All my girlfriends get fat
Hunter9 wrote:
In the real world one cannot tell his girlfriend he is attempting to get her fat. It would spoil half the fun.
In the real world one cannot tell his girlfriend he is attempting to get her fat. It would spoil half the fun.
Ohh, you mean... Secret Feeding? I think you'll find that's frowned upon here.
From the Guide to FF:
I'd like to fatten up my partner without them knowing - any tips? 
- On another note, Secret Feeding/Fattening is something that is universally frowned upon in the community for being unethical, as it betrays another person's trust. Fantasizing about it is fine, as the 'FANTASY' part of Fantasy Feeder indicates, but doing it for real is another matter. NO sneaking weight gain supplements/more fattening ingredients into anyone's food!
- On another note, Secret Feeding/Fattening is something that is universally frowned upon in the community for being unethical, as it betrays another person's trust. Fantasizing about it is fine, as the 'FANTASY' part of Fantasy Feeder indicates, but doing it for real is another matter. NO sneaking weight gain supplements/more fattening ingredients into anyone's food!
12 years
Talking to not talking.
Maimee wrote:
Good suggestions generally, but I've always loathed this sort of thing in response to someone's problems. Very little is comparable to poverty or AIDS - that doesn't mean lesser problems aren't still problems. It's reductive, dismissive, and doesn't help one single bit. If someone is having relationship troubles, depression, money worries or even just a bad self-esteem day, wagging your finger at them and saying think of the children in Africa does not make those things any better, at all. It certainly doesn't put things in perspective. Who does it help? Comfortable westerners suddenly hugging their faulty washing machines and thinking "at least I'm not starving and homeless like you" is just worse if anything.
sweet_sensation wrote:
4) Put your problems in perspective - are they really that dramatic compared to world poverty or AIDS?
4) Put your problems in perspective - are they really that dramatic compared to world poverty or AIDS?
Good suggestions generally, but I've always loathed this sort of thing in response to someone's problems. Very little is comparable to poverty or AIDS - that doesn't mean lesser problems aren't still problems. It's reductive, dismissive, and doesn't help one single bit. If someone is having relationship troubles, depression, money worries or even just a bad self-esteem day, wagging your finger at them and saying think of the children in Africa does not make those things any better, at all. It certainly doesn't put things in perspective. Who does it help? Comfortable westerners suddenly hugging their faulty washing machines and thinking "at least I'm not starving and homeless like you" is just worse if anything.
This, it's a particular bugbear of mine. It just ends up avoiding the problem in itself. Not to mention I'm not exactly fond of the fact that there are starving people in Africa and other nations so it induces sorrow in me about that as well on top of what I was already feeling. Fortunately I was able to convince some I know of this so they don't use that trick on me anymore.
12 years
