Nice little story - although I'd prefer a more realistic WG. I think I read it years ago, when I frequented that site. I almost went in the Air Force/Navy after high school and remember thinking how I would have loved to come back from a deployment to a surpringly fatter wife/girlfriend. Some great stories over there. May have to wonder back for a trip down memory lane. I know this was directed at SecretFantasies, but thanks for posting that.
8 years
I would encourage you to try to be healthy about it, as much as possible. Unfortunately, healthier foods do cost more, but the home baking idea lets you use better ingredients, although, even some of that stuff has preservatives, dyes and artificial crud. It can be a challenge but you'll learn over time, and you don't have to ultra strict with it either.
8 years
Always good to hear. In RL, I've never had a problem finding great girls that like bigger guys. Run into them all the time, actually. And yet, despite overwhelming evidence to the contrary, I somehow believe or feel that I must be skinny and muscular to deserve a good quality girl. It makes no sense.
8 years
Very glad to hear it! 🙂 Good to talk about it rather than live with the stress of not knowing and being worried about it. 👍
8 years
Also, if it would mean a lot to him, no harm in being supportive and working out with him at least some of the time, unless you just absolutely despise it. He's leaving soon (I assume), so if you happen to lose a couple of pounds, you can gain it back after he leaves. :-)
8 years
Just be prepared when he comes home, he might be a little shocked/surprised if your gain is noticeable. He may not like it, he may be neutral, or he may love it. Just be sure to convey confidence and pride in your body, not embarrassment or shame. Act as if he loves it and he just might. Good luck, happy eating and I hope you keep us posted. :-)
8 years
In general, absolutely! I love snug clothing on a chubby or growing girl. Not so tight it alters the shape of their body, but snug enough that you know it wasn't that tight when they bought it. All kinds of fun things run through my head when I observe that. How much have they gained? How much bigger will they be in a few months? Will they ever rip it with their growing body? Do they like their size or hate it? Are they gaining on purpose or not? Do they stuff themselves and with what?
So yeah, go ahead and keep the snug stuff and ware it proudly. Just remember not everyone is an FA but it's been my experience in talking to guys, there are a whole lot more than one would think.
8 years
ag24596:
1. I wish everyone in the world was fat so it would be normal for me to gain weight
2. I wish I could freeze time and touch everyone's bellies and boobs and everything
3. I wish chubby girls had more confidence and didn't get treat differently in society
These have been my wishes too, especially 1 and 3.
8 years
luv 2 luv fat guys:
I want to be kept Forever pregnant
Mmm My ultimate dream
I guess I have the male counterpart to that: I'd love to keep a girl pregnant. Like, as many times as possible. Always wanted a big family of my own, but that will be a dream unfulfilled.
8 years
Well said! I'm not surprised by any of it! I think people aren't even aware of the unconscious assumptions they make and it's good to bring it to the surface. :-)
heftyheifer:
For me, it's just that people make assumptions about me before talking to me. This makes me have to do a lot of explaining and it's really annoying.
For example, since I'm a feedee, everyone assumes that I'm actively gaining. I have a feedee fetish and want to be someone's feedee, but that doesn't mean that in the mean time I'm gaining on my own.
People also make false assumptions about why I'm into this. This is just a kink that I'm into. I can't control it. I love the idea of being fed and fat shamed. I'm a feedee because that's my kink. It turns me on whether I like it or not. However, people assume that I'm into this just because I love being fat more than anything, and that's not entirely true.
People also assume that I'm eating. Like, yes, I do eat a lot, but that doesn't mean that I'm stuffing myself 24/7. People will message me and ask me how full I am and things like that, and then they almost act disappointed when I tell them that I'm not at that particular moment.
Also, mutual gaining. If I was into that, I'd put it on my profile. People assume that because I'm a fat girl, I must just constantly fawn over chubby guys. I'm not even as into guys in general, and while I don't mind a guy being bigger and it's not a deal breaker, it's not really what I'm into, and I really shouldn't have to feel bad about it.
Also, people assume that I'm bigger than I am. Like, I'm 5'5" and 310 pounds, so I understand that that sounds pretty huge (and it is). However, people on here will assume that that means things like impaired mobility and stuff like that. It makes me feel the need to exaggerate how big I am when I talk to people on here, when in reality I can actually still run, jump, etc. While it may be more difficult for me to do certain things, for the most part I can still do them.
The last thing, and potentially most annoying thing, is that people assume I'll automatically be into them. Just because I'm a fat girl and my options are limited doesn't mean that I've abandoned all standards. I still like what I like, and I'm still not really into 60 year old men. Like, if you're a senior citizen, I don't mean to be ageist or anything, but you're too old for me.
So, yeah. Kind of a long rant, but I just needed to get these things off my chest because they get really irritating.
8 years
