Kinkyfayboy4U:
So yeah let's see I'm a really big guy, always have been. Virgin, never had a GF in my life and being really big doesn't help. I have been trying to find a lady online for a long time, she doesn't even have to be local and I can't seem to find one. I do everything the right way, I'm respectful and kind but so far no luck at all and its very depressing.
So then I joined here and on Feabie.com recently thinking "hey maybe I might find someone" but as usual nothing....noda..zip.
Sure it takes time and all but it still makes me feel like crap that even on a website with a ton of big people like me I can't find anyone.
It makes me think...am I really that shitty?
just figured I would post this so the other big guys who feel the same don't feel alone in what seems like a never ending struggle of lonelyness.
I know what you are going through. Never give up on going after what you want. Many of us here know your pain and can serve as sounding boards until things get better.
9 years
RVGleason:
I'm 5'8 and fluctuate between 230-235.
You are just one inch away from being at the height of an average american adult male and with shoes, you are at least 5'9. 😀
9 years
Lvbbwgirl:
And why do you have the right to comment on my body I personally would like the world had no poverty crime illness and every guy look like Brad Pitt and cook like guy Wolfgang puck but the world is full of all kinds of different and beautiful people I would hate it if the world only had one flower how boring the key to beauty is diversity
I understand completely. I have always found beauty in variation.Some people simply close their minds to alternative points of view.
9 years
chubbydiva:
Four years ago, when I was at a shopping mall; I decided to weigh myself on the scale at a health food store. I said to myself that I am around 210-lbs. To my amazement, I weighed in at 227.5-lbs. I've done the diets and weight loss challenges; in order to drop some pounds. That didn't last long. Earlier this year, I went from 235-lbs. to 226-lbs. in a weight loss challenge. Only to regain the pounds that I had lost. I never was in denial of being or becoming fat. When I first hit 200-lbs., I accepted the fact of being fat. Now, I'm in the 230's, I'm proud of the fact that I am fat.
I feel the same way. While am aware that being smaller may or may not bennifit my life in terms of longevity, am okay with being on the heavier side until I find a reason to slim down. I have not faired out well in losing weight so far so I'm content with being pleasingly plump.
9 years
Being stuffed with pastries by a woman who was certainly in control. I love women of all shapes and sizes. One hot fantasy that I have is one in which a woman who was taller than me (not hard to find being that I'm 5'4 in shoes) taking complete control in feeding me until I was round.
9 years
softy4rollz:
I always feel bad saying this, but I mainly prefer tall guys. That being said I myself am tall (5'11). So for me it just comes down to not wanting to feel bigger than my counterpart. Especially liking larger men I want to overall feel smaller in height and weight. Obviously this isn't the case for everyone
You should not feel bad for your preferences. Look it is what it is. Short men/short fat men have it hard in most cases. Life is not fair. All that we can do is just to keep pressing foward with what is available
9 years
softy4rollz:
I always feel bad saying this, but I mainly prefer tall guys. That being said I myself am tall (5'11). So for me it just comes down to not wanting to feel bigger than my counterpart. Especially liking larger men I want to overall feel smaller in height and weight. Obviously this isn't the case for everyone
You should not feel bad for your preferences. Look it is what it is. Short men/short fat men have it hard in most cases. Life is not fair. All that we can do is just to keep pressing foward with what is available
9 years
Dolkite:
This may not make you feel better, but as a tall guy, I resent my height often because it means I get stereotyped. I'm also bald, so the girls interested in me are those who want the cop/firefighter type. Nothing against those professions, but I'm more interested in reading books and watching movies than sports or other "manly" stuff.
I see. If it wasn't that, it would be something else. I think that there are not as many women feeders as there are men feeders. What can be considered less likely is women feeders who like males who are of a short stature. Why is life so complex?
9 years
latinabbwlover:
I like 5"6 and up.
I understand completely. My experience in reviewing the patterns of responses on what women feeders seem to want has led me to believe that they are specifically looking for taller men. It is what it is. They seem to want a man who is at least as tall as they are. This is a free world so everyone should be able to choose what suits them. Of course us short men can not be particularly pleased with this female inclination but we can respect their right to seek what gives them the most satisfaction, We all do the same thing. Height or weight to me has never mattered very much but I also have certain fetishes that have to be a certain way in order for them to function properly.
9 years
This topic might seem strange to some however, I feel strongly compelled to introduce it as I have had many questions concerning the subject of how most women who consider themselves feeders react to the stature of a man. Growing up, I was for the most part, the shortest person in the room. Do most women who are feeders prefer a taller/seemingly imposing man? Is it that some of the women who are feeders prefer a shorter partner? Perhaps shorter than they are? I'm sure that there are variations.
9 years
