SumoSized:
So I strongly believe everyone regardless of if they're going for a muscle chub look or just straight up fat, should try implementing some amount of exercise into their routine.

Canuck:
i think this is good advice. i went cold turkey off of exercising when i started to gain, and now - several years later and a few hundred pounds heavier - i am really struggling to get back into it. but one of the other side effects of starting to exercise again has been that i sleep much more soundly!

Munchies:
I'm rootin for ya!

A lot of people stop exercising when they commit to gaining. And I get the logic. It's a great way to put on pounds. But that is one of the most foolhardy things you can do - especially if you are an extreme gainer.

Gotta stay active - even if it's only light exercise.

Canuck:
i've never truly wanted to be immobile, but the fantasy is a very arousing one for me, under the right conditions.

early this year emily and i were on a weekend away, and i got a tiny glimpse of immobility... we had a romantic dinner out and we back at the place we'd rented. we shed our clothes and started to make out, and she said she wanted to feed me. i happened to sit on a reclining chair (the lazy boy style), and when she climbed up on me, the chair felt back into recline mode.

she fed me and teased me, and eventually when she was out of food she climbed off me. she summoned me to join her in bed. i tried to push the seat forward, but i couldn't get it to move. i was wedged in pretty tight between the arms, too so i couldn't shift my butt very much either, especially with the weight of my stuffed belly resting on my lap. i asked her for help, for her to help push the chair back into a seated position so i could squeeze out of it. as soon as she realized the position i was in, her eyes lit up.

that was the most realistic immobility play we ever had - i was really trapped by my own bulk. and it was really, really hot, as she teased me and had her way with me, and even forced me to eat some more!

so this has popped up in my fantasies from time to time since.

MickRidem:
Oh wow, that is so hot.

I've had a lot of fantasies but have never experienced anything even remotely close irl.

Munchies:
Reminds me of the first time I stuffed my feedee so much he literally couldn't move.

It's one of those things that are fun for 30 minutes but then you wanna get up.

BigBallBellyGirl:
Yep! Like Thanksgiving 2023 for me. It's all fun and games until you can't sit up, much less stand, but you have to pee

Munchies:
Lol! That's exactly what happened to him.

HectorBalloon:
Heard about some guy doing this in South Korea - got obese to avoid conscription. He was somehow found out and got arrested and punished.

Enas:
What the f*ck? Really? Can you give source for this?

HectorBalloon:
www.nbcnews.com/news/world/south-korean-man-convicted-binge-eating-avoid-military-service-rcna181772

Lianaxx:
Hey, I’ve been thinking a lot about this kink and where it comes from for me. I’m addicted to thinking… it’s a problem… Anyway, I don’t want to remove any enjoyment for anyone, so please only read/engage if this is also a topic that interests you. I’ve noticed that I have something in common with anyone I’ve had long-term feederism experiences with. We were all enmeshed/emotionally parentified as children by our mothers (some still are, while others are more like me and as adults have realized the enmeshment and have become empowered to create boundaries). I’m going to give a quick explanation of what I mean below, but I suggest googling “enmeshment” and “parentification” for a far better, less reductive explanation. What I mean by enmeshed/parentified is that our mothers made us in some way believe we were responsible for their wellbeing and that we needed to/still need to meet our mother’s needs, so they can be happy. This is incorrect and unhealthy. A parent is responsible for fulfilling their own needs and their child’s needs, not visa versa. (Please note: this is different than your parents growing old or being sick and you deciding to help them. I’m talking about a completely capable adult putting undue and unfair expectation on a child into adulthood. Their wellbeing was made to be your responsibility.)

Anyway, I’m wondering if there’s a correlation here indicative of the greater feederism kink, or if it just so happens these are the people within the kink I happened to be gravitating to. If anyone is willing to look at their own relationship with their mother and tell me if it coincides or doesn’t, I’d so appreciate the dialogue. Also, if you’ve noticed any of your own correlations from your own experiences, would love to hear about that as well. I understand this is a vulnerable topic and some may not want to go there (totally fair, always keep yourself safe!), but if anyone feels open to talking about it, please do. If you’re not interested in talking about it, please be respectful and don’t engage.

Munchies:
Yeah ... I don't buy into that. That might be true for some people but not for most. This is a very Freudian way of thinking.

(As a side note, Freud is the "father" of psychology due to the sheer number of people that got into the science specifically to prove him wrong.)

For example, I got into this because I think fat men are hot. There's no childhood trauma surrounding this. I love the way they look and feel. I also love cooking and I want a man that will appreciate what I make.

I briefly got into gaining, but that was because I was sickly for so many years and hated how underweight I was. Once I went from slim to thick, I lost interest in gaining. Plus, I always preferred watching people get fat - especially men.

HectorBalloon:
Heard about some guy doing this in South Korea - got obese to avoid conscription. He was somehow found out and got arrested and punished.

Hhhggg:
Nice idea, with the German military that wouldn’t be that hard you „ just“ need a bmi of 35.
so for a man standing 6 ft that would only be 255 pounds.

So not that unrealistic of a GF to put 50-80 pounds on her boyfriend

Love the idea

Munchies:


Enas:
You dont get a refund in BALKANS!

Munchies:
Someone has the sense of humor of a rock.

Enas:
You cant get a refund for balkans either.

Munchies:
I don't think you could afford to buy your country anyway.

Munchies:
Wait ...

You went to school for an art major and they didn't make you do an anatomy class as a core credit? And you went to a private college?

Even an American community college would make you take a basic biology course to get a general education degree.

You really need to get that refund. Bless your heart.

Enas:
The anatomy class had to do with volumes. How a skeleton is structured and how muscles wrap around it. And it was conducted by someone who, had no biology qualifications. 😁

Munchies:


Enas:
I live in an area of the world which is called balkan! 😪

Munchies:


Enas:
You dont get a refund in BALKANS!

Munchies:
Someone has the sense of humor of a rock.