Other people here have already said what I've often said before- feederism and weight gain is something for the bedroom like BDSM, but a fat partner is not.
It's alright to hide a fetish, but not a person. And it's very, very worth it to not hide anyone in the closet and openly be in the arms of someone you love and accepts you for exactly who you are, than be with people, even if they're the family who've raised you and been around you your whole life, who refuse to do the same for you. Remember that.
NyanMuffins wrote:
Chances are, if your parents love you, they won't make any horribly nasty comments about your partner. The same should apply to your friends, and anybody else who matters in your life.
This in particular. If they're intolerant about it, well, that's their problem, isn't it. Not
your problem. Don't be afraid of them getting especially toxic- people usually aren't, and if they are, well, you still need to force your way anyway. Better than hiding like a coward all your life, you know? Make your
own life, not the one they want to dictate to you.
You like what you like, and they can never take that away from you, either. They can't get inside your head and pull those feelings out. So no matter what you have to do... even if you'd rather it not be harsh...
force your way. A shining El Dorado of the heart lies at the end of the path if you do. Nothing feels better than being yourself and being with the one you love. And you can bet it's damn well worth it.