Glitter Jelly:
I will check out your link.
It says > 25 is too high for a woman, this year it was 27 in March, 30 in July and 33 in October...
A high prolactin can also make you gain weight. I'm freaking out.
Breathe, girl.
Breathe1. This is fixable.
2. You are not a failure for gaining weight.
3. You are not going to die.
You know your prolactin levels are high, but you don't know why. Keep advocating for yourself, and you will find the answers you seek. In the meantime, you can do some symptom management at home. It will make things more bearable.
Before I went to the doctor for an official PCOS diagnosis, I did at-home symptom management. Sure, it didn't cure me, but it helped me to function better. If I didn't do it, I think I would have been an invalid in bed full of pain.
And lean on your partner for support. It sounds like he cares deeply for you and your wellbeing. Remember that you are not alone. You have people in your life who are willing to step up and help you. You need to let them.