PlumpkinQueen:
So first that comes to mind is Lizzo by Moone Walker, it had me in a chokehold for quite sometime. Then “Just A Lil Thic” by Trinidad James ft Lil Dicky. And of course “Fat Bottomed Girls” by Queen which might be the best feedee anthem of all time.

But I’d love to hear more songs about loving my belly, my thighs, and my happy, growing body. Songs that make me feel good about my gluttonous cravings and getting bigger. The right song can make you feel so confident and beautiful, and I'd love to have a playlist full of them!

What are your favorite songs that make you feel good about your body? Do you have any go-to tunes for a gluttonous meal or a happy tummy? I'd love to hear your suggestions! 🎶

ThePlusSizeWife:
Have you ever seen or heard about a man who liked thin women becoming hot for bigger women after his wife becomes fat ?

Most of this is a copy and paste from when I asked this question on reddit. One thing that I (31f) appreciate about my husband (27m) is that he doesn't usually lie to make people feel better. If he thinks that his opinion would hurt someone's feelings, he will keep it to himself unless he is asked. I don't know why this happened but after the wedding, I just packed on the weight. Maybe an explanation is because he said I could quit the job I had since I didn't like it, and that I could stay at home.


My husband was still loving and passionate but I wanted to know what he was thinking. I asked him if I was still as sexy as I was when we were engaged. He said he still loves me but I'm too fat for his current tastes. He said but since I got big, the look of a bigger woman had been slowingly becoming more appealing to him. He said he's known men who end up being hot for bigger women a few years after their wives got fat. He also said he's seem my mom and other relatives, so he knew this would likely happen.


I appreciate the bluntness and what he said about how views me is believable. But I do feel insecure. He's a very conventionally attractive, wealthy man. I do fear competition from other women. But my husband has shown even more physical affection since our talk. He said he wants to try new things. I do want to believe him but things are more believable when one hears about other people going through it. Have you ever seen or heard about a man becoming hot for bigger women after his wife gets fat ?

Letsmakemegrow:
Why do I want to get fat so badly! Despite the risks… I used to ignore the risks (in my teenage years), but now that I'm an adult, I really want to get fat because it makes me happy!! Fat is happiness, fat is love, feederism is life! I know it can be unhealthy! And yet I still want to stuff myself!! Make myself fat!! And everything about feederism turns me on!

Forcefatter:
Hello friends, first post on here.
I have been dating my partner for a year and a half. They have been supportive despite this not being their kink/interest.

They finally told me that what I'm doing makes them nervous and that they worry about my health, which is a very valid concern. I have put on 60 pounds since we have been dating for reference.

The main sticking point is they said that it would be ok if I get to my goal weight but they wouldn't want me to stay there long term.

Not sure what to think of this and this is such a niche topic I'm not sure where else to bring it.
I guess I kinda wish she was into it and not just being ok with it. As we know there's no guarantee I stop at my goal weight as it's really fun to gain.
Anyway would love to hear the community's thoughts

Letsmakemegrow:
Feederism is the best thing ever! Fat is the only thing that turns me on! All my life!! Gaining weight is the best thing ever! It turns me on! But "afterward" it always makes me insecure! And I feel weird! And ashamed... What can I do about it? The last time I had it, I got into such a slump that I've now lost 28 kilos!

While I was finally getting fatter and happier! My belly started to sag... my fat was visible everywhere, and I was finally happy in my body.

Any tips?

I really want my fat back

Spoilsandriches:
It seems like I don't have a lot of variety, I think that may help

Munchies:
Do certain foods trigger it? Or is it the amount?

Spoilsandriches:
it's usually the amount

Munchies:
My advice is stuff yourself to the point before you get nauseous. Then, sip some mint or ginger tea and let things settle for a bit. When you feel ready, eat some more.

Drugsarefunny:
I've been reading Munchies' comments for years, and she's ALWAYS right. Her advice is excellent, and she knows what he's talking about. Listen to her and don't push yourself; rest and continue eating later. Over time, you may be able to eat more without feeling nauseous, but take it slowly.

Romy:
The best plan is to find someone to take care of you.
Not working is the least of the problems for someone with that level of obesity. Even the fact that you won't be leaving your house is the least of the problems.

Adiposemaxiumus:
He was a 18th century man who grew to over 700lbs and became a curiosity of the wealthy.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daniel_Lambert

Munchies:
700 lbs in the 18th century is truly an impressive feat.

Adiposemaxiumus:
Yeah. He died at 39, so there must have been some medical condition involved

Saint77:
“I wonder if wearing a prosthetic belly out in public helps people explore their feelings about wanting to gain. Anyone here tried it and want to share how it went?

Adiposemaxiumus:
He was a 18th century man who grew to over 700lbs and became a curiosity of the wealthy.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daniel_Lambert[/quote]

700 lbs in the 18th century is truly an impressive feat.