Fantasy Feeder

What is it you value (most) in a serious relationship?

For me it boils down to being a kind human being with passions I can relate to!

Shared nerdy interests and a willingness to have silly or insightful discussions about them are important to me; not only do I want to be able to spend time with someone doing something I'd enjoy anyway, but I also want to be able to reminisce and geek out about these things when we're just chatting. It comes down to me wanting to be able to be friends with someone as a foundation to the relationship.

A willingness to communicate and an open mind are vitally important to me. My life partner has spoiled me in this regard; they don't beat around the bush or play mind games, and it's that honesty that allows us to go through our relationship without the fear of tiptoeing around one another. This isn't the same as being inconsiderate of each other's feelings; it's about trusting one another with our feelings, whatever they may be.

I like people who have a passion or ambition they work toward. I want to be able to cheer someone on and for them to ramble about something that might go over my head at first. People who can teach me something new through their enthusiastic example give me joy when they show that enthusiasm to me, especially because I really feel like I am joining them in their adventure through life! (What can I say, I love a good story!)

Appearance does matter to me to a certain degree; my tastes tend away from the "sorority girl" look and much more toward the "subversive queer" look, likely because my best friends though my life fall among the latter. Apart from that, good hygiene is important as hell, and a genuine smile is really attractive.

Finally, people who treat service workers with kindness and respect are sexy as hell

3 years

PolyPinoyPuppy

Girlfriend has been getting lazier. is she teasing me for being into big girls? (feedback & tips

mattycakes:
So I’ve been with my girlfriend for a year now and she’s always been pretty actively fit and outgoing. She’s had six-pack abs and would always be judgmental about her figure. Well she knows when we started dating that I’ve dated bigger girls in the past but I had never said anything about my fat fetish or that I wished she would gain weight for me. I love her whatever size she wants to be and am always supportive to her. A couple of months ago she had noticed that I used to have a Feabie account from before we met. Not going to lie I was a so nervous and scared she’d leave me. I told her that I’m into thicker bigger girls but that I’m into thin girls like you too. Of course I still prefer a chubbier girl more. She kind of just gave me the “Mhmmm” with a little sly smirk and went back to doing what she was. I didn’t know what to think at that moment.

Now as of recently, like six weeks ago I starting noticing that she wouldn’t go to the gym like she always would, practically everyday she would. When we go out to eat and she’s full, she’ll at times lift her shirt up and start rubbing/holding it saying that she looks so pregnant right now and she’ll smile with a little giggle as well. It’s the same way on the way home when she’s in the car. When we’re laying together and we have a tickle war, I go for a little of her newly-added pudge and she just laughs and says “Baby, that’s my fat” I would just tell her that I like it on her and that I think she’s hot as always. I’ve told her once that i you’ve been even more beautiful and attractive to me. Not to mention that sex has been a lot better with her new curves. Her butt has gotten much bigger and her tits have even grown a bit too. Not much of a change though. There’s been more pudge to grab in places. There’s no question that we’ve been more fun and adventurous lately in the bedroom.

I’d like to see her gain a bit more weight, I feel as if she’s been enjoying it but then again I’m not sure if she’s just trying to tease me about it cause she knows I’m into bigger girls than she is. I’m wondering if I should approach it with her and ask if she’s noticing these things or if I should just sit back and see where it goes for another couple months?

Tell her outright (if you haven't already) that you're enjoying the extra pudge on her, and ask her if she's enjoying it too. It seems like she's reacting positively, but having each other's tastes out in the open can only be a good thing.

Even if she answers that she doesn't want to gain more and would even want to lose weight, this would be something she would eventually decide on her own if you had left things unsaid. Either way, by being openly communicative, you gain the opportunity to be supportive of her choice.

Leaving these things unsaid invites you both to try to read each other's minds, and that's a dangerous game.

3 years

PolyPinoyPuppy

Upgrade button visible on others' profiles?

I don't think I've ever seen this before, but there is a user whose profile I visited and noticed I could see the upgrade button to the right of the follow button. Otherwise, from my examination, their profile looked normal.

Reloading the page did not make the upgrade button disappear. I did not press the upgrade button to see what would happen.

I can DM a FF team member with more details.

3 years

PolyPinoyPuppy

Polls?

Obviously there are things like strawpoll and Google Surveys, but it'd be neat to be able to post and react to polls entirely on this site.

3 years

PolyPinoyPuppy

All day stuffing

myskillerzz:
To set the scenario and a bit about my body, I have the house to myself for 6 days in a few weeks. I thought I would love to be able to try to do some sort of all day stuffing. I’m a tall, skinny guy and my capacity isn’t huge. I’m not expecting a HUGE difference but I wanted to see what I can do and just want to get as big as I can. I want to start early and end late to get as much time in as I can.

I had a few questions and need some advice/tips with this:

1. Since I have some time before I attempt it, is there anything I should be doing to prepare?
2. What are some types of foods to avoid and types of foods to definitely indulge in? I know to vary what I’m eating so I don’t get sick off of one thing.
3. What drinks should I avoid/drink? Soda, water, juice?
4. I thought one day I would just try to bloat as big as I can rather than stuff my face. For example, soda/beer, maybe a cake shake (never tried it but it seems like a good way to bloat up). What would be best achieve this feeling?

Any other advice would be greatly appreciated!

0. Most people won't see a significant, lasting difference in weight from a day of overeating; a week might get you closer, but if your goal is long-term growth, habits are stronger than binges. That isn't to say you shouldn't try this; it sounds like something you'll enjoy making a special occasion out of!

1. Think about ways to make the aftermath easier to deal with from a logistical standpoint. Prepare the rooms that you plan to do this in so that they're easy to clean, laying down a sheet that you can toss in the wash instead of having to vacuum or sweep up any crumbs. Things like that.

2. Everyone extols the virtues of heavy cream for gaining quickly, but remember that dairy and other fatty foods can cause heartburn, which will quickly put a damper on your enjoyment. If you eat foods that are known to cause heartburn (there are plenty of lists of these online), get ready to manage the symptoms.

3. Drink water--real, actual water without additives. It doesn't have to be all you drink, but things like caffeinated beverages are diuretics, which can cause increased urination, on top of their high sodium content. Dehydration isn't fun. If you like, buy a big 2 liter (or several) of plain, carbonated water/seltzer and wash food down with that. Otherwise, smoothies and other blended drinks that contain actual fruits/veggies will help balance whatever junk you decide to binge on during that week.

4. YMMV, but the last time I tried a cake shake from Portillos, I couldn't finish it. It wasn't a capacity thing; the sheer sweetness of the mix actually just killed my appetite, and I usually have a sweet tooth. If your goal for that day is bloating, diet carbonated beverages and light ice cream might get you further than you expect from the fact that they're supposed to be "low-calorie." The goal is to reach and maintain a heavy feeling of fullness. Starchy foods (rice and the like) will help soak up whatever you drink and lead to that longer-lasting bloat.

3 years

PolyPinoyPuppy

Feeding machine fantasies (not tube and liquid based) ? sci-fi but maybe not?

I think the technology exists now. Computer vision is really sophisticated, and there are lots of examples of AI learning to perform tasks that are close to what you describe:

futurism.com/the-byte/robot-hot-dogs-cook-serve

Whether or not something like what you describe would be feasible to install in a household would be a different matter. But I think a robot consisting of a base for going from the kitchen to the bedroom and an arm for unpackaging (and, potentially, preparing) food isn't out of the realm of reason. It might be expensive, and what this would look like would be different for each household. But this is far from sci-fi.

3 years

PolyPinoyPuppy

Cyoa/interactive stories and sites

Oh right, I forgot about all the itch.io interactive stories/games. Those are pretty well documented on WeightGaming as well.

Unending BE Addventure seems pretty extensive as well; this and CYOC are exactly the kinds of dedicated sites I was looking for that would be otherwise hard to find.

3 years

PolyPinoyPuppy

Cyoa/interactive stories and sites

spoop skerry:
Look for CYOC-Choose Your Own Change.

Mostly not WG, but it's there.

Oh wow, this site's design is really slick, nevermind the content. Thanks!

3 years

PolyPinoyPuppy

Cyoa/interactive stories and sites

When I think of interactive stories, I immediately think of Writing.com. Are there any other good sites for feederism-related CYOA and interactive stories?

Of course, I suppose even FF could be a site for CYOA; in physical books, you normally have a choice at the end of each scene with a page number directing you to where your choice would lead. Though cumbersome, you can put the chapter number for your choice in the URL and proceed through the story that way.

Actually, can you put hyperlinks in stories?

3 years

PolyPinoyPuppy

Should you get fat?

84% You Should Get Chubby

Stuff like this reminds me I have a decent mutual streak haha. I appreciate how well written the questions and answers were. It's reminiscent of some of the better CYOA/interactive stories I've read. Time to start a new topic, now that those are on my mind.

3 years

PolyPinoyPuppy