I was working on this for awhile with a few others and I finally concluded that there are no special ethics for feeders or feedees.

Feeding relationships require mutual respect, honesty, and the honoring of promises, just as non-feeding relationships do.

A regular large (14" pizza is about 4000 calories, so it's really no big deal.

The article says "experts" are afraid people will think it's just for one person and eat more than they intend. But come on. It's a bit late in the day to start drawing lines in the sand.

I want to see "Maggie Gains Even More Weight"!

Another example: a baby monkey will learn to fear snakes if he sees his mother reacting fearfully to a snake, but he can't learn fear of, say, potatoes this way. So it's just like you say...he has an inherited fear of snakes that needs an environmental trigger to activate it.

Back to the original topic:

I don't think religion matters much if it's a casual relationship. But if you're talking marriage/having kids, OF COURSE you want to marry someone with the same religion, especially if you have one of those "everybody-besides-us-is-going-to-hell" religions. You want to raise your kids thinking that there is no other choice. If the parents have different religions, they'll think, at best, that choice of religion is arbitrary and at worst " Daddy is going to hell and we're all going to heaven." Which is a pretty awful thing to tell your children, in my book.

So I don't blame people for breaking up over this.


NOTE: Personally I'm an atheist or agnostic, depending on how you define the terms.

A gallon of eggnog is 5488 calories, so yes, nice supplement.

While those things are part of feederism they are certainly not the "essence" of it.

Oh, yeah, just remembered: I know of at least two cases where sisters turned out to both be feedees...

I don't know, but I suspect that it's a combination of genetics and experience.

They've found a gene that causes a person to become an abusive, violent adult, but only if he's abused in childhood. If he's not abused, or doesn't have the gene, he'll grow up normally.

I suspect sexual fetishes are similar.

Anyway, I would still agree that nothing's wrong with you.



Wild guess: Between 5% and 40%.



Wild guess: Between 2% and 5%.

I HATE "plumper"!