Let me try this again...

I know some fitness fanatics, and they really need to be with other fitness fanatics. I mean, they're skiing or racing or something practically every weekend, all their books and magazines are about fitness, and all their friends are fitness fanatics. It would be almost impossible for a non-fitness-fanatic spouse to fit in even if she were thin!

Your choices:

1. Find a fat fitness fanatic. This is possible but very tough. Even if you found one she'd probably be trying to lose weight, which you wouldn't want.

2. Learning to be sexually attracted to slim fit women. Probably not possible.

3. Change your lifestyle. Stop being a fitness fanatic. You don't have to give up fitness altogether, but you do have to curtail it radically. I know you don't want to do this, but <i>you can do it.</i>

4. Live your life as a lonely, extremely fit guy. Of course, this one is quite possible too.
13 years

Clothes shopping for men?

It depends. Does the woman have better taste in clothes than me? (Many do) Then fine, whatever she wants. I do need to tag along though.
13 years

Comebacks to fat-haters

Shoshybear wrote:
HIIII this thread made me so very very excited, I actually run a blog called FA Frenchie
fatacceptancefrenchie.tumblr.com
that is dedicated to comebacks! and I was wondering if I could use some of your comebacks? They are just so amazing


Sure, use all you want.
13 years

The wall test

BlueSunshine wrote:
The Girls hit the wall first, with my belly coming in a close second. My feet didn't stand a chance.


What about the Floor Test?
13 years

Six pounds away from 368..sad?

Congrats, great gain! You look fantastic.

But as much as I like this fetish or paraphilia or whatever it is I'll be the first to say that while it might contribute to your happiness it is not sufficient. Foodees, feedees, feeders are human beings. We have complex needs and becoming happy and staying that way is challenging for all of us. It's kind of the task of life really!

Good luck!
13 years

Circus fat ladies

Ninja Sammich wrote:
blank009 wrote:
A good show case for this community????


Yes because a circus side show freak won't at all make people think the rest of us are freaks.


Ouch!
13 years

Is it possible to be so.....

Of course it's possible. Some people can't get up even when they haven't eaten!
13 years

Circus fat ladies

LadyEjkua wrote:
Wow that's the most politically incorrect thing I've heard today. Aren't you grateful we have things like womans lib and naafa and stuff? smileysmileysmiley


Believe it or not I'm a feminist, but I've mostly (not completely!) given up on the terminological turnpikes. E.g., I remember when you couldn't call an 18-year-old woman a "girl" let alone a "chick".

And of course being "Dr. Feeder" puts me on a lot of incorrect lists! So I just try to express what I think as best I can.

Sorry if I offended anyone!
13 years

Circus fat ladies

I wish they still had circus fat ladies!

Would anyone on here take that gig?
13 years

Advice on feeding...1st timer

1. Keep a large variety and large quantity of goodies on hand. You should NEVER run out of snacks!

2. Check out "How to Get Fat" on my site: askdrfeeder.dyndns.org.

3. Let her know how excited you are every time she hits a gaining milestone.
13 years