Zlukz:
I really want to be obese, I know I’ve always dreamed of it. But I also really like doing sports like cycling or tennis.
How do you manage to do both?
I already gained 25lbs. But I can already feel that doing sport is more difficult. Problem is that I want my body way softer, it’s only the beginning of my journey!
Do you have any tips or advices about that?

Wish you all a good day!

GrowingLoveHandles:
Back to the original post.

Has anyone found these posts? I’d love to read them.

Greentrees8733:
There's one user I remember. I don't think she's exactly the one OP is addressing, but she told some stories that she claimed were true, but sounded pretty tall to me. Less explicit "ruining" that OP is describing, and more "choosing to give up everything to be immobile feedees".

But if OP and others are after real anecdotes, I don't think I know the user/posts being referenced.

MitchHedberg:
Yeah the user I'm thinking of had stories about getting men to be submissive to her, so that she could convince them to gain enough weight that it would mess up their lives.

She spoke of men who lost their relationships and jobs to the intoxication of getting fat for her, and when they would reach that point and ask "what's next?" she would just say "nothing. go on and live your life, we're done here".

If true the stories are super fucked up, and hopefully weren't real. But sometimes I wish I could go back and read her detailed posts because as fantasies, they were pretty hot.

Slip130:
I did say in my original comment that I recognized her stance on it and absolutely respect it, let's be clear about that please.
Anyways, she knows I'm really attracted to her physically too not just personally... and she knows I touch her all over when we're romantic, which is something I've asked about to make sure it doesn't make her feel uncomfortable when I grab her belly, rolls etc etc which she said is totally fine and again seems to like it.
But I haven't outright stated that I like fat to her at this point in the relationship.

Slip130:
I'm curious about other members experience with the exact subject, my gf and I have been dating for the past 4 months or so and while I have absolutely no problems burying the topic and forgetting about it because I love her for a lot of reasons other than her size, like I could talk alot about how she's an amazing person and how lucky I am but I'd be lying if I said it wasn't something I was really attracted too. If I had to guess I might suspect her to be in the 350-400lbs range but I just don't know and sometimes my curiosity burns. I asked her once as politely as j could without making too much of a big deal about it and she simply stated she didn't know but I could tell she was annoyed that I asked.

I told her then that it didn't matter at all and it really was just a curiosity which she seemed ok with then. The thing is, I know she had been to the doctors office recently and more likely then not does know her weight but dodged the topic (which I respect, it's her personal information and i really like her regardless)

I really don't want to push it because I'm really happy currently but for people in current relationships here, how did your partner become more open about it over time or were they always open about it from day one?
It's an interesting predicament because when we have romantic nights she's really OK and seems to like it even when I grab her rolls, love handles, stomach etc and she doesn't mind getting on top. What are your experiences?

BerlinGainer27:
I don't want anyone to loose their license or go to jail. This could be done entirely anonymously.

GrowingLoveHandles:
Back to the original post.

Has anyone found these posts? I’d love to read them.

Greentrees8733:
There's one user I remember. I don't think she's exactly the one OP is addressing, but she told some stories that she claimed were true, but sounded pretty tall to me. Less explicit "ruining" that OP is describing, and more "choosing to give up everything to be immobile feedees".

But if OP and others are after real anecdotes, I don't think I know the user/posts being referenced.

Bellygains17:
Like it says lol. I would love to meet a feeder and see if there’s a connection beyond the kink. As far as the kink goes, 600 is the minimum goal but I would go further for the right lady!

Ultimateaaron12:
What are your experiences did you set a goal weight for each month or did you just eat everything you could find what are some things you wish you knew before you started stuff like that

BigBallBellyGirl:
The short answer is "my whole life", since I've always been fat, and even as a kid, showed up fatter every school year.

However, I spent most of my early twenties (I'll be 30 in a few days), between 325 and 370. It wasn't until I lost some weight and then decided to regain that I achieved what most would consider super obesity. In about a year, I gained more than 270 pounds with extremely large stuffings several times each week, and constant grazing between. My gain came from giant quantities of high calorie foods, like pizza, bread, tons of cheese and other dairy, fried food, and burgers. Those habits did have some major medical consequences, but as far as packing on the weight, it definitely worked quickly. Basically, you have to be comfortable being about to burst around the clock, and unless you have unlimited financial resources, factoring in your food budget as a major part of your living expenses.

Currently weighing about 570, which is where I hope to remain.

IHatedMyFatBody:
I think this is the only thing my boyfriend likes that I think deserves a separate thread. So I'm 34 and he's 24. As course back in January, in addition to not understanding how a tall fit man was pursing a woman as fat as me, I didn't understand how he was pursing one so much older. In April, he confessed to looking forward to see my aging. As in, grey hair, more wrinkles, more age spots, watch me transform into looking like a fat grandma.

In addition to wanting to fully appreciate his liking my fatness, I want to fully appreciate that too.
He said the wrinkles and age spots I already have is as sexy to him as my fatness.

Munchies:
My man said he wants a Gilf, not a Milf.

IHatedMyFatBody:
I made a big step today in accepting his appreciation for me.

I finally allowed myself to have sex.

IHatedMyFatBody:
I think this is the only thing my boyfriend likes that I think deserves a separate thread. So I'm 34 and he's 24. As course back in January, in addition to not understanding how a tall fit man was pursing a woman as fat as me, I didn't understand how he was pursing one so much older. In April, he confessed to looking forward to see my aging. As in, grey hair, more wrinkles, more age spots, watch me transform into looking like a fat grandma.

In addition to wanting to fully appreciate his liking my fatness, I want to fully appreciate that too.
He said the wrinkles and age spots I already have is as sexy to him as my fatness.