Faust:
I’d personally really like to see more vampire feederism stories! I don’t see a lot of vampire content in the feedism world :[
Have you read Hunting for Pleasure?
fantasyfeeder.com/weight-gain-stories/view/title/hunting+for+pleasure/author/BattybattybattybatIt came out last Halloween and it's really good. We'll do a horror theme for next month's Theme club, so I'll be sure to mention vampires to put them in people's heads!
(If you're already thinking about spooky stories for October...vampires)
8 months
Nate Loves His BBW Wife:
I'm going through something that's kind of similar if you squint. My wife of nearly 10 years (together 15) is going to start one of those new weight loss drugs this month. I am being supportive of her decision and have meal plans and options ready for her. I've listened to her goals and done research into what targets should be set/hit to get her there. I not leaving her over this, regardless of how this turns out.
That said, I do have my own feelings about, and thankfully I was already in therapy long before this decision was made.
We never had a feeder/feedee arrangement, but rather a dynamic that served her inclination to eat and my desire to make sure she had food and see her eat it. She'd ask for a large MCD's order and I'd skip out the front door with a huge smile to get it. I'd bring home a tub of peanut butter cups that she'd asked for and watch her binge almost the whole tub. Everybody happy.
Problem was we had never talked about it or how we felt while we were engaged in this dynamic. She seemed to enjoy eating whatever I'd brought so I didn't see the guilt and shame she felt. She saw me as a dutiful husband running errands for her, never imagining I could be feeling excited and aroused to pick up lunch.
Sorry for so much typing, but I'm here for support too. I can tell this stuff to my therapist but I think it will be different talking with people who really get it.
So I guess what I'd recommend first is being honest with yourself. Sometimes this can mean be mindful of not just what you're feeling but what caused those feelings. If you can sort that, you may find it easier to sift needs from preferences and bring things in to focus.
Once you've got that it easier to communicate those needs without the noise, and I wish I had had the tools to do that much sooner. I'm still working on it and catch myself softening my meaning instead of saying what I mean (but now I notice when I do it, and I sometimes know why).
Lastly, listen with the purpose of understanding. If there's something you don't quite get, ask for clarification or if there is another way to say it. If there's something you'd like to make a point on during a tough conversation, wait. Make sure you know exactly what your partner said and how they feel. Sometimes they might not know exactly what they're feeling, but they might gain some understanding by talking about it when you are listening with intent and asking questions to help your own understanding of your partner.
Again, sorry for being long winded, but I'm new here and nervous; and apparently this is what that looks like for me...
I think that was a very thoughtful post
8 months
Thank you to everyone who participated in the questions last month. I hope it was interesting to someone. At least it was different. Back to writing this month, though.
Prompted by talk in another thread, the September theme is unrealistic weight gain. So think old-school flavor: magic potions, curses, science experiments gone wrong. Let your imagination go wild, or come up with something completely different, we're just aiming for more fantasy than reality.
A chapter or two is great, more if the muse takes you.
If you're going to participate, please post in the thread and link to the story so people can read it and give feedback. Please keep critiques constructive, but please do critique! You all write amazing stuff and it's important to be recognized.
If you feel stuck and want to brainstorm, feel free to use the thread to chat.
The rules of the event are the same as always:
1) In addition to being about weight gain or body positivity, stay on the monthly theme, which should be easy because the topics will be very wide and open to interpretation.
2) Try to stick to something under 5,000 words, but if the muse overtakes you, that's great, too!
3) Post in the thread! Let us know if you're playing, have questions, want to chat, and when you have a story to share. Post a link!
4) Just like with all the stories on this site, zero characterizations of minors are allowed. Hate and bigotry have no place in this event.
5) Feedback by authors and readers is very welcome, but keep it constructive. All different skill levels of writers are encouraged to participate, so I ask everyone to be helpful and encouraging. If you've never given (or received) constructive criticism for creative writing before, here's a short essay that could be helpful: www.marykole.com/constructive-criticism
Happy writing!
8 months
SquishMaster:
It was a huge trend like 10-15 years ago but I miss all the "magical/supernatural/etc" fattening stories. Maybe not the ray-gun-type stuff, but like, a person gets cursed and gets fatter by the hour. Or wakes up fat, and has to deal with that. Or fattens up inexplicably every time they sneeze. Stuff like that.
Stories like "noarthereonlyfat"s old stuff where it wasn't remotely realistic, but MAN if it wasn't hot lol.
And there are definitely still stories like that being written, but I feel like for the most part the trends have shifted to more "realistic"-type gains, and/or longer-form stories that take place over dozens of chapters.
We need a new topic for September, so maybe this would be a good one!
8 months
Someone else might be able to give more info, but I’ll give it a go.
When someone who viewed your profile is deletes their account, it leaves behind a ghost like that with no name. I might be wrong on this part, but then if the user was logging in with a VPN it defaults to that Fiji flag when they quit the site. So if I’m right, all of those accounts who viewed you were using VPN. I’m sure they weren’t all from Fiji.
I’m pretty sure that doesn’t happen when someone is banned, only when they delete their account.
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I had a run like that at one point, maybe earlier in the year. Same thing, every day or couple of days the ghost from Fiji hit me. I don’t know if anyone knew why at the time.
I will say that it’s sort of the nature of a site like this where you get people who create and delete their accounts. Maybe they’re married or have guilt/shame issues. Maybe they have very unorthodox internet usage habits. Who knows. There are people who constantly create and delete accounts. I don’t know why. I don’t think they’re up to no good. It’s just what they do. But it definitely feels weird to have a run of views like that. Honestly, I don’t like being able to see who viewed my account, period. But that’s just me.
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