Doctors know a lot so it’s worth taking their advise but if the doctor is just telling you the problem is that you’re fat without treating you like they would any other patient is asinine and frankly a waste of everyone’s time. Just get a second opinion, if you’re in pain it could be serious.

There was a large gap from when I was skinny to when I decided to give in and just get fat on purpose BUT for me it’s all the good Food and as much as you want of it and the draw back is of course the food budget! When you’re a bonafide fatty the only constriction to your appetite is your wallet!

Back before I started gaining weight on purpose (these were like size 28, I’m like a 54 at least, for reference) I had 3 pairs of work pants that were serviced, well I managed to need a bigger size after a while and the uniform guy said I needed to watch it or he’d have to drop me if I got to big - I don’t work there anymore but

At my current job there’s no uniform but they want us to where shirts but it’s not like oh you have to but it’s professional… but every time they’ve asked for my size it’s gone up, it’s been like that for like the last 2 years lol, I think they’ve just given up I dress decently enough for the job with the shirt in mind it’s not like I’m a slob or anything. I think they’ve given up trying to get me the right size lol

A lil music thread might be fun.

Absolutely. I’m not saying fat people don’t feel cold I mean sure I feel cold sometimes, it’s usually when I’m in bed without covers not so much out in the cold winter night, but at the same time I can be out in a longsleve in the skid steer ploughing snow all night, im sure it has to do with what climate you were raised in, ancestry etc etc to many factors that can’t be isolated to fat = warm in cold weather

I don’t seem the harm in it, if she’s received bigger clothes already and especially around Christmas with gift giving just make sure it’s like you two time as opposed to the large gift exchange because it could be embarrassing for her in front of a lot of people to be basically told your clothes don’t fit.

Mmmm cheese on toast sounds like a good excuse to eat cheese and a loaf of bread

I haven’t had a pair of buttoned pants since around the start of Covid but I had to get a pair of dress pants for wedding towards the end of the summer and I ended up finding a pair of 52’s that fit really well for the wedding fast forward to today and they don’t button - it’s stretch pants for here on in, lol

I did my weekly food shopping yesterday which was good but tonight I decided to get into some of the Oreos I bought I put down the entire package all 4 sleeves… in a sitting, with 3 big glasses of milk but appenrly that wasn’t enough so I opened a bag of chips but ended up eating the entire bag and about half an another. I don’t usually go this crazy for junk food but tonight for whatever reason I was consumed by it. What’s weird is I also ate a big dinner.

Do you guys ever get these moods I mean I’m used to bad meals but never this much snacking

something tells me that feeders wanting a thin/skinny/fit feedee is a lot like wanting a puppy but losing interest or appreciation when they are a full grown dog, and it’s something I can’t really shake.

Feedees: do it for you! As someone who was fat before choosing to actively gain.