasn’t for this stupid kink that wants me to look ugly to the majority of the population I would be in a better spot.

Maybe I’ll take up volunteer work as an anti obesity advocate to rebel even more. I’m already becoming a doctor. I can fight it off. Does anyone have tips on fighting off fat fetish urges while losing weight?

Ngl, this sounds like an ED waiting to happen. It's one thing to lose weight. It's quite another to change your body in any capacity to be superior to someone else. Not only does it make you an unloveable loser, but it also messes with your head.

And what in the world are you rebelling against? This is a taboo fetish. You are wanting to engage in the status quo. Tee hee. I'm such a rebel for being like everyone else.

Also, I've been underweight before. And unless you've got a humiliation kink, it sucks. And even then, some idiot still manage to fat shame you.

I'm going to assume that this post is rage bait. Because I refuse to believe I live in a world where someone is so stupid to post something like this on a fat fetish site and means this with their chest. But I've wrong before.

Either way, seek therapy - especially since you say you have gender dysphoria. Better to trasition safely than kill yourself being mindboggling dumb.

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Sighting: see evidence of wg that is a turn-on

AskDrFeeder:
I know, let's put everyone in burkas so we can't fantasize about them even if we want to!

Someone clearly doesn't talk to a lot of Muslim people.

I'm not Muslim, but I have a lot of friends and family that are. Hell, my partner is Muslim. I also grew up in a conservative Christian household that prized modesty.

I can tell you first hand that no matter how little people can see of you, they will still objectify and fantasize about others. Hell, sometimes they do it even more if leave your body up to the imagination.

No amount of covering it up or letting it hang will change that.

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Busty guys

Voluptuouslover:
I have always been a muscle chub since gaining weight. I have always had the big gut with tight pecs and big muscular arms although over my gaining and the years my once tight pecs are now big and a lot more squishy. I am not a fan but my wife seems to be very much a fan. At first I was kind of shy she would lead with palming and grabbing my chest most before touching and cuddling my big gut. But both of those two spots are where her hands go first.

It seems true here from women chiming in but do you think average women like to see men’s moons or softer pecs. I notice mine when wearing most shorts these days and I had on a soft white sweatshirt the other night and it was like a magnet attraction as soon as I put it on walking toward my wife my chest must have been bouncing and looking very enticing she could keep her hands off my moobs as soon as I walked over to her.

I just like man titty. Muscle, squish don't matter.

All titty is good titty

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Need advice on how to be a feeder on a budget

Starlord211:
We are currently doing the save up option and my usual discretionary spending is in the 200 range, thinking about moving to in persons.

Munchies:
Your profile suggests you live in or near a city. And since you're 18, you might be in college. If this is the case, there may be opportunities to supplement things with free or discounted food. (A lot of places offer student discounts).

It also doesn't hurt to look into rewards, coupons, discounts, etc, etc. Pizza is popular with college people for a reason. It's not that expensive compared to a lot of things and they usually come to you covered in coupons and discounts. Bonus points if you know how to cook.

If you don't please learn. It's an important survival skill and you can make a lot of food for cheaper prices if you stretch it right.

All that said, realistically speaking, I don't think this will be a regular thing for you two at this point. Unless she's chipping in a good deal and you are okay with spending all $200 on her, I don't expect you to afford the major stuffings that she enjoys.

My partner and I enjoy similar things to you two. At his peak capacity, I think we were spending maybe $50, $60 per stuffing with the two of us contributing. I'm not sure how much things cost where you are, so keep this in mind.

Starlord211:
We did at one point do the 200 for the stuffings but now we have agreed to do only in persons. So theoretical costs are down and give me the opportunity to save more money. Im not in college at the moment which gives me more time to work with a pretty sustainable job. But as a genuine question, how can you tell if somone is scamming off of you on here. This is my first time in any sort of situation like this and 200 seems a little farfetched?

I mean ... that's not really a cut and dried thing. Some scams are obvious and others are not. But as a general rule of thumb if it sounds too good to be true, it is.

Outside of that, your best bet is to be careful.

You mentioned that she agreed to do in person feedings. That can make things easier for you when it comes to scam prevention. Specifically since you can confirm she's using your money to eat. But that doesn't mean 100% that you can't get scammed. The safest thing to do is to get meals where you can pre-pay. I'd also make sure you guys have a written agreement on payment details as something to refer back too. This is for both of your sakes as it can help with future disputes.

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Hottest. idea. ever.

KCGrowForMe:
I found my way into the most thrilling, real, hidden in plain sight, safe, amazing endeavor i've been doing.

With proof, i will show you it's all experience, no downside, so message me if you want to hear about it!

Well damn. What kind of experience did you have where you can't give us a general idea or even go into further details.

There's like ... thousands of different things out there that people find sexy. And of those things, not everyone finds them sexy.

Hope it's not crimes.

Unless it's the fun crimes. Like piracy.

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Need advice on how to be a feeder on a budget

Starlord211:
We are currently doing the save up option and my usual discretionary spending is in the 200 range, thinking about moving to in persons.

Your profile suggests you live in or near a city. And since you're 18, you might be in college. If this is the case, there may be opportunities to supplement things with free or discounted food. (A lot of places offer student discounts).

It also doesn't hurt to look into rewards, coupons, discounts, etc, etc. Pizza is popular with college people for a reason. It's not that expensive compared to a lot of things and they usually come to you covered in coupons and discounts. Bonus points if you know how to cook.

If you don't please learn. It's an important survival skill and you can make a lot of food for cheaper prices if you stretch it right.

All that said, realistically speaking, I don't think this will be a regular thing for you two at this point. Unless she's chipping in a good deal and you are okay with spending all $200 on her, I don't expect you to afford the major stuffings that she enjoys.

My partner and I enjoy similar things to you two. At his peak capacity, I think we were spending maybe $50, $60 per stuffing with the two of us contributing. I'm not sure how much things cost where you are, so keep this in mind.

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Need advice on how to be a feeder on a budget

Starlord211:
Hey all, im a new feeder who just met a feedee that id like a relationship with. I love talking with her besides just the feeder stuff we do. But besides that i need advice on how to do this on 1600 a month and with a feedee who likes force feeding, funnel feeding, and extreme stuffings.

I am assuming you're the one paying for everything? Because if so, I am not sure how that will work if she eats so much food.

Either you pay everything and do occasional stuffings you save up for or she contributes to it. Do you even have discretionary spending available?

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Lecture hall seats are so tiny!

ThickassGothGirl:
So I'm in college, and I just arrived to my class in a big lecture hall. I guess it makes sense that they need to fit a whole bunch of students in the room, but guys omg I almost couldn't fit in the seat! I had to really push myself in to get in, I'm so worried for when the class ends and I have to get up (or try to) after

Currently wedged into the seat, with my fat thighs pressed together, which makes my belly stand out even more... of course I chose today to wear tight pants haha. I'm so embarrassed but it's also kind of hot lol

Living up to your name

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