He's the Joker, what more do you want?

The tummy, obviously.

Zombies or Vampires?

I'm about 5'10 and 200andsomethingy lbs atm (unsure exactly, as I haven't even seen a scale for years).

While I don't think I'd say 'no' to someone based purely on her height, I have to admit to preferring shorter women. There's this delicious contradiction in a short fat woman, in that she's big and small at the same time

Favourite Doctor: Patrick Troughton (such a shame that so much of the video from that time has been wiped leaving only the audio, however much I'm grateful for the audio)

Honourable mentions: Tom Baker, Matt Smith

Surprise entry: Colin Baker, in the Big Finish audio productions. He finally got to show that he could actually do the part well provided he was given a decent script and scope to do what he wanted with the role.

In the end though I couldn't say I dislike any of them, so it's a case of 'which of these things you really like do you really really like?'

A cool looking guy who sounds like he's doing some appropriately cool things with his life.

I've sort of been up and down about it over the years. It didn't help that my introduction to the term 'feeder' (which did click into place in a 'so that's what I am' moment) was via the Channel 4 (uk) documentary 'Fat Girls & Feeders'. While it had a neutral-positive take on FAs, which I also identified as (obviously), its take on feedism and the examples used to demonstrate it were extremely negative. I hadn't come across places like FF, and given that generally, when the topic of feedism comes up it doesn't get a great press a lot of the negativity rubbed off. Quite a few of my middle-teenaged years were spent thinking that maybe they were right, that maybe I was an inherently manipulative, uncaring person who shouldn't get into relationships because I'd inevitably be hurting someone (and yes, I know there's an inherent contradiction in that reasoning, which I eventually noticed myself). It would be sad if it weren't so ridiculous how much our perception of ourselves and our motives can be twisted when we only hear other peoples' negative and false versions of them.

Things have generally improved, thanks in part to forums and tumblrs like this which have given a more positive (and importantly truer) perspective that has allowed me to stop second guessing myself quite so much. It's liberating to realise that you can be as good as you hope you are, and that your preferences needn't impact on that.

Apart from the odd smirk from a half-friend at uni I've never really had any shit from people who know my preference. As it is now I don't think anyone in my current social circle is aware of them, but that's not because I'm ashamed of them, it's simply because it's never yet been relevant to the conversation ('so, how're you doing on line-learning' 'I LOVE FAT WOMEN!' '...that's not in the script...' ). I figure the best way for anyone to find out is for them to see you with a partner of your choice, and for you to make it clear that they *are* your choice. And if they don't like it they can lump it.

Definitely looking forward to it, will also be looking forward to the real trailer when it comes out. Till then we have the rest of series 7 which is looking to be pretty damn good to me (I now need a long, purple tweed frock coat. Y'know, for the purposes of oddly cool).

Since when has the failure of a proposal for weight loss been spun as anything other than the (usually moral) failure of the person undertaking it? The papers will simply scream 'Look! We did so much to help them, and the lazy ***ers are still fat' Then cue the next round of bullshit.

Ah I remember seeing this when it was broadcast. By the end I was cheering and clapping my tv. While he isn't a favourite of mine I do like Adam Hills and this made me like him that bit more.

*takes notes* Keep going people, these are gold