Crown Victoria, top car :-) old taxi or old cop car?

@hiccupx, technically the site is pretty good. There are some features that would make sense such as a hover over preview so as not to waste clicks navigating to non-existent photos.

The technical solutions I am thinking of are more policy than bug. For instance replying to a post and then the OP blocks you so they and their posts become invisible. You can still tell they are onsite because they come up in search dropdowns and other people are talking in public with them.

It's a weird feeling being ghosted and seems wrong that this would happen in the communal areas. I can handle it because after 25 years of online interactions I am hardened to that feeling. In the old days you had to assume their modem had just dropped the line. Not always the case but it always felt like they just blanked you so that mental adjustment was necessary.

To call someone 'entitled' when they expect common courtesy is the signature on the original rudeness of the other person. These things sting and depending on the temperament of the other person how much it hurts.

I've always been in two minds about people getting paid for 'content'. It's always men who will pay and women who will get paid, pretty much the definition of prostitution. That's OK especially if it creates more of what we need, BBW in this case.

Unfortunately thanks to thing that begins with V that we shall not name, no not Voldemort we rely even more on Internet interactions. Where in the past this was very good for deep discussions, it's less so now with 100 character limits on popular services and 5 message limits on others. It has never been good for romance unless the meetup happened during the peak passion. Chat on line too long without meeting and the flame goes out.

I would suggest that FF does an amazing job but unless you actually arrange a date you will simply get bogged down in the technical limitations of the communications media.

I think the OP is too sensitive and needs to man up. I can say that about the OP because they can't read what I wrote.

@BBWCreator82,

A very well thought out and written post. When the Internet was young back in the 90's I had a Feeder website. The people who managed to get themselves online were not your average person. It was a sort of filter and created a real sense of community.

25 years later the Internet has changed and so has the world. Prostitution was frowned upon and most women did not want to become one. The terminology has changed and they are now Content Creators no different to someone who makes videos about car repair. Attention from these people is worth money and you must pay.

In the good old days boy would meet girl and get married. These days the boys only want the best girls, be they the best BBW girls in our case and the best girls have so many males to chose from. This leaves a lot of lonely men who are prepared to pay to get a woman's attention. And they can get it when they pay but not if they don't pay.

The women themselves only want the most eligible men who then get all the action from all the women and rightfully get accused of cheating. The women then blame men in general for the actions of the sexiest men, whilst the majority of men remain rejected unless they pay.

This creates resentment all round. Why would a man try and be polite and to woo the woman when he actually has to pay? Why would a woman not treat men as creeps. The poor socially inept man gets the full force of being called a creep so will probably go back into his shell for fear of being arrested for verbal rape or whatever the hate crime is.

Society is broken in many ways and this is just one of them. There are probably technical things this site can do and there are probably some attitudes that could do with being adjusted.

People often can't identify whether the weight has piled on or fallen off. If you gain weight they will notice the difference and think you have lost weight. If in their mind you are the fattest man on Earth then when they see you they will think you must have got slimmer. They will probably stay off the subject too.

Cambridgeshire is FLAT not FAT. You misread the brochure.

Very nice. Keep going. Some have gained 100.

Re-frame the negative comments as teasing and recognition of how fat you're getting. If you like being fat then this is simply being reminded of something you like.

Wonderful. I assume she is ether happy to be this way or has no choice.

You need to be bold and meet people from here in the physical world. You need to be even more bold because it means evading our police state. As does the person you meet.