Oh wait, you said the most important lesson...oops. Uh...look both ways before crossing the street?
13 years
1. Don't apologize if you've done nothing wrong.
2. Don't buy glasses that have upside-down screws.
3. Never make plans that require sitting around waiting for someone to phone.
4. Keep your promises. Also, avoid making promises.
5. When you buy shoes, buy some replacement shoelaces for them. If they don't carry them, DON'T BUY THE SHOES!
6. The more it's all about you, the more you should make others feel it's all about them.
7. If a child is crying because she's hurt or afraid, comfort her. If she's crying because she's not getting her way, have her go cry somewhere else.
8. If nobody's listening, don't talk.
9. If someone says "you know what I'm saying?" and you don't, say "No, I don't know what you're saying."
13 years
FluffyMcMittens wrote:
See, my step mother is a cold, racist, homophobic bitch. A real monster. But she donated 500 bucks to charity a few weeks ago.
What charity? Hope it wasn't "Gay-bashers for Hitler"!
13 years
Met a woman once who was born in Hong-Kong and then lived in Australia for some time. She had a combination Chinese-Australian accent that was as cute as it gets.
13 years
It occurs to me that many of us have probably been in therapy at one time or another.
If that's true in your case:
1) Did you discuss your pro-fat orientation(s)? (Feederism, Fat Appreciation, stuffing, etc.)
2) What did the therapist think? I figure most therapists would think the feeding fantasies and fat appreciation were okay but that many would balk at the idea of someone actively gaining or encouraging someone else to.
But that's just a guess. I would be very interested in hearing real-life experiences.
Feel free to answer this question privately:
rfeeder@gmail.com '>drfeeder@gmail.com . I will keep strict confidentiality.
13 years
"Want some ice cream on that?" --Anonymous
13 years
MissLou wrote:
''If you want something said ask a man, if you want something done ask a woman'' - Margaret Thatcher
Apparently Maggie didn't know my ex-wife.
13 years
johnxyz wrote:
I agree, this is not a good idea.
Who is going to enforce this?
Anyone who is unethical and does bad things is not going to abide by a code of ethics.
Whoops, I didn't say there's NO code of ethics, just no special code.
Ethical standards are enforced by individuals, communities, and the law. Of course they aren't always enforced, but that doesn't mean they're useless.
For example, if a feeder routinely abuses women, the word will get out in the community and it will be harder for him to find new victims. Or if he beats them up, she can get a restraining order. Etc.
13 years
