I agree

I would say how soon you tell your partner depends how strongly you feel about the kink.

If it's super important to you to have that as part of your sex life / relationship. Then you need to be up front from an early stage...and ideally find someone who is already into feederism or at least aware of its existence.

I don't see what's wrong with having a frank discussion about your sexual appetites and fantasies... That conversation usually comes up after a couple of dates due to the sexual tension anyway.

I think if you shy away from the topic, it makes it seem weirder, like your ashamed and its some sort of dirty secret. Being confident and just saying... This is what I like. I like you too. Would you be into it, or is this a deal breaker?? Would work well. No messing around and you can make the decision early if it's s worth putting in the effort to cultivate anything more.

Obviously if the kink isn't important then you don't need to focus on dropping the 'Feeder Bomb' too much, there are plenty of ways to encorporate a little bit of light feederism in your sex life.

If you have a earnings account and post premium stories here then it is fine to promote your other FF premium stories on the description.

It is also fine to have a free version and premium version of the same story as a way to promote interest and increase your commission.

We do not allow any external advertising to other sites, apps or other platforms. This would be against the site rules. So this should not be mentioned or linked to on any section of the site.

Hope that helps.

Me too!

My thoughts on the topic...

There are a lot of content creators and sex workers who do come to the site and others like it. Anyone who is a content creator or sex worker MAY (Not always the case...) not be into the fetish genuinely. This is simply because it is a way for them to earn a living. It's Pay to Play... or chat or whatever you want to call it. Making content costs money... simple as... The outfits, food, props, equipment, editing software. Not to mention the time and energy that goes into it... so yes you should expect to pay for this sort of thing, and there are lots of people who are happy to pay for it too!

There is nothing wrong with being a content creator or sex worker as long as people are up front about it. A lot of people are here to enjoy the fetish and find other people who are genuinely into it, to make friends, connections and relationships in whatever form that may be. So if you're not here for the same thing, and purely to promote your business... just don't lead people on. SIMPLE.

That being said, Fantasy Feeder is not a platform for those wishing to advertise their content for sale or other selling platforms. So it is frustrating when a lot of profiles and content from members is only promoting business, and they never bother engaging with the rest of the site or community at all. ** There are so many other sites and social media platforms to promote yourselves on... small sites like this get overrun and it becomes harder to filter through to find other fetishists or real feederism content and discussion.

People who are genuinely into the fetish, are usually happy to supplement the cost of this themselves... Other than financial domination you don't really get people asking or EXPECTING payment from others purely because you're into 'said' fetish.

Obviously it is nice if someone wants to help out or treat you, but this shouldn't be a requirement before chatting or interacting. Usually this comes after a longer standing interaction and relationship than just a 'Hi' in the chatroom.

Then you get the chancers, jumping on the band wagon. Who are really neither into the fetish or a content creator / sex worker and just want to scam people out of money. This is when it gets shitty. Because people end up getting taken advantage of and THAT is not fair. This also spills over into the category of people who are begging for money and gifts... This is just annoying if I am honest. Why would you expect some random-er online to part with their hard earned cash for no reason whatsoever. Even more annoying is that it distracts from real conversation on the site and in the chat.

There are feedee's and gainers who are on the site who never ask for money. ** I have been here for 12+ years and never asked for help with food or money for gaining. There are plenty of male feedee's and gainers who are also in the same boat and fund the fetish themselves.

There are so many people on here for so many different reasons. But you don't ever need to part with your cash to be part of this community. It is your choice if you wish to do that, but remember you are not just your wallet! Unless that's your 'THING' of course!

The admin team are working hard to remove advertising and solicitous posts, content and profiles to clamp down on this sort of thing, as it has become rampant on the site. So...


* If you are worried there is a scammer on site, report this to the mod team.

* If you experience someone begging, advertising and soliciting constantly on the site, report them to the mod team.

* We have introduced verified profiles to try and get round the scammers. However these profiles should also not be soliciting. So if you interact with a verified profile member and they are asking for payment on or off site... report this to the mod team.

I prefer the boxer brief look on guys. It looks smooth and sleek. Especially if you have large thighs... 😉

HungryPiggyBoy:
I would be interested in either midlands or manchester meetups

LondonFA:
let's keep the thread alive until stuff hopefully blows over

HorrorDoll:
Most likely be next year now.

LondonFA:
I have a sinking feeling you're right. In calderdale were still at T2, but my office is in THE like the rest of manc and cases are still rising.

FF Zoom drinks?

HorrorDoll:
Id be game smiley

If c00kie sorts it out smiley


Haha I don't mind if someone else wants to take the reins.

Could be fun having a an FF Zoom drinks night though!

Hi all,

We are currently looking to revamp the look and feel of the website with a new color scheme, layout, font and logo...

This is a very very basic mock up... as you can tell with things not being quite in line and backgrounds not filled in around texts...

However we would love your opinion about this new look! This is not the finished article by any means but it is a big change to what we have currently... We have tried to go for a more modern look, with bright bold fun colors.

Let us know what you think! What do you like about it, what do you not like, how do you feel about the dark background, how do you think it compares with the current look etc...

Look forward to hearing your thoughts and feedback!

fantasyfeeder.com/pics/photo

Thank you for your suggestion. I have made a similar request to the site owner to introduce a favorites feature that focuses on content rather than profiles. This way you can 'favorite' the pics, videos and story content you enjoy and would like to see again easily.

Hopefully this is something we can introduce as a new feature to the site in the future.

How? I want too.

To apply for an earners account simpl click the links at the bottom of the page.

Choose Web Models if you upload pics and video content.

Choose Story authors if you upload story content.

Once you have submitted the form this will go to the FF Team inbox and someone will be in contact with you.

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FF Team